Free English Class! Topic: Manners! ๐Ÿ’ถ๐Ÿคซ (Lesson Only)

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When you learn the English language it is as much about learning new vocabulary and phrases as it is about understanding culture. In this English lesson you'll learn English words and phrases that you can use when you are talking about good manners and bad manners. Because many people see things differently in the world, some of the things that I will help you learn might be considered bad manners in my country, but not in yours! I think this will be a very interesting English lesson! In this free English class I'll help you learn words and phrases like: chewing with you mouth open, not putting your feet on the table, not reaching to grab something at dinner, talking during movies, borrowing without returning, and many more! Thanks for watching this English lesson about manners! โŒ› Remember: Always watch the video three times. Twice today with English subtitles on, and once tomorrow with the English subtitles off. This will reinforce the English you have learned! -- โœ… Support Me and Get These Members Only Perks: ๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ’ฒ If you would like to become a member of my channel here is the link: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCZJJTxA36ZPNTJ1WFIByaeA/join Becoming a member at every level has these benefits and perks: 1) For 10 minutes during each live stream you will be able to participate in the "Members Only" chat. 2) A cool crown beside your name during live streams and when making comments on videos. 3) Your name in green during live stream lesson chat. 4) You will have access to a members only video each Wednesday called, "Wednesdays with Bob". These are behind the scenes bonus videos with full English transcripts for your listening practice. 5) A full transcript for every Tuesday video. โœ… Join now to receive these perks: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCZJJTxA36ZPNTJ1WFIByaeA/join I really appreciate those you that have chosen to thank me in this way! Please only support me if you can afford it! If you prefer to support me via Patreon, here is a link to that page: https://www.patreon.com/bobthecanadian Thank you for your generosity! -- โœ…SEND ME A POSTCARD: Bob the Canadian P.O. Box 419 Smithville, Ontario Canada L0R2A0 -- TAKE YOUR ENGLISH CONVERSATIONS TO THE NEXT LEVEL: โœ…Talk to a real English tutor / teacher at preply: http://tracking.preply.com/SH2X (This is an affiliate, signing up for this service helps support my channel). -- FOLLOW ME: โœ… I have a second Youtube channel right here: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCmW5tmKIBrryNf5n-_A6Fmw โœ… P.S. If you are interested I have created a podcast of my shorter English lessons. It is right here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1310116 -- #englishlesson #learnenglish #bobthecanadian **Note: All images used under: CC0 License โœ“ Free for personal and commercial use โœ“ No attribution required From pexels.com or pixabay.com

Instruction

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00:00
Well hello and welcome to this English lesson about manners.
ใ“ใ‚“ใซใกใฏใ€ ใƒžใƒŠใƒผใซใคใ„ใฆใฎใ“ใฎ่‹ฑ่ชžใƒฌใƒƒใ‚นใƒณใธใ‚ˆใ†ใ“ใใ€‚
00:04
Believe it or not there are good manners and there are bad
ไฟกใ˜ใ‚‰ใ‚Œใชใ„ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใŒใ€ ใƒžใƒŠใƒผใฏ่‰ฏใ„ใ‚‚ใฎใ‚‚ๆ‚ชใ„ใ‚‚ใฎใ‚‚ใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™
00:06
manners. If you aren't sure what manners are it's the way
ใ€‚ ใƒžใƒŠใƒผใŒใ‚ใ‹ใ‚‰ใชใ„ๅ ดๅˆใฏใ€็คผๅ„€ๆญฃใ—ใใพใŸใฏๅคฑ็คผใช ๆ–นๆณ•ใง
00:11
we behave in life in a way that's either polite or
็งใŸใกใŒ็”ŸๆดปใฎไธญใงๆŒฏใ‚‹่ˆžใ†ๆ–นๆณ• ใงใ™
00:14
impolite. When you show good manners or when you have good
ใ€‚ ใƒžใƒŠใƒผใ‚’็คบใ™ใจใใ€ ใพใŸใฏใƒžใƒŠใƒผใ‚’ๆŒใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจใ
00:18
manners. You do things around other people that don't annoy
ใ€‚ ใ‚ใชใŸใฏๅฝผใ‚‰ใ‚’ ่‹›็ซ‹ใŸใ›ใŸใ‚Šๆ€’ใ‚‰ใ›ใŸใ‚Šใ—ใชใ„ไป–ใฎไบบใ€…ใฎๅ‘จใ‚Šใงไฝ•ใ‹ใ‚’ใ—
00:23
them or offend them. Uh you do things while you're talking or
ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใˆใˆใจใ€ ่ฉฑใ—ใŸใ‚Š
00:27
eating or just living your life that are polite and kind and
ใ€้ฃŸในใŸใ‚Šใ€ใŸใ ็”Ÿๆดปใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจใใซ ใ€็คผๅ„€ๆญฃใ—ใ่ฆชๅˆ‡ใชใ“ใจใ‚„
00:30
the sorts of things that human beings should do to each other.
ใ€ ไบบ้–“ใŒใŠไบ’ใ„ใซใ‚„ใ‚‹ในใใ“ใจใ‚’ใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
00:34
But there's also bad manners. There's things you do around
ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€ใƒžใƒŠใƒผใ‚‚ๆ‚ชใ„ใงใ™ใ€‚ ไป–ใฎไบบใฎๅ‘จใ‚Šใงใ‚ใชใŸใŒใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใฏใ€
00:37
other people that might annoy them or might make them feel
ๅฝผใ‚‰ใ‚’่‹›็ซ‹ใŸใ›ใŸใ‚Šใ€ๅฐ‘ใ—ใ ใ‘ๆ‚ชๅŒ–ใ•ใ›ใŸใ‚Šใ™ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“
00:41
just a little bit aggravated. Now I should mention something.
ใ€‚ ไปŠใ€็งใฏไฝ•ใ‹ใซ่จ€ๅŠใ™ใ‚‹ๅฟ…่ฆใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ ใƒžใƒŠใƒผ
00:45
This is an English lesson about manners. But it's also an
ใซใคใ„ใฆใฎ่‹ฑ่ชžใƒฌใƒƒใ‚นใƒณ ใงใ™ใ€‚ ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€ใใ‚Œ
00:49
English lesson about culture. Some of the things that I
ใฏๆ–‡ๅŒ–ใซใคใ„ใฆใฎ่‹ฑ่ชžใฎใƒฌใƒƒใ‚นใƒณใงใ‚‚ใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ ็งใŒ่จ€ๅŠใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใฎใ„ใใคใ‹ใฏใ€ใ“ใ“
00:53
mention might be good manners here and bad manners in your
ใงใฏ่‰ฏใ„ใƒžใƒŠใƒผ ใงใ‚ใ‚Šใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฎ
00:56
country. Some things might be bad manners here and are
ๅ›ฝใงใฏๆ‚ชใ„ใƒžใƒŠใƒผใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ใ“ใ“ใงใฏใƒžใƒŠใƒผใŒๆ‚ชใ„ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ—
01:00
totally fine in your country. So please remember that This is
ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฎๅ›ฝใงใฏใพใฃใŸใๅ•้กŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ใ—ใŸใŒใฃใฆใ€ใ“ใ‚Œ
01:03
from the perspective of a Canadian. This is an English
ใฏใ‚ซใƒŠใƒ€ไบบใฎ่ฆณ็‚นใ‹ใ‚‰ใฎใ‚‚ใฎใงใ‚ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’ๅฟ˜ใ‚Œใชใ„ใงใใ ใ•ใ„ ใ€‚
01:07
lesson about manners. But the cultural differences that
ใƒžใƒŠใƒผใซใคใ„ใฆใฎ่‹ฑ่ชžใƒฌใƒƒใ‚นใƒณใงใ™ใ€‚ ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€
01:11
you'll be seeing are maybe because I live in Canada
ใ‚ใชใŸใŒ็›ฎใซใ™ใ‚‹ๆ–‡ๅŒ–ใฎ้•ใ„ใฏ ใ€็งใŒใ‚ซใƒŠใƒ€ใซไฝใ‚“ใงใ„ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ใชใœใชใ‚‰ใ€
01:14
because I live in North America and you live somewhere else. So
็งใฏๅŒ—็ฑณใซไฝใ‚“ใงใ„ใฆ ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใฉใ“ใ‹ๅˆฅใฎๅ ดๆ‰€ใซไฝใ‚“ใงใ„ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‰ใงใ™ใ€‚ ใงใ™ใ‹ใ‚‰
01:18
it should be interesting to see whether some of the things that
ใ€็งใŒๆ€ใ†ใ“ใจใฎใ„ใใคใ‹ใŒใƒžใƒŠใƒผใงใ‚ใ‚‹ใ‹ใฉใ†ใ‹ใ‚’่ฆ‹ใ‚‹ใฎใฏ่ˆˆๅ‘ณๆทฑใ„ใฏใš
01:21
I think are good manners. Maybe you think are bad manners and
ใงใ™ใ€‚ ใŸใถใ‚“ ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใƒžใƒŠใƒผใŒๆ‚ชใ„ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ—
01:24
and vice versa as well. But I'm super excited to have you here
ใ€ใใฎ้€†ใ‚‚ๅŒๆง˜ใงใ™ใ€‚ ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€ใƒžใƒŠใƒผใซใคใ„ใฆใฎใ“ใฎ่‹ฑ่ชžใฎใƒฌใƒƒใ‚นใƒณใฎใŸใ‚ใซ ใ“ใ“ใซใ‚ใชใŸใ‚’่ฟŽใˆใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใใฆใจใฆใ‚‚่ˆˆๅฅฎใ—ใฆใ„ใพใ™
01:29
for this English lesson about manners. Interrupt So
ใ€‚ ไธญๆ–ญใ—ใŸใŒใฃใฆใ€
01:33
interrupting someone when they're talking to someone else
ไป–ใฎ่ชฐใ‹ใจ่ฉฑใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจใใซ่ชฐใ‹ใ‚’ไธญๆ–ญใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใฏใ€
01:37
is not good manners. That is definitely bad manners. Um
ใƒžใƒŠใƒผใŒ่‰ฏใใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ใใ‚Œใฏ ้–“้•ใ„ใชใๆ‚ชใ„ใƒžใƒŠใƒผใงใ™ใ€‚ ไผš่ฉฑ
01:41
there are ways to insert yourself into a conversation. I
ใซ่‡ชๅˆ†่‡ช่บซใ‚’ๆŒฟๅ…ฅใ™ใ‚‹ๆ–นๆณ•ใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ ใ€‚
01:46
have a picture here of three adults talking. Sometimes
ใ“ใ“ใซ3ไบบใฎๅคงไบบใŒ่ฉฑใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ๅ†™็œŸใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ ใ€‚
01:49
adults do interrupt each other a little bit but they might say
ๅคงไบบใŒๅฐ‘ใ—้‚ช้ญ”ใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚‚ใ‚ใ‚Š ใพใ™ใŒ
01:54
something like could I just interrupt for a moment or
ใ€ใกใ‚‡ใฃใจ้‚ช้ญ”ใ—ใŸใ‚Šใ€
01:56
excuse me could I just add something to this conversation?
ใ™ใฟใพใ›ใ‚“ใŒ ใ€ใ“ใฎไผš่ฉฑใซไฝ•ใ‹ใ‚’่ฟฝๅŠ ใ—ใŸใ‚Šใงใใพใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ
02:00
Usually when we talk about interrupting we talk we're
้€šๅธธใ€็งใŸใกใŒไธญๆ–ญใซใคใ„ใฆ่ฉฑใ™ใจใใ€็ง
02:03
talking about children. Children often interrupt their
ใŸใกใฏๅญไพ›ใซใคใ„ใฆ่ฉฑใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚ ๅญไพ›ใŸใก
02:07
parents when they're having conversations. Maybe at the
ใฏใ€ไผš่ฉฑใ‚’ใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจใใซไธก่ฆชใฎ้‚ช้ญ”ใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใ‚ˆใใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ ใ€‚ ใŸใถใ‚“
02:11
grocery store if I'm talking to the cashier one of my children
้ฃŸๆ–™ๅ“ๅบ—ใง ใ€ใƒฌใ‚ธไฟ‚ใจ่ฉฑใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจใ€ๅญไพ›ใฎ1ไบบ
02:15
might interrupt and I might say to my child I might say hey
ใŒ้‚ช้ญ”ใ‚’ ใ—ใฆใ€ๅญไพ›ใซใ€Œ
02:19
please don't interrupt when dad is talking to someone else. So
ใŠ็ˆถใ•ใ‚“ ใŒไป–ใฎไบบใจ่ฉฑใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจใใฏ้‚ช้ญ”ใ—ใชใ„ใงใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€ใจ่จ€ใ†ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ใ—ใŸใŒใฃใฆ
02:23
interrupting when someone is talking never a good idea. And
ใ€่ชฐใ‹ใŒ่ฉฑใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจใใซไธญๆ–ญใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใฏ ๆฑบใ—ใฆ่‰ฏใ„่€ƒใˆใงใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ใใ—ใฆ
02:27
here's a few more pointers on how to interrupt nicely. You
ใ€ ใ†ใพใๅ‰ฒใ‚Š่พผใฟใ‚’ใ‹ใ‘ใ‚‹ๆ–นๆณ•ใซใคใ„ใฆใ€ใ•ใ‚‰ใซใ„ใใคใ‹ใฎๆŒ‡้‡ใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
02:30
could say excuse me could I just interrupt and ask a
ใ™ใฟใพใ›ใ‚“ ใ€ไธญๆ–ญใ—ใฆ
02:34
question? So you you simply say that you're interrupting and
่ณชๅ•ใ—ใฆใ‚‚ใ„ใ„ใงใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ ใ ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏๅ˜ใซ ใ‚ใชใŸใŒ้‚ช้ญ”ใ‚’ใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจ่จ€ใฃใฆ
02:37
you start with excuse me or you would say something like if I
ใ€ใ™ใฟใพใ›ใ‚“ใ‹ใ‚‰ๅง‹ใ‚ใพใ™ใ€ใพใŸใฏ็ง
02:40
could just ask a question here sorry to interrupt that would
ใŒใ“ใ“ใง่ณชๅ• ใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใใ‚Œ
02:43
be a great way to actually interrupt in a nice way chewing
ใฐใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใ‚ใชใŸใฎๅฃใง ๅ™›ใ‚€็ด ๆ™ดใ‚‰ใ—ใ„ๆ–นๆณ•ใงๅฎŸ้š›ใซ้‚ช้ญ”ใ™ใ‚‹็ด ๆ™ดใ‚‰ใ—ใ„ๆ–นๆณ•ใซใชใ‚‹ใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚ ็งใฎๅญไพ›ใŸใกใฏๅฃใ‚’
02:48
with your mouth open so this is another thing I have to laugh
้–‹ใ‘ใฆๅ™›ใพใชใ„ใ‚ˆใ†ใซใŠไบ’ใ„ใซ่จ€ใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใฎใงใ€ใ“ใ‚Œใฏ ็งใŒ็ฌ‘ใ‚ใชใ‘ใ‚Œใฐใชใ‚‰ใชใ„ใ‚‚ใ†ไธ€ใคใฎใ“ใจใงใ™ใŒ
02:53
because my own children tell each other not to chew with
02:58
their mouths open but it is considered impolite it is
03:02
considered bad manners in Canada to chew with your mouth
ใ€ ใ‚ซใƒŠใƒ€ใงใฏ้€šๅธธ้ฃŸไบ‹ใ‚’ใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจใใซๅฃใ‚’้–‹ใ‘ใฆๅ™›ใ‚€ใฎใฏใƒžใƒŠใƒผใŒๆ‚ชใ„ใจ่€ƒใˆใ‚‰ใ‚Œใฆใ„ใพใ™
03:05
open when you're having a meal usually when you take a bite of
้ฃŸใน็‰ฉใ‚’ไธ€ๅฃ
03:08
food you chew your mouth closed. It's quieter. People
้ฃŸในใ‚‹ใจใ€ๅฃใ‚’้–‰ใ˜ใฆๅ™›ใฟใพใ™ ใ€‚ ้™ใ‹ใงใ™ใ€‚ ้ฃŸใน็‰ฉใŒๅ™›ใพ
03:14
don't have to hear the sound of food being chewed. And this
ใ‚Œใฆใ„ใ‚‹้Ÿณใ‚’่žใๅฟ…่ฆใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ ใ€‚ ใใ—ใฆใ€ใ“ใ‚Œใฏไธ–็•Œใฎ
03:18
might be different in different parts of the world. But
ใ•ใพใ–ใพใชๅœฐๅŸŸใง็•ฐใชใ‚‹ๅฏ่ƒฝๆ€งใŒ ใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ—ใ‹ใ—
03:21
certainly I remember as a parent teaching my kids
็ขบใ‹ใซใ€็งใฏ่ฆชใจใ—ใฆใ€
03:25
especially when we were eating somewhere else. Teaching my
็‰นใซ็งใŸใกใŒใฉใ“ใ‹ใง้ฃŸไบ‹ใ‚’ใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจใใซๅญไพ›ใŸใกใซๆ•™ใˆใฆใ„ใŸใ“ใจใ‚’่ฆšใˆใฆใ„ ใพใ™ใ€‚ ๅฃใ‚’้–‹ใ‘ใŸใพใพ
03:30
kids not to chew with their mouth open. To chew with their
ๅ™›ใพใชใ„ใ‚ˆใ†ใซๅญไพ›ใŸใกใซๆ•™ใˆใฆใ„ ใพใ™ใ€‚
03:33
mouth closed when we're at their grandparents or in a
็งใŸใกใŒ็ฅ–็ˆถๆฏใ‚„ใƒฌใ‚นใƒˆใƒฉใƒณใซใ„ใ‚‹ใจใใซใ€ๅฃใ‚’้–‰ใ˜ใฆๅ™›ใ‚€ใ“ใจ
03:37
restaurant. Just polite and good manners. To chew with your
ใ€‚ ไธๅฏงใง็คผๅ„€ๆญฃใ—ใ„ ใ€‚
03:40
mouth closed. So there are a few things our bodies do that
ๅฃใ‚’้–‰ใ˜ใฆๅ™›ใ‚€ใ€‚ ใงใ™ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€ ็งใŸใกใฎไฝ“ใŒ้Ÿณใ‚’ๅ‡บใ™ใŸใ‚ใซ่กŒใ†ใ“ใจใŒใ„ใใคใ‹ใ‚ใ‚Š
03:45
make sounds. I'm going to talk about two of them. Burping is
ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใใฎใ†ใกใฎ2ใคใซใคใ„ใฆใŠ่ฉฑใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ’ใฃใทใฏ
03:49
one of them. A burp is when you eat food or for some other
ใใฎ1ใคใงใ™ใ€‚ ใ’ใฃใทใจใฏใ€ ้ฃŸใน็‰ฉใ‚’้ฃŸในใŸใ‚Šใ€ใใฎไป–ใฎ
03:53
reason you have some gas or air in your stomach and then you
็†็”ฑใง่ƒƒใฎไธญใซใ‚ฌใ‚นใ‚„็ฉบๆฐ—ใŒ ๅ…ฅใฃใฆใ„ใฆใ€ใ’ใฃใทใ‚’ใ—ใŸใ‚Šใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใงใ™
03:57
burp. It sounds kind of like eh that's my pretend burp. Uh but
ใ€‚ ใ’ใฃใทใฎใตใ‚Šใ‚’ใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ‚ˆใ†ใชๆ„Ÿใ˜ ใงใ™ใ€‚ ใˆใˆใจ
04:02
a burp is considered maybe bad manners a little bit. It really
ใ€ใ’ใฃใทใฏๅคšๅˆ†ๅฐ‘ใ—ๆ‚ชใ„ใƒžใƒŠใƒผใจ่€ƒใˆใ‚‰ใ‚Œใฆใ„ ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใใ‚Œใฏๆœฌๅฝ“ใซ
04:06
depends where you do it and how you do it. So for instance if
ใ‚ใชใŸใŒใใ‚Œใ‚’ใฉใ“ใง่กŒใ†ใ‹ใ€ใใ—ใฆใ‚ใชใŸใŒใใ‚Œใ‚’ใฉใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซ่กŒใ†ใ‹ใซไพๅญ˜ใ—ใพใ™ ใ€‚ ใŸใจใˆใฐ
04:11
I'm working out the field and for some reason I burp it's
ใ€ใƒ•ใ‚ฃใƒผใƒซใƒ‰ใงไฝœๆฅญใ—ใฆใ„ใฆใ€ ไฝ•ใ‚‰ใ‹ใฎ็†็”ฑใงใ’ใฃใทใ‚’ใ—ใŸๅ ดๅˆใ€ใใ‚Œใฏ
04:15
probably not a big deal. But if I'm sitting having a meal with
ใŠใใ‚‰ใๅคงใ—ใŸใ“ใจใงใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€ ็งใŒใ‚ธใ‚งใƒณใฎไธก่ฆชใจ้ฃŸไบ‹ใ‚’ใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจใใซๅบงใฃใฆใ„ใฆ
04:19
Jen's parents and I burp really loudly at the dinner table or
ใ€ๅค•้ฃŸใฎๅธญใ‚„ๅค•้ฃŸใฎๅธญใงๅคงๅฃฐใงใ’ใฃใทใ‚’
04:23
at the supper table that would be that would be considered bad
ใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ ใจใ—ใŸใ‚‰ใ€ใใ‚Œใฏๆ‚ชใ„ใƒžใƒŠใƒผใจ่ฆ‹ใชใ•ใ‚Œ
04:28
manners. Okay. It's very polite to kind of do something like
ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ‚ใ‹ใฃใŸใ€‚ ไบบใ€…
04:34
burping somewhere where people can't hear you. And again this
ใŒใ‚ใชใŸใฎๅฃฐใ‚’่žใใ“ใจใŒใงใใชใ„ๅ ดๆ‰€ใงใ’ใฃใทใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹ใ‚ˆใ†ใชใ“ใจใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹ใฎใฏใจใฆใ‚‚็คผๅ„€ๆญฃใ—ใ„ใงใ™ใ€‚ ใพใŸใ€ใ“ใ‚Œใฏไธ–็•Œใฎ
04:37
might be different in different parts of the world. Um but yeah
ใ•ใพใ–ใพใชๅœฐๅŸŸใง็•ฐใชใ‚‹ๅฏ่ƒฝๆ€งใŒ ใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ ใˆใˆใจใ€ใˆใˆ
04:40
that's that's I can't make the sound of a burp but that is
ใ€ใใ‚Œใฏ็งใŒใ’ใฃใทใฎ้Ÿณใ‚’ๅ‡บใ™ใ“ใจใŒใงใใชใ„ใจใ„ใ†ใ“ใจใงใ™ใ€ ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใใ‚Œใฏใ’ใฃใทใŒ
04:44
what a burp looks like. Uh and then what's next? Um another
ใฉใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซ่ฆ‹ใˆใ‚‹ใ‹ใงใ™ใ€‚ ใˆใˆใจใ€ ๆฌกใฏไฝ•ใงใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ ใˆใˆใจ
04:48
one that's something about gas coming out of the other end of
ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฎไฝ“ใฎๅๅฏพๅดใ‹ใ‚‰ๅ‡บใฆใใ‚‹ใ‚ฌใ‚นใซใคใ„ใฆใฎไฝ•ใ‹
04:53
your body. So when you burp air comes out of your mouth when
ใงใ™ใ€‚ ใงใ™ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€ใ’ใฃใทใ‚’ ใ™ใ‚‹
04:56
you fart when someone is farting it means that gas is
ใจใใ€่ชฐใ‹ใŒใŠใชใ‚‰ใ‚’ใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจใใซใŠใชใ‚‰ใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹ใจใใซ็ฉบๆฐ—ใŒๅฃใ‹ใ‚‰ๅ‡บใฆใใ‚‹ ใจใ„ใ†ใ“ใจใฏใ€ใ‚ฌใ‚นใŒใใ“
05:01
coming out the other end from down there. Uh this is
ใ‹ใ‚‰ๅๅฏพๅดใ‹ใ‚‰ๅ‡บใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’ๆ„ๅ‘ณใ— ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใˆใˆใจใ€ใ“ใ‚Œใฏ
05:04
considered very rude. For a couple of reasons. It sounds
้žๅธธใซๅคฑ็คผใ ใจ่€ƒใˆใ‚‰ใ‚Œใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ„ใใคใ‹ใฎ็†็”ฑใงใ€‚ ๅคฑ็คผใซ่žใ“ใˆ
05:08
rude. It's very it's very bad manners to fart around other
ใพใ™ใ€‚ ไป–ใฎไบบใฎๅ‘จใ‚ŠใงใŠใชใ‚‰ใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹ใฎใฏ้žๅธธใซๆ‚ชใ„ ใƒžใƒŠใƒผ
05:11
people. Uh and then of course smells. There's a certain odour
ใงใ™ใ€‚ ใˆใˆใจใ€ใ‚‚ใกใ‚ใ‚“ ใซใŠใ„ใŒใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใŠใชใ‚‰ใซไผดใ†็‰นๅฎšใฎ่‡ญใ„ใŒใ‚ใ‚Š
05:16
that comes with farting. So this is something that with our
ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใงใ™ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€ ใ“ใ‚Œใฏ็ง
05:20
children as well we encourage them not to fart around other
ใŸใกใฎๅญไพ›ใŸใกใซใ‚‚ ใ€ไป–ใฎไบบใฎๅ‘จใ‚ŠใงใŠใชใ‚‰ใ‚’ใ—ใชใ„ใ‚ˆใ†ใซๅ‹งใ‚ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ“ใจ
05:24
people. Sorry there's a little bit of silliness associated
ใงใ™ใ€‚ ็”ณใ—่จณใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใŒ
05:29
with farting and especially with children. Children think
ใ€ใŠใชใ‚‰ใ€ ็‰นใซๅญไพ›ใซ้–ข้€ฃใ™ใ‚‹ๅฐ‘ใ—ใฎๆ„šใ‹ใ•ใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ ๅญไพ›ใŸใกใฏ
05:33
farting is funny and so I think I'm giggling a little bit while
ใŠใชใ‚‰ใŒ้ข็™ฝใ„ใจๆ€ใฃ ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใฎใงใ€ใŠใชใ‚‰ใซใคใ„ใฆ่ฉฑใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹้–“ใ€็งใฏๅฐ‘ใ—็ฌ‘ใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
05:37
talking about farting because it reminds me of when I was a
ใใ‚Œใฏใ€็งใŒ
05:41
kid and how kids kind of find farting hilarious. They think
ๅญไพ›ใฎ้ ƒใ€ๅญไพ›ใŸใกใŒใŠใชใ‚‰ใ‚’ใฉใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซ้™ฝๆฐ—ใซๆ„Ÿใ˜ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚’ๆ€ใ„ๅ‡บใ•ใ›ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‰ใงใ™ ใ€‚ ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏ
05:45
it's a very funny thing that people do. And if you think
ใใ‚ŒใŒไบบใ€…ใŒใ™ใ‚‹้žๅธธใซ้ข็™ฝใ„ใ“ใจใ ใจ ๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใใ—ใฆใ€่€ƒใˆใฆใฟใ‚Œใฐ
05:48
about it it it is a funny thing that we do as human beings. But
ใ€ไบบ้–“ใจใ—ใฆใ‚„ใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใฎใฏใŠใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚ใ„ใ“ใจใงใ™ใ€‚ ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€
05:53
bad manners. Um to fart around other people. So it's good
ใƒžใƒŠใƒผใŒๆ‚ชใ„ใ€‚ ใˆใˆใจใ€ ไป–ใฎไบบใฎๅ‘จใ‚Šใ‚’ใŠใชใ‚‰ใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใงใ™ใ‹ใ‚‰
05:59
manners to use the word please. In fact in English we're often
ใ€ใ€ŒใŠ้ก˜ใ„ใ—ใพใ™ใ€ใจใ„ใ†่จ€่‘‰ใ‚’ไฝฟใ†ใฎใฏใƒžใƒŠใƒผใงใ™ใ€‚ ๅฎŸ้š›ใ€่‹ฑ่ชžใงใฏ
06:05
talking about teaching our kids to say please and thank you.
ใ€ ๅญไพ›ใŸใกใซใ€ŒใŠ้ก˜ใ„ใ—ใพใ™ใ€ใจใ€Œใ‚ใ‚ŠใŒใจใ†ใ€ใจ่จ€ใ†ใ‚ˆใ†ใซๆ•™ใˆใ‚‹ใ“ใจใซใคใ„ใฆใ‚ˆใ่ฉฑใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
06:08
When our kids would go visit someone we would say don't
็งใŸใกใฎๅญไพ›ใŸใกใŒ่ชฐใ‹ใ‚’่จชใญใ‚‹
06:12
forget to say please when you ask for something and don't
ใจใใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใŒไฝ•ใ‹ใ‚’ๆฑ‚ใ‚ใ‚‹ใจใใฏใ€ŒใŠ้ก˜ใ„ใ—ใพใ™ใ€ใจ่จ€ใ†ใ“ใจใ‚’ๅฟ˜ใ‚Œใชใ„ใงใใ ใ•ใ„
06:16
forget to thank you when someone gives you something. So
ใ€‚่ชฐใ‹ใŒใ‚ใชใŸใซไฝ•ใ‹ใ‚’ไธŽใˆใ‚‹ใจใใฏใ‚ใชใŸใซๆ„Ÿ่ฌใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’ๅฟ˜ใ‚Œใชใ„ใงใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚ ใงใ™ใ‹ใ‚‰
06:20
it's very important especially as a parent that my children
ใ€็‰นใซ ่ฆชใจใ—ใฆใ€ๅญไพ›ใŸใกใŒไฝ•ใ‹ใ‚’ๆฑ‚ใ‚ใฆใ„ใ‚‹
06:23
learned how to say please when they were asking for something
ใจใใซๅ–œใ‚“ใง่จ€ใ†ๆ–นๆณ•ใ‚’ๅญฆใ‚“ใ 
06:27
and it was important to me that my children learned to say
ใ“ใจใฏ้žๅธธใซ้‡่ฆ
06:31
thank you when someone helped them or gave them something. So
ใงใ™ใ€‚ใพใŸใ€่ชฐใ‹ใŒๅŠฉใ‘ ใŸใ‚Šไฝ•ใ‹ใ‚’ไธŽใˆใŸใ‚Šใ—ใŸใจใใซใ€ๅญไพ›ใŸใกใŒใ‚ใ‚ŠใŒใจใ†ใจ่จ€ใ†ใ“ใจใ‚’ๅญฆใ‚“ใ ใ“ใจใฏ็งใซใจใฃใฆ้‡่ฆใงใ—ใŸใ€‚ ใงใ™ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€
06:35
you'll often hear parents using both words together like
่ฆชใŒๅญไพ›ใŸใกใซใ€ŒใŠ้ก˜ใ„ใ—ใ€ใ‚ใ‚ŠใŒใจใ†ใ€ใจ่จ€ใ† ใ‚ˆใ†ใซๆ•™ใˆใ‚‹ใ‚ˆใ†ใซใ€ไธกๆ–นใฎ่จ€่‘‰ใ‚’ไธ€็ท’ใซไฝฟใ†ใฎใ‚’ใ‚ˆใ่€ณใซใ—
06:38
teaching your kids to say please and thank you. Or saying
ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใพใŸใฏ
06:42
to your kid don't forget to say please and thank you when you
ใ‚ใชใŸใฎๅญไพ›ใซ่จ€ใ†ใ“ใจใ‚’ๅฟ˜ใ‚Œใชใ„ใง ใใ ใ•ใ„ใใ—ใฆใ‚ใชใŸใŒใ‚ใชใŸใฎๅ‹ไบบใ‚’่จชๅ•ใ™ใ‚‹ใจใใ‚ใชใŸใซๆ„Ÿ่ฌใ—ใพใ™
06:45
visit your friend. Uh don't forget to thank your friend's
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06:49
parents if they give you a snack or give you a ride
ใŠใ‚„ใคใ‚’ใใ‚ŒใŸใ‚Šใ€
06:53
somewhere or take you to a restaurant and pay for the
ใฉใ“ใ‹ใซไน—ใฃใŸใ‚Šใ€ใƒฌใ‚นใƒˆใƒฉใƒณใซ้€ฃใ‚Œใฆ่กŒใฃ ใฆ้ฃŸไบ‹ไปฃใ‚’ๆ‰•ใฃใŸใ‚Šใ—ใŸใ‚‰ใ€ๅ‹้”ใฎไธก่ฆชใซๆ„Ÿ่ฌใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’ๅฟ˜ใ‚Œใชใ„ใงใใ ใ•ใ„
06:56
food. Make sure you say please when you're asking for
ใ€‚ ใ‚ใชใŸใŒไฝ•ใ‹ใ‚’ๆฑ‚ใ‚ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจใใฏๅฟ…ใšใ€ŒใŠ้ก˜ใ„ใ—ใพใ™ใ€ใจ่จ€ใฃใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
06:59
something and make sure you say thank you when someone gives
่ชฐใ‹ใŒใ‚ใชใŸใซไฝ•ใ‹ใ‚’ใใ‚ŒใŸใจใใฏๅฟ…ใšใ€Œใ‚ใ‚ŠใŒใจใ†ใ€ใจ่จ€ใฃใฆใใ ใ•ใ„
07:02
you something. Uh just good manners to do that definitely.
ใ€‚ ใˆใˆใจ ใ€ใใ‚Œใ‚’็ขบๅฎŸใซ่กŒใ†ใซใฏใƒžใƒŠใƒผใŒใ„ใ„ใงใ™ใ€‚
07:07
Tipping. So this depends on the kind of restaurant you're in
ใƒใƒƒใƒ—ใ€‚ ใคใพใ‚Šใ€ใ“ใ‚Œใฏ ใ‚ใชใŸใŒใ„ใ‚‹ใƒฌใ‚นใƒˆใƒฉใƒณใฎ็จฎ้กžใจ
07:11
and what country you're in. Tipping is the act of giving
ใ‚ใชใŸใŒใ„ใ‚‹ๅ›ฝใซใ‚ˆใฃใฆ็•ฐใชใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ ใƒใƒƒใƒ—ใจใฏใ€
07:15
money at the end of a meal that's more than the bill for
้ฃŸไบ‹ใฎๆœ€ๅพŒใซใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใŒ้ฃŸในใŸใƒฌใ‚นใƒˆใƒฉใƒณ ใฎ่ซ‹ๆฑ‚้กใ‚’่ถ…ใˆใ‚‹ใŠ้‡‘ใ‚’ไธŽใˆใ‚‹่กŒ็‚บใงใ™
07:20
the restaurant that you've eaten in. So if you go in the
ใ€‚ ใ‚ใชใŸใฏ
07:22
bill $30, you might leave a 510 or 15 tip. 15 would be a lot
30ใƒ‰ใƒซใฎ่ซ‹ๆฑ‚ๆ›ธใซๅ…ฅใ‚‹ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏ510 ใพใŸใฏ15ใฎใƒใƒƒใƒ—ใ‚’ๆฎ‹ใ™ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ 15
07:27
for a $30 meal. Usually it's around 20%. I think. 15 or 20%.
ใƒ‰ใƒซใฏ30ใƒ‰ใƒซใฎ้ฃŸไบ‹ใซใฏใŸใใ•ใ‚“ใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ ้€šๅธธใฏ ็ด„20๏ผ…ใงใ™ใ€‚ ใŠใ‚‚ใ†ใ€‚ 15ใพใŸใฏ20๏ผ…ใ€‚
07:33
But tipping this might be different depending on what
ใŸใ ใ—ใ€ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚’ใƒใƒƒใƒ—
07:36
country you're in. In Canada if you go to a fast food
ใ™ใ‚‹ใฎใฏใ€ใŠไฝใพใ„ใฎๅ›ฝใซใ‚ˆใฃใฆ็•ฐใชใ‚‹ๅ ดๅˆใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ใ‚ซใƒŠใƒ€ใงใฏใ€
07:40
restaurant like McDonald's you don't tip. Uh if you go to a
ใƒžใ‚ฏใƒ‰ใƒŠใƒซใƒ‰ใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใชใƒ•ใ‚กใƒผใ‚นใƒˆใƒ•ใƒผใƒ‰ใƒฌใ‚นใƒˆใƒฉใƒณใซ่กŒใๅ ดๅˆ ใฏใƒใƒƒใƒ—ใ‚’ๆ‰•ใ„ใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ใˆใˆใจใ€
07:45
sit down restaurant. That's the phrase I would use. Where
ๅบงใฃใฆใƒฌใ‚นใƒˆใƒฉใƒณใซ่กŒใใชใ‚‰ใ€‚ ใใ‚ŒใŒ ็งใŒไฝฟใ†ใƒ•ใƒฌใƒผใ‚บใงใ™ใ€‚
07:48
there's a waiter and they bring you a menu and you order your
ใ‚ฆใ‚งใ‚คใ‚ฟใƒผใŒใ„ใฆใ€ๅฝผใ‚‰ใŒใ‚ใชใŸใซใƒกใƒ‹ใƒฅใƒผใ‚’ๆŒใฃใฆใ ใฆใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใŒใ‚ใชใŸใฎ้ฃŸใน็‰ฉใ‚’ๆณจๆ–‡ใ—ใ€
07:51
food and they bring you your food we generally think
ๅฝผใ‚‰ใŒใ‚ใชใŸใซใ‚ใชใŸใฎ้ฃŸใน็‰ฉใ‚’ๆŒใฃใฆใใ‚‹ๅ ดๅˆใ€ ็งใŸใกใฏไธ€่ˆฌ็š„ใซ
07:55
considered tipping to be good manners. It's just a good idea
ใƒใƒƒใƒ—ใ‚’ใƒžใƒŠใƒผใจ่ฆ‹ใชใ— ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใƒ’ใƒณใƒˆใ‚’ๆฎ‹ใ—
07:58
to show your thanks to the server by leaving a tip. Notice
ใฆใ€ใ‚ตใƒผใƒใƒผใซๆ„Ÿ่ฌใฎๆ„ใ‚’่กจใ™ใฎใฏ่‰ฏใ„่€ƒใˆ ใงใ™ใ€‚
08:04
I'm using tipping and leaving a tip kind of interchangeably.
ใƒใƒƒใƒ—ใ‚’ไฝฟ็”จใ—ใฆใ„ใฆใ€ ใƒใƒƒใƒ—ใ‚’ๅŒใ˜ใ‚ˆใ†ใซๆฎ‹ใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใซๆณจๆ„ใ—ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
08:07
Tipping is a good idea. Leaving a tip is a good idea. Putting
ใƒใƒƒใƒ—ใฏ่‰ฏใ„่€ƒใˆใงใ™ใ€‚ ใƒ’ใƒณใƒˆใ‚’ๆฎ‹ใ™ใ“ใจใฏ่‰ฏใ„่€ƒใˆใงใ™ใ€‚
08:13
your feet on the table. So this is a tricky one. I put my feet
ใƒ†ใƒผใƒ–ใƒซใฎไธŠใซ่ถณใ‚’็ฝฎใใพใ™ใ€‚ ใงใ™ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€ใ“ใ‚Œ ใฏใƒˆใƒชใƒƒใ‚ญใƒผใชใ‚‚ใฎใงใ™ใ€‚ ๅฑ…้–“ใซๅบงใฃ
08:18
on my coffee table when I'm sitting in my living room. But
ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจใใฏใ€ใ‚ณใƒผใƒ’ใƒผใƒ†ใƒผใƒ–ใƒซใซ่ถณใ‚’ไน—ใ›ใฆ ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€
08:23
I don't put my feet on the supper table or dinner table or
็งใฏ ๅค•้ฃŸใฎใƒ†ใƒผใƒ–ใƒซใ‚„ๅค•้ฃŸใฎใƒ†ใƒผใƒ–ใƒซใ‚„
08:28
kitchen table. There's a lot of different names for that table.
ๅฐๆ‰€ใฎใƒ†ใƒผใƒ–ใƒซใซ่ถณใ‚’่ธใฟๅ…ฅใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ใใฎใƒ†ใƒผใƒ–ใƒซใซใฏใ•ใพใ–ใพใชๅๅ‰ใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
08:31
When I'm in the kitchen I do not put my feet up on the table
ใ‚ญใƒƒใƒใƒณใซใ„ใ‚‹ใจใใฏ ใ€ใƒ†ใƒผใƒ–ใƒซใซ่ถณใ‚’ไน—ใ›ใพใ›
08:35
ever. That would be very very bad manners. If I was visiting
ใ‚“ใ€‚ ใใ‚Œใฏ้žๅธธใซ ๆ‚ชใ„ใƒžใƒŠใƒผใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚ ็งใŒ
08:39
my sister and I put my feet up on her kitchen table. Like if I
ๅง‰ใ‚’่จชใญใฆใ„ใฆ ใ€ๅฝผๅฅณใฎๅฐๆ‰€ใฎใƒ†ใƒผใƒ–ใƒซใซ่ถณใ‚’ไน—ใ›ใŸใจใ—ใŸใ‚‰ใ€‚ ใพใ‚‹ใง็ง
08:44
sat in a chair and put my feet up on her kitchen table she
ใŒๆค…ๅญใซๅบงใฃ ใฆๅฐๆ‰€ใฎใƒ†ใƒผใƒ–ใƒซใซ่ถณใ‚’ไน—ใ›ใŸใ‚‰ใ€
08:47
would she would be very annoyed me. That would be extremely bad
ๅฝผๅฅณใฏ็งใ‚’ใจใฆใ‚‚่‹›็ซ‹ใŸใ›ใฆใ—ใพใ†ใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ† ใ€‚ ใใ‚Œใฏ้žๅธธใซๆ‚ชใ„ใƒžใƒŠใƒผใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†
08:51
manners. But when I'm sitting in a living room when I'm
ใ€‚ ใงใ‚‚ ใ€ใƒชใƒ“ใƒณใ‚ฐใซ
08:54
sitting on a couch watching TV I often put my feet on the
ๅบงใฃใฆใ‚ฝใƒ•ใ‚กใซๅบงใฃใฆใƒ†ใƒฌใƒ“ ใ‚’่ฆ‹ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจใ€ใใ“ใซใ‚ใ‚‹ใ‚ณใƒผใƒ’ใƒผใƒ†ใƒผใƒ–ใƒซใซ่ถณใ‚’ไน—ใ›ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใ‚ˆใ
08:59
coffee table that we have there. Cutting in line. This is
ใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ ไธ€ๅˆ—ใซๅˆ‡ใ‚‹ใ€‚ ใ“ใ‚Œใฏ
09:04
another one where this might have a different yeah whether
ๅˆฅใฎๅ•้กŒใงใ‚ใ‚Šใ€
09:10
this is good or bad manners might depend on where you live.
ใƒžใƒŠใƒผใŒ่‰ฏใ„ใ‹ๆ‚ชใ„ ใ‹ใฏใ€ไฝใ‚“ใงใ„ใ‚‹ๅ ดๆ‰€ใซใ‚ˆใฃใฆ็•ฐใชใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
09:13
In Canada and generally in North America you do not cut in
ใ‚ซใƒŠใƒ€ใŠใ‚ˆใณไธ€่ˆฌ็š„ใซ ๅŒ—็ฑณใงใฏใ€ไธ€ๅˆ—ใซไธฆใถใ“ใจใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“
09:18
line. So cutting in line is when there's a line of people
ใ€‚ ใงใ™ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€ๅˆ—ใซไธฆใถใ“ใจใฏ ใ€ไบบใฎๅˆ—ใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใ€ๅˆ—
09:21
and you just go in the middle of the line or you try to get
ใฎ็œŸใ‚“ไธญใซ่กŒใ ใ‹ใ€ๅˆ—ใฎๅ…ˆ้ ญใซ่กŒใ“ใ†ใจใ™ใ‚‹ใจใใงใ™
09:24
to the front of the line. Um lines are very I'm going to use
ใ€‚ ใˆใˆใจใ€ ็งใฏ็ฅž่–ใช่จ€่‘‰ใ‚’ไฝฟใ†ใคใ‚‚ใ‚Šใงใ™
09:29
the word sacred. Lines are very sacred in Canada and in the
ใ€‚ ใ‚ซใƒŠใƒ€ใจ็ฑณๅ›ฝใงใฏ
09:33
United States. We don't cut in line. And there's a few other
ใ€็ทšใฏ้žๅธธใซ็ฅž่–ใงใ™ใ€‚ ็งใŸใกใฏไธ€ๅˆ—ใซไธฆใ‚“ใงใ„ใพใ›ใ‚“ ใ€‚ ใใ—ใฆใ€ใ“ใ‚Œใซใฏไป–ใซใ‚‚ใ„ใใคใ‹ใฎ
09:36
words for this. You can but in line or bud in line. Um
่จ€่‘‰ใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ‚ใชใŸใฏไธ€ ๅˆ—ใซไธฆใ‚“ใงใ„ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ€ไธ€ๅˆ—ใซ่Šฝใ‚’ๅ‡บใ™ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™ใ€‚
09:40
students at school will often say no budding when people try
ๅญฆๆ กใฎ็”Ÿๅพ’ใฏ ใ€ไบบใ€…ใŒ่‡ชๅˆ†ใฎๅ‰ใซไธฆใ‚“ใง่กŒใ“ใ†ใจใ™ใ‚‹ใจใ€ๅ‡บ่Šฝใ—ใชใ„ใจ่จ€ใ†ใ“ใจใŒใ‚ˆใ
09:44
to get in line in front of them. Um now I said that
ใ‚ใ‚Š ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ•ใฆใ€็งใฏ
09:49
cutting in line it does happen in Canada. But usually it
ใใ‚ŒใŒใ‚ซใƒŠใƒ€ใง่ตทใ“ใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’ไธ€ๅˆ—ใซไธฆในใ‚‹ใจ่จ€ใ„ ใพใ—ใŸใ€‚ ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€้€šๅธธใ€ใใ‚Œ
09:53
happens with like teenagers and younger people. Uh if you go to
ใฏใƒ†ใ‚ฃใƒผใƒณใ‚จใ‚คใ‚ธใƒฃใƒผใ‚„ ่‹ฅใ„ไบบใŸใกใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซ่ตทใ“ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ ใˆใˆใจใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใŒ้Š€่กŒใซ่กŒใใชใ‚‰ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸ
09:57
the bank you would never cut in line at the bank in Canada.
ใฏใ‚ซใƒŠใƒ€ใฎ้Š€่กŒใงไธ€ๅˆ—ใซไธฆใถใ“ใจใฏๆฑบใ—ใฆใชใ„ใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚
10:02
That would just be extremely rude. Uh you could tell I'm
ใใ‚Œใฏ้žๅธธใซ ๅคฑ็คผใงใ™ใ€‚ ใˆใˆใจใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏ็ง
10:07
going odd and odd about how rude it would be. But it is my
ใŒใใ‚ŒใŒใฉใ‚Œใปใฉๅคฑ็คผใซใชใ‚‹ใ‹ใซใคใ„ใฆๅฅ‡ๅฆ™ใงๅฅ‡ๅฆ™ใซใชใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจ่จ€ใ† ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ—ใ‹ใ—
10:09
understanding that in different parts of the world things might
ใ€ไธ–็•Œใฎใ•ใพใ–ใพใชๅœฐๅŸŸใงใฏใ€็‰ฉไบ‹ใฎ
10:12
work a little bit differently. So it's considered good manners
ๅ‹•ไฝœใŒๅฐ‘ใ—็•ฐใชใ‚‹ๅฏ่ƒฝๆ€งใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’็†่งฃใ—ใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใงใ™ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€ไฝ•ใ‹
10:16
to ask before you take something. I I know this might
ใ‚’ๅ–ใ‚‹ๅ‰ใซๅฐ‹ใญใ‚‹ใฎใฏใƒžใƒŠใƒผใŒ่‰ฏใ„ใจ่€ƒใˆใ‚‰ใ‚Œใฆใ„ใพใ™ ใ€‚ ใ“ใ‚Œใฏใกใ‚‡ใฃใจใŠใ‹ใ—ใชใ“ใจใซ่žใ“ใˆใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“
10:20
sound kind of funny but my brother if my brother wanted to
ใŒใ€็งใฎ ๅ…„ใŒ
10:25
borrow my lawn mower he would text me or call me and he would
็งใฎ่Šๅˆˆใ‚ŠๆฉŸใ‚’ๅ€Ÿใ‚ŠใŸใ„ใจๆ€ใฃใŸใ‚‰ใ€ๅฝผใฏ ็งใซใƒ†ใ‚ญใ‚นใƒˆใƒกใƒƒใ‚ปใƒผใ‚ธใ‚’้€ใ‚‹ใ‹้›ป่ฉฑใ‚’ใ‹ใ‘ใฆใใฆใ€
10:29
ask hey can I borrow your lawn mower? And then I would say yes
ใ‚ใชใŸใฎ่Šๅˆˆใ‚ŠๆฉŸใ‚’ๅ€Ÿใ‚Šใฆใ‚‚ ใ„ใ„ใงใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ ใใ—ใฆใ€็งใฏใ€Œใฏใ„ใ€ใพใŸใฏใ€Œใ„ใ„ใˆใ€ใจ่จ€ใ„ใพใ™
10:33
or no. He wouldn't just come here and take it. That would be
ใ€‚ ๅฝผใฏใŸใ  ใ“ใ“ใซๆฅใฆใใ‚Œใ‚’ๅ–ใ‚‹ใ ใ‘ใงใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ใใ‚Œใฏ
10:37
considered impolite. Bad manners. Annoying and Um a lot
ๅคฑ็คผใจ่ฆ‹ใชใ•ใ‚Œใพใ™ใ€‚ ไธไฝœๆณ•ใ€‚ ่ฟทๆƒ‘ใงใ€ใ†ใƒผใ‚“ใ€
10:42
of times too it's important for children to ask before they
ๅญไพ›ใŸใกใŒใŠ้‡‘ใ‚’็จผใๅ‰ใซๅฐ‹ใญใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚‚้‡่ฆใงใ™
10:47
take some money. Sometimes my kids want to buy lunch at
ใ€‚ ๆ™‚ใ€…็งใฎ ๅญไพ›ใŸใกใฏๅญฆๆ กใงๆ˜ผ้ฃŸใ‚’่ฒทใ„ใŸใ„ใจๆ€ใฃ
10:51
school and instead of just taking money from my wallet
ใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€ใใ—ใฆๅฝผใ‚‰ใŒๅฐ‹ใญใ‚‹็งใฎ่ฒกๅธƒใ‹ใ‚‰ใŠ้‡‘ใ‚’ๅ˜ใซๅ–ใ‚‹ไปฃใ‚ใ‚Šใซ
10:54
they ask. It's considered really good manners to ask
ใ€‚ ไฝ•ใ‹ใ‚’ๅ–ใ‚‹ๅ‰ ใซๅฐ‹ใญใ‚‹ใฎใฏๆœฌๅฝ“ใซ่‰ฏใ„ใƒžใƒŠใƒผใ ใจ่€ƒใˆใ‚‰ใ‚Œใฆใ„
10:58
before you take something. Saying sorry is considered very
ใพใ™ใ€‚ ็”ณใ—่จณใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใจ่จ€ใ†ใ“ใจใฏใ€็คผๅ„€ๆญฃใ—ใ้žๅธธใซ็คผๅ„€ๆญฃใ—ใ„ใจ่ฆ‹ใชใ•ใ‚Œ
11:03
polite in good manners. Uh we use the word sorry a lot in
ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ‚ซใƒŠใƒ€ใง ใฏใ€Œใ”ใ‚ใ‚“ใชใ•ใ„ใ€ใจใ„ใ†่จ€่‘‰ใ‚’ใ‚ˆใไฝฟใ„ใพใ™
11:08
Canada. If I bump into someone at the grocery store I would
ใ€‚ ้ฃŸๆ–™ๅ“ๅบ—ใง่ชฐใ‹ใซ
11:11
say oh I'm sorry or I would say sorry. Um If someone was
ใถใคใ‹ใฃใŸใ‚‰ใ€ใ€Œใ”ใ‚ใ‚“ใชใ•ใ„ใ€ใจใ‹ใ€ใ€Œใ”ใ‚ใ‚“ใชใ•ใ„ใ€ใจ่จ€ใ„ ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใˆใˆใจใ€่ชฐใ‹ใŒ
11:15
standing at the grocery store in front of something I wanted
็งใŒ่ฒทใ„ใŸใ„ใ‚‚ใฎใฎๅ‰ใง้ฃŸๆ–™ๅ“ๅบ—ใซ็ซ‹ใฃใฆ
11:19
to buy I might say excuse me could I just get in there and
ใ„ใŸใ‚‰ใ€ใ™ใฟใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€็ง ใฏใใ“ใซๅ…ฅใฃใฆใ€ใ‚ใชใŸ
11:24
grab something sorry to bother you. So saying sorry in various
ใซ่ฟทๆƒ‘ใ‚’ใ‹ใ‘ใฆ็”ณใ—่จณใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใŒไฝ•ใ‹ใ‚’ใคใ‹ใ‚€ใ“ใจใŒใงใ ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใงใ™ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€ใ•ใพใ–ใพใชๆ–นๆณ•ใง็”ณใ—่จณใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใจ่จ€ใ†ใ“ใจ
11:29
ways is a polite way to make conversation go better. It's
ใฏใ€ไผš่ฉฑใ‚’ใ‚ˆใ‚Š่‰ฏใใ™ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใฎไธๅฏงใชๆ–นๆณ•ใงใ™ ใ€‚
11:34
just a good idea. Um it sounds kind of funny when I say sorry
ใใ‚Œใฏ่‰ฏใ„่€ƒใˆใงใ™ใ€‚ ็”ณใ—่จณใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“
11:37
but I say sorry a lot. I think Canadians say sorry a lot. So
ใŒใ€ใ‚ˆใ็”ณใ—่จณใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ใ‚ซใƒŠใƒ€ไบบใฏใ‚ˆใใ”ใ‚ใ‚“ใชใ•ใ„ใจ่จ€ใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
11:42
this is one that we kind of talked about just a few seconds
ใ“ใ‚Œใฏ ใ€ใปใ‚“ใฎๆ•ฐ็ง’ๅ‰ใซ่ฉฑใ—ๅˆใฃใŸ
11:45
ago. Covering your mouth when coughing or sneezing. Again we
ใ‚‚ใฎใงใ™ใ€‚ ๅ’ณใ‚„ใใ—ใ‚ƒใฟใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹ใจใใซๅฃใ‚’่ฆ†ใ†ใ€‚ ็นฐใ‚Š่ฟ”ใ—
11:50
used to use hand when we cough or when we sneeze people would
ใพใ™ใŒใ€ๅ’ณใ‚’ใ— ใŸใ‚Šใ€ใใ—ใ‚ƒใฟใ‚’ใ—ใŸใ‚Šใ™ใ‚‹ใจใใฏใ€ไบบใŒ
11:54
be like achoo or they would go and cough into their hand but
ใ‚ขใƒใƒฅใƒผใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซใชใ‚‹ใ‹ใ€ ๆ‰‹ใซ่กŒใฃใฆๅ’ณใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹ใจใใซๆ‰‹ใ‚’ไฝฟ็”จใ—
11:58
we've been told now to use our elbow to cough or sneeze into
ใฆใ„ใพใ—ใŸใŒใ€ไปŠใงใฏใ€ ่‚˜ใ‚’ไฝฟใฃใฆๅ’ณใ‚’ใ—ใŸใ‚Šใ€ใใ—ใ‚ƒใฟใ‚’ใ—ใŸใ‚Šใ™ใ‚‹ใ‚ˆใ†ใซ่จ€ใ‚ใ‚Œใฆใ„
12:03
our elbow. It's a little bit hard for me. I don't think my
ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใใ‚Œ ใฏ็งใซใจใฃใฆๅฐ‘ใ—้›ฃใ—ใ„ใงใ™ใ€‚ ็งใฎ
12:06
arms long enough to do that. But it is not it is very bad
่…•ใฏใใ‚Œใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹ใฎใซๅๅˆ†ใช้•ทใ•ใงใฏใชใ„ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใงใ‚‚
12:11
manners to just go achoo and just have things fly out of
ใ€ใŸใ ใ—ใ‚ƒใŒใ‚“ใง้ผป ใ‹ใ‚‰็‰ฉใ‚’้ฃ›ใฐใ—ใŸใ‚Š
12:16
your nose or to just cough with your mouth open without
ใ€ๅฃใ‚’้–‹ใ‘ใŸใพใพๅ’ณใ‚’ใ—ใŸใ‚Šใ™ใ‚‹ใฎใฏใƒžใƒŠใƒผใŒๆ‚ชใ„ใ‚ใ‘ใงใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›
12:20
covering. Definitely. Always a idea to cover when you are
ใ‚“ใ€‚ ็ตถๅฏพใซใ€‚ ๅ’ณใ‚„ใใ—ใ‚ƒใฟ ใ‚’ใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจใใฏใ€ๅธธใซใ‚ซใƒใƒผใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’ใŠๅ‹งใ‚ใ—ใพใ™
12:26
coughing or sneezing. Especially during COVID. Uh
ใ€‚ ็‰นใซCOVIDไธญใ€‚ ใˆใˆใจใ€
12:31
this one is particular for teachers possibly. Um students
ใ“ใ‚ŒใฏใŠใใ‚‰ใๆ•™ๅธซใซ็‰นๆœ‰ใฎใ‚‚ใฎใงใ™ ใ€‚ ๅญฆ็”Ÿใฏ
12:35
sometimes chew gum and chewing gum with your mouth open is bad
ๆ™‚ใ€…ใ‚ฌใƒ ใ‚’ๅ™›ใ‚“ ใ ใ‚Šใ€ๅฃใ‚’้–‹ใ‘ใŸใพใพใ‚ฌใƒ ใ‚’ๅ™›ใ‚“ใ ใ‚Šใ™ใ‚‹ใฎใฏใƒžใƒŠใƒผใŒๆ‚ชใ„
12:41
manners. But chewing gum and putting the gum under the seat
ใงใ™ใ€‚ ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€ใ‚ฌใƒ ใ‚’ๅ™›ใ‚“ใ ใ‚Šใ€ๆœบ ใฎๅบงๅธญใฎไธ‹ใซใ‚ฌใƒ ใ‚’็ฝฎใ„
12:45
of the desk or putting the gum under the chair you're sitting
ใŸใ‚Šใ€ ๅบงใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ๆค…ๅญใฎไธ‹ใซใ‚ฌใƒ ใ‚’็ฝฎใ„ใŸใ‚Š
12:49
in is very very bad manners. This still happens at schools
ใ™ใ‚‹ใฎใฏใ€้žๅธธใซใƒžใƒŠใƒผใŒๆ‚ชใ„ใงใ™ใ€‚ ใ“ใ‚Œใฏใพใ 
12:54
and it happens on park benches or if you sit down in the food
ๅญฆๆ กใง่ตทใ“ใ‚Šใ€ๅ…ฌๅœ’ใฎใƒ™ใƒณใƒใง่ตทใ“ใ‚Š ใพใ™ใ€‚ใพใŸใฏใ€ใƒขใƒผใƒซใฎใƒ•ใƒผใƒ‰
12:58
court at mall if you touch the bottom of the chair there's
ใ‚ณใƒผใƒˆใซๅบงใฃใฆๆค…ๅญใฎๅบ•ใซ่งฆใ‚Œใ‚‹ใจใ€
13:02
probably gum stuck there. But it's considered extremely rude
ใŠใใ‚‰ใใ‚ฌใƒ ใŒใใ“ใซ่ฉฐใพใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ—ใ‹ใ— ใ€ใ‚ฌใƒ ใ‚’ๆค…ๅญใฎไธ‹ใซ็ฝฎใใ“ใจใฏ้žๅธธใซๅคฑ็คผใ ใจ่€ƒใˆใ‚‰ใ‚Œใฆใ„
13:06
to put gum under a chair. I'm just laughing at this man
ใพใ™ใ€‚
13:10
because he looks kind of like a school teacher to me. And he's
ๅฝผใฏ ็งใซใฏๅญฆๆ กใฎๅ…ˆ็”Ÿใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซ่ฆ‹ใˆใ‚‹ใฎใงใ€็งใฏใŸใ ใ“ใฎ็”ทใ‚’็ฌ‘ใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใใ—ใฆใ€ๅฝผ
13:14
looking under a chair thinking ah those students they just
ใฏๆค…ๅญใฎไธ‹ใ‚’่ฆ‹ใฆใ€ ๅฝผใ‚‰ใŒใŸใ ๆค…ๅญใฎ
13:17
keep putting gum under the chairs. Bad manners. Very very
ไธ‹ใซๆญฏ่ŒŽใ‚’็ฝฎใ็ถšใ‘ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎๅญฆ็”Ÿใ‚’่€ƒใˆใฆใ„ ใพใ™ใ€‚ ไธไฝœๆณ•ใ€‚ ้žๅธธใซ
13:21
bad manners. Uh introducing people is good it's good
ใƒžใƒŠใƒผใŒๆ‚ชใ„ใ€‚ ใˆใˆใจใ€ไบบใ‚’็ดนไป‹ใ™ใ‚‹ใฎ ใฏ่‰ฏใ„
13:24
manners to introduce people. If Jen and I run into someone that
ใงใ™ไบบใ‚’็ดนไป‹ใ™ใ‚‹ใฎใฏ่‰ฏใ„ใƒžใƒŠใƒผใงใ™ใ€‚ ใ‚ธใ‚งใƒณใจ็งใŒ
13:29
I know from the past that Jen doesn't know. Um I will make
้ŽๅŽปใ‹ใ‚‰็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ€ใ‚ธใ‚งใƒณ ใŒ็Ÿฅใ‚‰ใชใ„่ชฐใ‹ใซๅ‡บใใ‚ใ—ใŸๅ ดๅˆใ€‚ ใˆใƒผใจใ€
13:34
sure I introduce Jen. I will say hey Jim long time no see.
ๅฟ…ใšใ‚ธใ‚งใƒณใ‚’็ดนไป‹ใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ‚ธใƒ ใ€ไน…ใ—ใถใ‚Šใซ่จ€ใฃใฆใŠใใพใ™ใ€‚
13:39
What's it been? Like 10 years? Ah man you look great. By the
ไฝ•ใ ใฃใŸใฎ๏ผŸ 10ๅนดใใ‚‰ใ„๏ผŸ ใ‚ใ‚ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏ็ด ๆ™ดใ‚‰ใ—ใ่ฆ‹ใˆใพใ™ใ€‚
13:43
way this is my wife Jen. We've been married for 20 whatever
ใกใชใฟใซใ“ใ‚Œใฏ็งใฎๅฆปใฎใ‚ธใ‚งใƒณใงใ™ใ€‚ ็งใŸใกใฏ ็ตๅฉšใ—ใฆ20
13:46
years? 26 years? Twenty-5? I should remember. But certainly
ๅนดใซใชใ‚Šใพใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ 26ๅนด๏ผŸ ไบŒๅไบ”๏ผŸ ่ฆšใˆใฆใŠใในใใงใ™ใ€‚ ใ—ใ‹ใ—
13:51
it would be bad manners if Jen and I were shopping. And if I
ใ€ใ‚ธใ‚งใƒณ ใจ็งใŒ่ฒทใ„็‰ฉใ‚’ใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจใ—ใŸใ‚‰ใ€็ขบใ‹ใซใƒžใƒŠใƒผใฏๆ‚ชใ„ใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚ ใใ—ใฆใ€็ง
13:57
saw an old friend who I haven't seen for 20 years who Jen
ใŒ20ๅนด้–“ไผšใฃใฆใ„ใชใ„ใ€ใ‚ธใ‚งใƒณใŒ็Ÿฅใ‚‰ใชใ„ๅคใ„ๅ‹ไบบใ‚’่ฆ‹ใŸใจใ—ใŸใ‚‰
14:01
doesn't know. It would be bad manners if I didn't introduce
ใ€‚ ใ‚ธใ‚งใƒณใจใ‚ใฎไบบใ‚’ ็ดนไป‹ใ—ใชใ‹ใฃใŸใ‚‰ใƒžใƒŠใƒผใŒๆ‚ชใ„
14:04
Jen and that person to each other. So always a good idea to
ใ€‚ ใงใ™ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€ๅธธใซไบบใ€…ใ‚’็ดนไป‹ใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’ใŠๅ‹งใ‚ใ—
14:08
introduce people. Picking your nose. I couldn't find a good
ใพใ™ใ€‚ ้ผปใ‚’ใคใพใ‚€ใ€‚ ๅญไพ›ใฎๅ†™็œŸใ‚’่ฆ‹ใคใ‘ใ‚ˆใ†ใจๆ€ใ†ใพใงใ€่‰ฏใ„ๅ†™็œŸใ‚’่ฆ‹ใคใ‘ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ›ใ‚“ใงใ—
14:14
picture until I thought oh I'll find a picture of a child
14:17
because in English we would say it grosses me out when I see
ใŸใ€‚่‹ฑ่ชžใงใฏใ€ไบบใ€…ใŒ้ผปใ‚’ใคใพใ‚€ใฎ ใ‚’่ฆ‹ใ‚‹ใจใ€ใใ‚Œใฏ็งใ‚’ๆ€’ใ‚‰ใ›ใฆใ—ใพใ†ใ‹ใ‚‰
14:22
people pick their nose. Um when you pick your nose you put your
ใงใ™ใ€‚ ใˆใˆใจใ€ ใ‚ใชใŸใŒใ‚ใชใŸใฎ้ผปใ‚’้ธใถใจใใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใ‚ใชใŸใฎๆŒ‡ใ‚’ใ‚ใชใŸใฎ้ผปใซ็ฝฎใใพใ™
14:25
finger up your nose and well I'm not going to describe it in
ใ€ใใ—ใฆ ็งใฏใใ‚Œใ‚’ใ‚ใพใ‚Š่ฉณ็ดฐใซ่ชฌๆ˜Žใ™ใ‚‹ใคใ‚‚ใ‚Šใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“
14:29
too much detail but certainly I think a lot of people pick
ใŒใ€็ขบใ‹ใซ ๅคšใใฎไบบใ€…ใŒ
14:34
their nose privately. So people will pick their nose when noone
ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฎ้ผปใ‚’ๅ€‹ไบบ็š„ใซ้ธใถใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใงใ™ใ‹ใ‚‰ ใ€่ชฐใ‚‚่ฆ‹ใฆใ„ใชใ„ใจใใซไบบใ€…ใฏ้ผปใ‚’ใคใพใ‚€ใงใ—ใ‚‡
14:38
is looking. But it is considered bad manners to pick
ใ†ใ€‚ ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€ไป–ใฎไบบใฎๅ‰ใง้ผป ใ‚’ใคใพใ‚€ใฎใฏใƒžใƒŠใƒผใŒๆ‚ชใ„ใจ่€ƒใˆใ‚‰ใ‚Œใฆใ„
14:41
your nose in front of other people. This is another thing
ใพใ™ ใ€‚ ใ“ใ‚Œใฏ
14:45
that parents often teach their not to do. You know don't pick
ใ€่ฆชใŒใ—ใฐใ—ใฐๅฝผใ‚‰ใซ ใ—ใชใ„ใ‚ˆใ†ใซๆ•™ใˆใ‚‹ใ‚‚ใ†ไธ€ใคใฎใ“ใจใงใ™ใ€‚ ไป–ใฎไบบใฎๅ‘จใ‚Š
14:49
your nose when when you're around other people. Actually
ใซใ„ใ‚‹ใจใใฏใ€้ผปใ‚’ใคใพใ‚“ใงใฏใ„ใ‘ใพใ›ใ‚“ ใ€‚ ๅฎŸ้š›ใซ
14:53
don't pick your nose. I'm not going to talk about it anymore.
ใ‚ใชใŸใฎ้ผปใ‚’ๆ‘˜ใพใชใ„ใงใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚ ใ‚‚ใ†ใใ‚Œใซใคใ„ใฆ่ฉฑใ™ใคใ‚‚ใ‚Šใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
14:57
It's up to you whether you pick your nose or not. Just don't do
้ผปใ‚’ใคใพใ‚€ใ‹ใฉใ†ใ‹ใฏใ‚ใชใŸๆฌก็ฌฌใงใ™ ใ€‚ ไบบใ€…
15:00
it in front of a group of people. Greeting visitors. So
ใฎใ‚ฐใƒซใƒผใƒ—ใฎๅ‰ใงใใ‚Œใ‚’ใ—ใชใ„ใงใใ ใ•ใ„ ใ€‚ ่จชๅ•่€…ใฎๆŒจๆ‹ถใ€‚ ใงใ™ใ‹ใ‚‰
15:04
when someone comes to visit us like let's say Jen's parents
ใ€่ชฐใ‹ใŒ็งใŸใกใ‚’่จชใญใฆใใŸใจใใ€ ใŸใจใˆใฐใ‚ธใ‚งใƒณใฎไธก่ฆช
15:10
come for a visit. When we see them drive in we will go to the
ใŒ่จชใญใฆใใŸใจใ—ใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚ ๅฝผใ‚‰ใŒ่ปŠใงๅ…ฅใฃใฆใใ‚‹ใฎใ‚’่ฆ‹ใ‚‹
15:16
front door of our house and open the door and welcome them
ใจใ€็งใŸใกใฏๅฎถใฎๆญฃ้ข็Ž„้–ขใซ่กŒใ ใ€ใƒ‰ใ‚ขใ‚’้–‹ใ‘ใฆๅฝผใ‚‰
15:20
to our house. We don't just sit at the kitchen table and wait
ใ‚’็งใŸใกใฎๅฎถใซ่ฟŽใˆใพใ™ใ€‚ ็งใŸใกใฏใŸใ  ๅฐๆ‰€ใฎใƒ†ใƒผใƒ–ใƒซใซๅบงใฃ
15:25
for them to come in. When we have visitors people who don't
ใฆๅฝผใ‚‰ใŒๆฅใ‚‹ใฎใ‚’ๅพ…ใคใ ใ‘ใงใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚็ง ใŸใกใŒใ‚ใพใ‚Šไผšใ‚ใชใ„่จชๅ•่€…ใŒใ„ใ‚‹ใจใใ€็งใŸใกใฏใƒ‰ใ‚ขใง่จชๅ•่€…ใซ
15:29
who we don't see very often we've quite often will greet
ๆŒจๆ‹ถใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’้ ป็นใซ่ฟŽใˆใพใ™ใ€‚
15:34
greeting visitors at the door is a very polite and kind thing
ไธๅฏงใง่ฆชๅˆ‡
15:39
to do. So you can see this family here has guests and they
ใชใ“ใจใ€‚ ใงใ™ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€ ใ“ใ“ใซใ„ใ‚‹ใ“ใฎๅฎถๆ—ใซใฏใ‚ฒใ‚นใƒˆใŒใ„ใฆใ€
15:43
are greeting them at the door. And then the reverse. This
ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏใƒ‰ใ‚ขใงๅฝผใ‚‰ใซๆŒจๆ‹ถใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใฎใ‚’่ฆ‹ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™ใ€‚ ใใ—ใฆใใฎ้€†ใ€‚ ็งใฏใ“ใ‚ŒใŒ่ตทใ“ใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจๆ€ใ†ใฎใง
15:47
isn't the greatest picture of this because I think this is
ใ€ใ“ใ‚Œใฏใ“ใ‚Œใฎๆœ€้ซ˜ใฎ็ตตใงใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“
15:50
happening. When we have guests when they leave we see them to
ใ€‚ ๅฝผใ‚‰ใŒๅŽปใ‚‹ใจใใซ็งใŸใกใŒใ‚ฒใ‚นใƒˆใ‚’่ฟŽใˆใ‚‹ ใจใใ€็งใŸใกใฏๅฝผใ‚‰
15:55
the door. It's kind of a weird English phrase isn't it? When
ใŒใƒ‰ใ‚ขใซๅ‘ใ‹ใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใฎใ‚’่ฆ‹ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใกใ‚‡ใฃใจๅค‰ใช ่‹ฑ่ชžใฎใƒ•ใƒฌใƒผใ‚บใงใ™ใญใ€‚
15:58
you see someone to the door it means that you walk to the door
ใ‚ใชใŸใŒใƒ‰ใ‚ขใซ่ชฐใ‹ใ‚’่ฆ‹ใ‚‹ใจใใ€ใใ‚Œ ใฏ
16:03
with them when they leave your house. So if Jen's parents come
ๅฝผใ‚‰ใŒใ‚ใชใŸใฎๅฎถใ‚’ๅ‡บใ‚‹ใจใใซใ‚ใชใŸใŒๅฝผใ‚‰ใจไธ€็ท’ใซใƒ‰ใ‚ขใซๆญฉใ„ใฆ่กŒใใ“ใจใ‚’ๆ„ๅ‘ณใ—ใพใ™ ใ€‚ ใใ‚Œใงใ€ใ‚ธใ‚งใƒณใฎไธก่ฆชใŒๆฅใฆ
16:07
and they visit for a few hours and we have a cup of tea and
ใ€ๅฝผใ‚‰ใŒๆ•ฐๆ™‚้–“่จชๅ•ใ— ใ€็งใŸใกใŒใŠ่Œถใ‚’้ฃฒใ‚“ใ ใ‚‰
16:11
then they say well we need to get going Jen and I will see
ใ€ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏ็งใŸใกใŒใ‚ธใ‚งใƒณใซ่กŒใๅฟ…่ฆใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ใจใ‚ˆใ่จ€ใ„ใพใ™ ใ€ใใ—ใฆ็งใฏ
16:14
them to the door. That means we'll walk to the front door of
ๅฝผใ‚‰ใ‚’ใƒ‰ใ‚ขใซ่ฆ‹ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใใ‚Œใฏ ็งใŸใกใŒๅฝผใ‚‰ใจไธ€็ท’ใซๅฎถใฎๆญฃ้ข็Ž„้–ขใพใงๆญฉใใ“ใจใ‚’ๆ„ๅ‘ณ
16:18
the house with them. And they'll put their shoes and
ใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใใ—ใฆ ใ€ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏ้ด
16:21
jackets on and we'll just talk in the entrance way for a
ใจใ‚ธใƒฃใ‚ฑใƒƒใƒˆใ‚’็€ใฆใ€
16:25
little bit before they leave. Definitely good manners to
ๅฝผใ‚‰ใŒๅŽปใ‚‹ๅ‰ใซๅฐ‘ใ—ใ ใ‘ๅ…ฅใ‚Šๅฃใง่ฉฑใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
16:27
greet someone at the door and see someone to the door when
ใƒ‰ใ‚ขใง่ชฐใ‹ใซๆŒจๆ‹ถใ—ใ€ๅฝผใ‚‰ใŒ่จชๅ•ใ—ใŸ ใจใใซใƒ‰ใ‚ขใซ่ชฐใ‹ใ‚’่ฆ‹ใ‚‹ใฎใฏ้–“้•ใ„ใชใ่‰ฏใ„ใƒžใƒŠใƒผ
16:31
they visit. Here's another one that's possibly North American
ใงใ™ใ€‚ ใ“ใ‚Œใฏ ใŠใใ‚‰ใๅŒ—็ฑณใง
16:36
but possibly not. It's considered polite to knock.
ใ‚ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใชใ„ใŒใใ†ใงใฏใชใ„ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใชใ„ใ‚‚ใ†ไธ€ใคใฎใ‚‚ใฎใงใ™ใ€‚ ใƒŽใƒƒใ‚ฏใ™ใ‚‹ใฎใฏ็คผๅ„€ๆญฃใ—ใ„ใจ่€ƒใˆใ‚‰ใ‚Œใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ่ชฐใ‹ใฎๅฎถ
16:40
Knocking before entering someone's house is very very
ใซๅ…ฅใ‚‹ๅ‰ใซใƒŽใƒƒใ‚ฏใ™ใ‚‹ใฎ ใฏใจใฆใ‚‚
16:44
polite. It's a good manners. Ringing the doorbell knocking
็คผๅ„€ๆญฃใ—ใ„ใงใ™ใ€‚ ใƒžใƒŠใƒผใฏใ„ใ„ใงใ™ใ€‚ ใƒ‰ใ‚ขใƒ™ใƒซใ‚’้ณดใ‚‰ใ—ใฆ
16:47
both count as the same type of activity. But it's considered
ไธกๆ–นใ‚’ใƒŽใƒƒใ‚ฏใ™ใ‚‹ใจใ€ๅŒใ˜ใ‚ฟใ‚คใƒ—ใฎใ‚ขใ‚ฏใƒ†ใ‚ฃใƒ“ใƒ†ใ‚ฃใจใ—ใฆใ‚ซใ‚ฆใƒณใƒˆใ•ใ‚Œ ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€่ชฐใ‹ใฎๅฎถใซ่ถณใ‚’่ธใฟๅ…ฅใ‚Œใ‚‹ใฎใฏๅคฑ็คผใ ใจ่€ƒใˆใ‚‰ใ‚Œใฆใ„
16:52
rude to just walk into someone's house. So let me
ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใใ‚Œใงใฏ
16:56
clarify a little bit. When we when I visit my sister I
ใ€ๅฐ‘ใ—ๆ˜Ž็ขบใซใ—ใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚ ็งใŸใกใŒๅง‰ใ‚’่จชใญใ‚‹ใจใใ€็ง
17:02
usually walk straight into her house. But when I visit friends
ใฏใ„ใคใ‚‚ๅฝผๅฅณใฎ ๅฎถใซใพใฃใ™ใๆญฉใใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€ๅ‹้”ใ‚’่จชใญใ‚‹
17:08
I knock or ring the doorbell when I get there. I think it
ใจใ€ใใ“ใซ็€ใ„ใŸใจใใซใƒ‰ใ‚ขใƒ™ใƒซใ‚’ใƒŽใƒƒใ‚ฏใ—ใŸใ‚Š้ณดใ‚‰ใ—ใŸใ‚Šใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใใ‚Œ
17:12
depends on how well you know the person. But let me think
ใฏใ‚ใชใŸใŒใใฎไบบใ‚’ใฉใ‚Œใ ใ‘ใ‚ˆใ็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ‹ใซใ‚ˆใ‚‹ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ ใ€‚ ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚’่€ƒใˆใ•ใ›ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„
17:16
this through. When we visit Jen's parents yeah I no we
ใ€‚ ็งใŸใกใŒใ‚ธใ‚งใƒณใฎไธก่ฆชใ‚’่จชใญใ‚‹ใจใใ€ ใˆใˆใ€็งใŸใก
17:20
don't knock. We just walk in. But when we visit my friends we
ใฏใƒŽใƒƒใ‚ฏใ—ใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ็งใŸใกใฏใŸใ ๅ…ฅใฃใฆๆฅใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€็งใŸใกใŒ็งใฎๅ‹ไบบใ‚’่จชใญใ‚‹ใจใใ€็งใŸใกใฏ
17:23
always knock. So it definitely depends on how well you know
ใ„ใคใ‚‚ใƒŽใƒƒใ‚ฏใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ—ใŸใŒใฃใฆใ€ใƒ‰ใ‚ขใƒ™ใƒซใ‚’ใƒŽใƒƒใ‚ฏใ™ใ‚‹ใ‹้ณดใ‚‰ใ™ ใ‹ใฉใ†ใ‹ใฏใ€่ชฐใ‹ใ‚’ใฉใ‚Œใ ใ‘ใ‚ˆใ็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ‹ใซใ‚ˆใฃใฆ็•ฐใชใ‚Šใพใ™
17:28
someone whether you knock or ring the doorbell or not. Um so
ใ€‚ ใˆใˆใจใ€่ชฐใ‹ใซ
17:34
it's considered good manners to say excuse me before asking
่ณชๅ•ใ™ใ‚‹ๅ‰ใซใ™ใฟใพใ›ใ‚“ใจ่จ€ใ†ใฎใฏใƒžใƒŠใƒผใ ใจ
17:39
someone a question. The perfect example for this would be if
ๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ“ใ‚ŒใฎๅฎŒ็’งใช ไพ‹
17:44
you're lost and asking for directions. You would say
ใฏใ€้“ใซ่ฟทใฃใฆ้“ใ‚’ๅฐ‹ใญใ‚‹ๅ ดๅˆ ใงใ™ใ€‚
17:47
excuse me. Could you tell me how to get to the museum?
ใ™ใฟใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ็พŽ่ก“้คจใธใฎ่กŒใๆ–นใ‚’ๆ•™ใˆใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
17:51
Excuse me. Do you have change for a $5 bill? Excuse me. Could
ใ™ใฟใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ 5ใƒ‰ใƒซๆœญใซๅค‰ๆ›ดใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ ใ™ใฟใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ๅธ‚ๅบ่ˆŽใฎ
17:55
you tell me where to find the town hall. I I'm having trouble
ๅ ดๆ‰€ใ‚’ๆ•™ใˆใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ ใ€‚ ไพ‹ใ‚’่€ƒใˆใ‚‹ใฎใซ่‹ฆๅŠดใ—ใฆใ„
18:02
thinking of examples. But When you ask a question and you say
ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ—ใ‹ใ— ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใŒ่ณชๅ•ใ‚’ใ—ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใŒ
18:08
excuse me before you ask it it makes the question sound a lot
ใใ‚Œใ‚’ๅฐ‹ใญใ‚‹ๅ‰ใซ็งใ‚’่จฑใ—ใชใ•ใ„ใจ่จ€ใ†ใจใใ€ใใ‚Œ ใฏ่ณชๅ•ใ‚’
18:12
more polite. And it's definitely good manners. Uh
ใ‚ˆใ‚Šไธๅฏงใซ่žใ“ใˆใ‚‹ใ‚ˆใ†ใซใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใใ—ใฆใ€ใใ‚Œใฏ ้–“้•ใ„ใชใใƒžใƒŠใƒผใงใ™ใ€‚ ใˆใˆใจใ€
18:16
this is definitely not polite. This is something that we
ใ“ใ‚Œใฏ้–“้•ใ„ใชใ็คผๅ„€ๆญฃใ—ใใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ใ“ใ‚Œใฏ
18:20
discourage in our house but sometimes it's hard. Using your
็งใŸใกใฎๅฎถใงใฏใŠๅ‹งใ‚ใงใใพใ›ใ‚“ใŒใ€ ้›ฃใ—ใ„ๅ ดๅˆใ‚‚ใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
18:24
phone at dinner. Or using your phone especially in a
ๅค•้ฃŸๆ™‚ใซๆบๅธฏ้›ป่ฉฑใ‚’ไฝฟ็”จใ™ใ‚‹ใ€‚ ใพใŸใฏ
18:28
restaurant while you're eating with other people. Can be
ใ€ไป–ใฎไบบใจ้ฃŸไบ‹ใ‚’ใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจใใซใ€็‰นใซใƒฌใ‚นใƒˆใƒฉใƒณใงๆบๅธฏ้›ป่ฉฑใ‚’ไฝฟ็”จใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
18:31
considered bad manners. It really depends. When my
ใƒžใƒŠใƒผใŒๆ‚ชใ„ใจ่€ƒใˆใ‚‰ใ‚Œใพใ™ใ€‚ ใใ‚Œใฏ ๆœฌๅฝ“ใซไพๅญ˜ใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚ ็ง
18:35
brothers and sisters go out to eat when we go to a which we
ใŸใก
18:40
haven't done for three years. When we go out to eat we
ใŒ3ๅนด้–“่กŒใฃใฆใ„ใชใ„ๅ ดๆ‰€ใซ่กŒใใจใใซ็งใฎๅ…„ๅผŸๅง‰ๅฆนใŒๅค–้ฃŸใ™ใ‚‹ใจใใ€‚ ๅค–้ฃŸใ™ใ‚‹ใจใใฏ
18:43
usually just turn the ringers off on our phones and leave
ใ€้€šๅธธใ€้›ป่ฉฑใฎๅ‘ผใณๅ‡บใ—้Ÿณใ‚’ ใ‚ชใƒ•ใซ
18:47
them in our pockets. Um when you're visiting with people it
ใ—ใฆใ€ใƒใ‚ฑใƒƒใƒˆใซๅ…ฅใ‚ŒใฆใŠใใพใ™ใ€‚ ใˆใˆใจใ€ ใ‚ใชใŸใŒไบบใ€…ใจไธ€็ท’ใซ่จชๅ•ใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจใใ€ใใ‚Œใฏๅคฑ็คผใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“
18:51
can be impolite. It can be bad manners to be on your phone all
ใ€‚ ใ„ใคใ‚‚ๆบๅธฏ้›ป่ฉฑใ‚’ไฝฟใ†ใฎใฏใƒžใƒŠใƒผใŒๆ‚ชใ„ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›
18:55
the time. Washing your hands before eating. So this is more
ใ‚“ใ€‚ ้ฃŸในใ‚‹ๅ‰ใซๆ‰‹ใ‚’ๆด—ใ†ใ€‚ ใงใ™ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€ใ“ใ‚Œใฏ
19:00
of a custom. But it's also considered good manners. Um
ใ‚‚ใฃใจ็ฟ’ๆ…ฃใงใ™ใ€‚ ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€ใใ‚Œใฏ ใƒžใƒŠใƒผใ‚‚่€ƒๆ…ฎใ•ใ‚Œใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
19:04
when you are out and about in the world depending on what you
ๅค–ๅ‡บไธญ ใฏใ€ไฝ•ใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹ใ‹ใซใ‚ˆใฃใฆ
19:08
do your hands tend to get dirty and it's just a really good
ๆ‰‹ใŒๆฑšใ‚Œใ‚‹ๅ‚พๅ‘ใŒ ใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚้ฃŸในใ‚‹
19:11
idea to wash your hands before you eat. This is something have
ๅ‰ใซๆ‰‹ใ‚’ๆด—ใ†ใฎใฏๆœฌๅฝ“ใซ่‰ฏใ„่€ƒใˆ ใงใ™ใ€‚ ใ“ใ‚Œใฏ
19:15
tried to teach our children to do and they do it 99% of the
็งใŸใกใฎๅญไพ›ใŸใกใซใ‚„ใ‚ใ†ใจ่ฉฆใฟใŸใ‚‚ใฎ ใงใ‚ใ‚Šใ€99๏ผ…ใฎ็ขบ็Ž‡ใงใใ‚Œใ‚’ใ—ใฆ
19:19
time. It's especially important right now during COVID. You
ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ“ใ‚Œ ใฏใ€COVIDใฎๆœ€ไธญใซ็‰นใซ้‡่ฆใงใ™ใ€‚ ้ฃŸในใ‚‹ๅ‰ใซ
19:23
should always make sure that you wash your hands before you
ๅฟ…ใšๆ‰‹ใ‚’ๆด—ใ†ใ‚ˆใ†ใซใ—ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„
19:27
eat. It's just a good practice. It's sanitary and it's
ใ€‚ ใใ‚Œใฏ่‰ฏใ„็ฟ’ๆ…ฃใงใ™ใ€‚ ใใ‚Œใฏ่ก›็”Ÿ็š„ใงใ€
19:31
definitely good manners as well. Holding doors for others.
ใƒžใƒŠใƒผใ‚‚้–“้•ใ„ใชใ่‰ฏใ„ ใงใ™ใ€‚ ไป–ใฎไบบใฎใŸใ‚ใซใƒ‰ใ‚ขใ‚’ๆกใ‚‹ใ€‚
19:37
So this is an interesting one because this is changing a
ใ“ใ‚Œใฏๅฐ‘ใ—ๅค‰ใ‚ใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใฎใงใ€ใ“ใ‚Œใฏ่ˆˆๅ‘ณๆทฑใ„ใ‚‚ใฎ
19:41
little bit. So holding a door for someone is considered
ใงใ™ใ€‚ ใ—ใŸใŒใฃใฆ ใ€่ชฐใ‹ใฎใŸใ‚ใซใƒ‰ใ‚ขใ‚’ๆกใ‚‹ใ“ใจใฏ็คผๅ„€ๆญฃใ—ใ„ใจ่ฆ‹ใชใ•ใ‚Œ
19:45
polite. I still consider it polite. If I'm walking into a
ใพใ™ใ€‚ ็งใฏใพใ ใใ‚Œใ‚’ ็คผๅ„€ๆญฃใ—ใ„ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ็งใŒๅปบ็‰ฉใซ่ถณใ‚’่ธใฟๅ…ฅใ‚Œใฆใ„ใฆใ€
19:49
building and someone is walking behind me. I will often open
่ชฐใ‹ใŒ ็งใฎๅพŒใ‚ใ‚’ๆญฉใ„ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ๅ ดๅˆใ€‚ ็งใฏใ‚ˆใ
19:53
the door and hold it for them when they go in. Man or woman.
ใƒ‰ใ‚ขใ‚’้–‹ใ‘ใฆใ€ๅฝผใ‚‰ใŒๅ…ฅใ‚‹ใจใใซใใ‚Œใ‚’ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฎใŸใ‚ใซไฟๆŒ ใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚็”ทๆ€งใพใŸใฏๅฅณๆ€งใ€‚
19:58
Okay? Um I think though that this is changing a little bit
ใ‚ใ‹ใฃใŸ๏ผŸ ใˆใƒผใจใ€ใ“ใ‚Œใฏๅฐ‘ใ—ๅค‰ใ‚ใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ใŒใ€
20:02
because people sometimes feel like I don't know let me just
็งใซใฏใ‚ใ‹ใ‚‰ใชใ„ใจใ„ใ†ๆฐ—ๆŒใกใŒๆ™‚ใ€…ใ‚ใ‚‹ใฎใงใ€
20:06
put it this way. I'm 50 years old. I still think it's very
ใ“ใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซ่จ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ็งใฏ50 ๆญณใงใ™ใ€‚ ่ชฐใ‹ใฎ
20:10
polite to hold a door for someone. If I'm leaving a
ใŸใ‚ใซใƒ‰ใ‚ขใ‚’้–‹ใ‘ใ‚‹ใฎใฏไปŠใงใ‚‚ใจใฆใ‚‚็คผๅ„€ๆญฃใ—ใ„ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ ใ€‚ ็งใŒ
20:14
building and someone is leaving right behind me. I will hold
ๅปบ็‰ฉใ‚’้›ขใ‚Œใ€่ชฐใ‹ใŒ ็งใฎใ™ใๅพŒใ‚ใ‚’้›ขใ‚Œใฆใ„ใ‚‹ๅ ดๅˆใ€‚ ็งใฏ
20:17
the door for them for a little bit. Because doors close
ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฎใŸใ‚ใซๅฐ‘ใ—ใฎ้–“ใƒ‰ใ‚ขใ‚’ๆกใ‚Š ใพใ™ใ€‚ ๅปบ็‰ฉใฎใƒ‰ใ‚ขใŒ
20:20
automatically on buildings. So if there's someone right behind
่‡ชๅ‹•็š„ใซ้–‰ใพใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‰ใงใ™ใ€‚ ใงใ™ใ‹ใ‚‰ ใ€็งใฎใ™ใๅพŒใ‚ใซ่ชฐใ‹ใŒใ„ใ‚‹ๅ ดๅˆใ€
20:24
me I don't want to walk out have the door kind of swing as
็งใฏๅค–ใซๅ‡บใŸใใชใ„ใฎใง ใ€ๅฝผใ‚‰ใŒๅ‡บใฆใใ‚‹ใจใใซใƒ‰ใ‚ขใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใชใ‚นใ‚คใƒณใ‚ฐใ‚’
20:28
they're coming out. So I just take a second to hold the door
ใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ ใ‹ใ‚‰็งใฏๅฝผใ‚‰ใฎ ใŸใ‚ใซใƒ‰ใ‚ขใ‚’ๆกใ‚‹ใฎใซๅฐ‘ใ—ๆ™‚้–“ใŒใ‹ใ‹ใ‚Š
20:31
for them. Not commenting on looks. So this is a tricky one.
ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใƒซใƒƒใ‚ฏใ‚นใซใคใ„ใฆใฏใ‚ณใƒกใƒณใƒˆใ— ใฆใ„ใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ใงใ™ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€ใ“ใ‚Œใฏใƒˆใƒชใƒƒใ‚ญใƒผใชใ‚‚ใฎใงใ™ใ€‚
20:39
When someone gets a haircut and you think it looks good it's
่ชฐใ‹ใŒใƒ˜ใ‚ขใ‚ซใƒƒใƒˆใ‚’ใ—ใฆใ€ ใใ‚ŒใŒใ‚ˆใ•ใใ†ใ ใจๆ€ใ†ใจใใ€ใกใ‚‡ใฃใจใ‚ใชใŸใฎๆ–ฐใ—ใ„ใƒ˜ใ‚ขใ‚ซใƒƒใƒˆใŒ็ด ๆ™ดใ‚‰ใ—ใ่ฆ‹ใˆใ‚‹ใจ่จ€ใ†ใฎใฏ
20:43
very kind and polite to say hey your new haircut looks great.
ใจใฆใ‚‚่ฆชๅˆ‡ใง็คผๅ„€ๆญฃใ—ใ„ ใงใ™ใ€‚
20:47
Um or that shirt looks good on you. But when you think
ใˆใˆใจใ€ใใฎใ‚ทใƒฃใƒ„ใฏ ใ‚ใชใŸใซไผผๅˆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€
20:51
someone's haircut doesn't look good. Or you think the shirt
่ชฐใ‹ใฎใƒ˜ใ‚ขใ‚ซใƒƒใƒˆใŒใ‚ˆใ่ฆ‹ใˆใชใ„ใจๆ€ใ†ใจใ ใ€‚ ใพใŸใฏใ€
20:55
they're wearing is ugly. It's very very rude to say that. I
ๅฝผใ‚‰ใŒ็€ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ‚ทใƒฃใƒ„ใฏ้†œใ„ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใใ‚Œ ใ‚’่จ€ใ†ใฎใฏ้žๅธธใซๅคฑ็คผใงใ™ใ€‚ ็ง
20:59
would say to someone your new haircut looks really good. I
ใฏ่ชฐใ‹ใซใ‚ใชใŸใฎๆ–ฐใ—ใ„ ใƒ˜ใ‚ขใ‚ซใƒƒใƒˆใŒๆœฌๅฝ“ใซใ‚ˆใ่ฆ‹ใˆใ‚‹ใจ่จ€ใ†ใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚ ็ง
21:03
would say to Someone your new shirt looks great. If someone
ใฏ่ชฐใ‹ใซใ‚ใชใŸใฎๆ–ฐใ—ใ„ ใ‚ทใƒฃใƒ„ใฏ็ด ๆ™ดใ‚‰ใ—ใ่ฆ‹ใˆใ‚‹ใจ่จ€ใ†ใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚ ่ชฐใ‹
21:06
got a haircut though and it didn't look I would not say to
ใŒใƒ˜ใ‚ขใ‚ซใƒƒใƒˆใ‚’ใ—ใฆใ€ใใ‚Œ ใŒ่ฆ‹ใˆใชใ‹ใฃใŸๅ ดๅˆใ€็งใฏ
21:10
them your haircut looks awful. I would consider that bad
ๅฝผใ‚‰ใซใ‚ใชใŸใฎใƒ˜ใ‚ขใ‚ซใƒƒใƒˆใŒใฒใฉใ„ใ‚ˆใ†ใซ่ฆ‹ใˆใ‚‹ใจใฏ่จ€ใ„ใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ็งใฏใใฎๆ‚ชใ„ใƒžใƒŠใƒผใ‚’่€ƒใˆ
21:13
manners. Um even though sometimes it's good to be
ใพใ™ใ€‚
21:17
honest. I wouldn't say that. If someone was wearing a shirt
ๆญฃ็›ดใซ่จ€ใ†ใจใ„ใ„ใ“ใจใ‚‚ใ‚ใ‚‹ใ‘ใฉใญใ€‚ ็งใฏใใ‚Œใ‚’่จ€ใ‚ใชใ„ใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚ ่ชฐใ‹
21:20
that was like just didn't look good. I wouldn't say that to
ใŒใกใ‚‡ใ†ใฉใ‚ˆใ่ฆ‹ใˆใชใ„ใ‚ˆใ†ใชใ‚ทใƒฃใƒ„ใ‚’็€ใฆใ„ใŸใ‚‰ ใ€‚ ็งใฏๅฝผใ‚‰ใซใใ‚Œใ‚’่จ€ใ‚ใชใ„ใงใ—ใ‚‡
21:23
them. Um so commenting on looks can go both ways. If it's a
ใ†ใ€‚ ใˆใˆใจใ€ใƒซใƒƒใ‚ฏใ‚นใซใ‚ณใƒกใƒณใƒˆใ™ใ‚‹ ใ“ใจใฏๅŒๆ–นๅ‘ใซ่กŒใใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™ใ€‚
21:28
positive comment I think that's okay. But if it's a negative
ใƒใ‚ธใƒ†ใ‚ฃใƒ–ใชใ‚ณใƒกใƒณใƒˆใชใ‚‰ๅคงไธˆๅคซใ ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ ใ€‚ ใงใ‚‚ใƒใ‚ฌใƒ†ใ‚ฃใƒ–ใช
21:32
comment yeah I think that would be bad manners. Especially if
ใ‚ณใƒกใƒณใƒˆใชใ‚‰ใƒžใƒŠใƒผใŒๆ‚ชใ„ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ ใ€‚ ็‰นใซ
21:35
you did it repeatedly. But borrowing without returning. So
็นฐใ‚Š่ฟ”ใ—ใ‚„ใฃใŸใ‚‰ใ€‚ ใ—ใ‹ใ— ใ€ๆˆปใ‚‰ใšใซๅ€Ÿใ‚Šใ‚‹ใ€‚ ใงใ™ใ‹ใ‚‰
21:41
when you borrow something it means you do not have that
ใ€ไฝ•ใ‹ใ‚’ๅ€Ÿใ‚Šใ‚‹ใจใใ€ใใ‚Œ ใฏใ‚ใชใŸใŒใใฎ็‰ฉใ‚’ๆŒใฃใฆใ„ใชใ„ใ“ใจใ‚’ๆ„ๅ‘ณใ—ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏ
21:45
thing and you go and ask someone else if you can use
ไป–ใฎ่ชฐใ‹ใซใ‚ใชใŸใŒใใ‚Œใ‚‰ใ‚’ไฝฟใ†ใ“ใจใŒใงใใ‚‹ใ‹ใฉใ†ใ‹
21:49
theirs. You borrow theirs. The most common thing I think that
ๅฐ‹ใญใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ‚ใชใŸใฏๅฝผใ‚‰ใฎใ‚‚ใฎใ‚’ๅ€Ÿใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ ไบบใ€…ใŒๅ€Ÿใ‚Šใ‚‹ใจ ๆ€ใ†ๆœ€ใ‚‚ไธ€่ˆฌ็š„ใชใ‚‚ใฎ
21:52
people borrow would be other people's tools. So when you
ใฏใ€ไป–ใฎ ไบบใ€…ใฎ้“ๅ…ทใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚ ใงใ™ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€ไฝ•ใ‹ใ‚’
21:57
borrow something it is very bad manners to not return it. Um
ๅ€Ÿใ‚Šใ‚‹ใจใใ€ใใ‚Œใ‚’่ฟ”ใ•ใชใ„ใฎใฏ้žๅธธใซๆ‚ชใ„ ใƒžใƒŠใƒผใงใ™ใ€‚ ใˆใˆใจใ€
22:02
I've had people in the past borrow things from me. Um and
็งใฏ้ŽๅŽปใซไบบใ€…ใซ ็งใ‹ใ‚‰็‰ฉใ‚’ๅ€Ÿใ‚Šใฆใ‚‚ใ‚‰ใ„ใพใ—ใŸใ€‚ ใˆใˆใจใ€
22:07
then days, weeks, months go by and they haven't returned it.
ใใ‚Œใ‹ใ‚‰ๆ•ฐๆ—ฅใ€ๆ•ฐ้€ฑ้–“ใ€ๆ•ฐใƒถๆœˆใŒ็ตŒใก ใ€ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏใใ‚Œใ‚’่ฟ”ใ—ใฆใ„ใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
22:13
It's very very rude. It is definitely considered bad
ใจใฆใ‚‚ๅคฑ็คผใงใ™ใ€‚
22:17
manners to borrow something and then not return it. Or even
ไฝ•ใ‹ใ‚’ๅ€Ÿใ‚Šใฆ ่ฟ”ๅดใ—ใชใ„ใฎใฏใƒžใƒŠใƒผใŒๆ‚ชใ„ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใพใŸใฏ
22:21
keep it for a long time. Uh if you borrow something you should
ใใ‚Œใ‚’้•ทๆœŸ้–“ไฟๆŒใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ•ใˆใงใใพใ™ใ€‚ ใˆใˆใจใ€ ใ‚ใชใŸใŒไฝ•ใ‹ใ‚’ๅ€Ÿใ‚Šใ‚‹ใชใ‚‰
22:25
always bring it back to the person who you borrowed it
ใ€ ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใใ‚Œใ‚’ใ‚ใชใŸใŒใใ‚Œใ‚’ๅ€Ÿใ‚ŠใŸไบบใซๅธธใซใใ‚Œ
22:28
from. Writing thank you notes is considered very polite and
ใ‚’ๆŒใกๅธฐใ‚‹ในใใงใ™ใ€‚ ใ‚ใ‚ŠใŒใจใ†ใฎใƒกใƒขใ‚’ๆ›ธใใ“ใจ ใฏ้žๅธธใซ็คผๅ„€ๆญฃใ—ใใใ—ใฆ
22:33
very kind. Especially after like a significant event. So if
้žๅธธใซ่ฆชๅˆ‡ใงใ‚ใ‚‹ใจ่€ƒใˆใ‚‰ใ‚Œใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ็‰นใซ ้‡่ฆใชใ‚คใƒ™ใƒณใƒˆใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซใ€‚ ใใ‚Œใงใ€
22:38
you get married and people give you wedding gifts you should
ใ‚ใชใŸใŒ็ตๅฉšใ—ใฆใ€ไบบใ€…ใŒ ใ‚ใชใŸใซ็ตๅฉšๅผใฎ่ดˆใ‚Š็‰ฉใ‚’ไธŽใˆใ‚‹ใชใ‚‰ใฐใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏ
22:42
send them thank you notes. You should write a little note that
ๅฝผใ‚‰ใซๆ„Ÿ่ฌใฎใƒกใƒขใ‚’้€ใ‚‹ในใใงใ™ใ€‚ ใƒใƒผใƒ™ใ‚ญใƒฅใƒผใ‚’ใ‚ใ‚ŠใŒใจใ† ใจ่จ€ใ†ๅฐใ•ใชใƒกใƒขใ‚’ๆ›ธใ
22:45
says thank you for the barbecue. It was great. You
ๅฟ…่ฆใŒใ‚ใ‚Š ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ‚ˆใ‹ใฃใŸใ€‚ ใ‚ใชใŸ
22:48
guys are awesome. Thanks for coming to my wedding. Um we
ใŸใกใฏ็ด ๆ™ดใ‚‰ใ—ใ„ใงใ™ใ€‚ ็งใฎ็ตๅฉšๅผใซๆฅใฆใใ‚Œใฆใ‚ใ‚ŠใŒใจใ†ใ€‚ ใˆใˆใจใ€็ง
22:51
don't normally do it after birthdays. Like I don't send
ใŸใกใฏ้€šๅธธใ€่ช•็”Ÿๆ—ฅใฎๅพŒใซใใ‚Œใ‚’ใ—ใพใ›ใ‚“ ใ€‚ ่ช•็”Ÿๆ—ฅไผšใฎ
22:55
thank you notes after a birthday party. But after
ๅพŒใงใŠ็คผ็Šถใ‚’้€ใ‚‰ใชใ„ใ‚ˆใ†ใซ ใ€‚ ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€
22:59
something significant. Um like if I had If I had a party if
ไฝ•ใ‹้‡่ฆใชๅพŒใ€‚
23:07
Jen and I had an anniversary party and people gave us gifts
ใ‚ธใ‚งใƒณใจใ‚ขใƒ‹ใƒใƒผใ‚ตใƒชใƒผใƒ‘ใƒผใƒ†ใ‚ฃใƒผใŒใ‚ใฃใŸใ‚‰ใ€ ใฟใ‚“ใชใŒใƒ—ใƒฌใ‚ผใƒณใƒˆ
23:11
I would send them a thank you note afterwards. Talking during
ใ‚’ใใ‚ŒใŸใ‚‰ใ€ๅพŒใงใŠ็คผ็Šถใ‚’้€ใ‚Šใพใ™ ใ€‚
23:15
a movie. So we talked about talking loudly and I think I
ๆ˜ ็”ปใฎไธญใง่ฉฑใ™ใ€‚ ใใ‚Œใง็งใŸใกใฏ ๅคงๅฃฐใง่ฉฑใ™ใ“ใจใซใคใ„ใฆ่ฉฑใ—ใพใ—ใŸใ€ใใ—ใฆ็งใฏ
23:19
mentioned this a little bit. Talking during a movie is just
ใ“ใ‚Œใซใคใ„ใฆๅฐ‘ใ—่จ€ๅŠใ—ใŸใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ๆ˜ ็”ปใฎไธญใง่ฉฑใ™ใ“ใจใฏใ€
23:22
incredibly bad manners. When people go to see a movie they
ไฟกใ˜ใ‚‰ใ‚Œใชใ„ใปใฉๆ‚ชใ„ใƒžใƒŠใƒผใงใ™ใ€‚ ไบบใ€…ใŒๆ˜ ็”ปใ‚’่ฆ‹ใซ่กŒใใจใใ€ๅฝผใ‚‰
23:26
want to enjoy the show. They want to enjoy what they're
ใฏใ‚ทใƒงใƒผใ‚’ๆฅฝใ—ใฟใŸใ„ใจๆ€ใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏ ่‡ชๅˆ†ใŸใกใŒ่ฆ‹ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ‚‚ใฎใ‚’ๆฅฝใ—ใฟใŸใ„ใฎใงใ™
23:30
watching. Part of that enjoyment is being able to hear
ใ€‚ ใใฎ ๆฅฝใ—ใฟใฎไธ€้ƒจใฏใใ‚Œใ‚’่žใใ“ใจใŒใงใใ‚‹
23:33
it. So talking during a movie Movie. Having your phone on and
ใ“ใจใงใ™ใ€‚ ใ ใ‹ใ‚‰ๆ˜ ็”ปใฎไธญใง่ฉฑใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ ใ€‚ ๆ˜ ็”ปใฎๆœ€ไธญใซๆบๅธฏ้›ป่ฉฑใ‚’ใคใ‘ใฆ
23:38
glowing during a movie is also I think bad manners. Um and
ๅ…‰ใ‚‰ใ›ใ‚‹ใฎใ‚‚ ใƒžใƒŠใƒผใŒๆ‚ชใ„ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใˆใˆใจใ€
23:41
certainly you can see in this picture these two guys are
็ขบใ‹ใซใ“ใฎๅ†™็œŸใงใ‚ใชใŸใฏ ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎ2ไบบใฎ็”ทใŒๆ˜ ็”ปใฎ้–“ใซ
23:45
annoyed because the people sitting a few rows back are
ๆ•ฐๅˆ—ๅพŒใ‚ใซๅบงใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ไบบใ€…ใŒ่ฉฑใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใฎใงใ‚คใƒฉใ‚คใƒฉใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใฎใ‚’่ฆ‹ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™
23:49
talking during a movie. Not a very nice thing to do.
ใ€‚ ใ‚ใพใ‚Šใ„ใ„ใ“ใจใงใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
23:53
Apologizing is considered a good thing to do. And I this is
่ฌ็ฝชใฏ ่‰ฏใ„ใ“ใจใ ใจ่€ƒใˆใ‚‰ใ‚Œใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใใ—ใฆใ€็งใฏใ“ใ‚Œใฏ
23:58
kind of a duplicate. We talked about saying sorry. Um when you
ไธ€็จฎใฎ้‡่ค‡ใงใ™ใ€‚ ็”ณใ—่จณใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใจ่ฉฑใ—ใพใ—ใŸใ€‚ ่ชฐใ‹ใซใถใคใ‹ใฃใŸใจใ
24:02
bump into someone you should say I'm sorry. Um when You yeah
ใฏใ€ใ”ใ‚ใ‚“ใชใ•ใ„ใจ่จ€ใ†ในใใงใ™ใ€‚ ใˆใˆใจใ€ใˆใˆ
24:07
that's probably the best example. When you're at the
ใ€ใใ‚ŒใฏใŠใใ‚‰ใๆœ€่‰ฏใฎ ไพ‹ใงใ™ใ€‚ ใ‚ใชใŸใŒ
24:09
grocery store and you accidentally bump into someone.
้ฃŸๆ–™ๅ“ๅบ—ใซใ„ใฆใ€ ๅถ็„ถ่ชฐใ‹ใซใถใคใ‹ใฃใŸใจใใ€‚
24:12
You know what bumping is right? When you you turn and you hit
ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใฉใ‚“ใช่ก็ชใŒๆญฃใ—ใ„ใ‹็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ ใ‚ใชใŸใŒๅ‘ใใ‚’ๅค‰ใˆ
24:15
someone by accident you should definitely say I'm sorry to
ใฆๅถ็„ถ่ชฐใ‹ใซใถใคใ‹ใฃใŸใจใใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏ ้–“้•ใ„ใชใๅฝผใ‚‰ใซ็”ณใ—่จณใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใจ่จ€ใ†ในใใงใ™
24:19
them. Swearing is never a good idea. So the other day someone
ใ€‚ ็ฝตๅ€’ใฏๆฑบใ—ใฆ่‰ฏใ„่€ƒใˆใงใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ ใ€‚ ใใ‚Œใงๅ…ˆๆ—ฅ
24:25
in the comments asked if I ever swear. Uh if I ever use bad
ใ€ใ‚ณใƒกใƒณใƒˆใฎ่ชฐใ‹ใŒ็งใŒ่ช“ใ†ใ‹ใฉใ†ใ‹ๅฐ‹ใญใพใ—ใŸ ใ€‚ ใˆใˆใจใ€็งใŒๆ‚ชใ„่จ€่‘‰ใ‚’ไฝฟใ†ใ“ใจใŒใ‚ใ‚Œใฐ
24:29
words. Uh and I said I forget my exact reply but here's my
ใ€‚ ใˆใˆใจใ€็งใฏๆญฃ็ขบใช่ฟ”ไบ‹ใ‚’ๅฟ˜ใ‚ŒใŸใจ่จ€ใ„ใพใ— ใŸใŒใ€ใ“ใ‚ŒใŒ็งใฎ
24:33
reply. Uh yes sometimes when the classic is if you hit your
่ฟ”ไบ‹ใงใ™ใ€‚ ใˆใˆใจใ€ๆ™‚ใ€… ใ€ๅคๅ…ธ็š„ใชใ‚‚ใฎใฏ
24:37
thumb with a hammer. When I'm working on a farm. It's a very
ใ€ใƒใƒณใƒžใƒผใง่ฆชๆŒ‡ใ‚’ๆ‰“ใฃใŸๅ ดๅˆใงใ™ใ€‚ ็งใŒ ่พฒๅ ดใงๅƒใ„ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจใใ€‚ ใใ‚Œใฏ้žๅธธใซ
24:42
physical job and sometimes you know you're you're working on
่‚‰ไฝ“็š„ใชไป•ไบ‹ใงใ‚ใ‚Šใ€ๆ™‚ใ€… ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใ‚ใชใŸใŒ็งใฎใƒžใ‚คใ‚ฏใฎ
24:46
things where you you bang your knuckles against something like
ใ‚ˆใ†ใชใ‚‚ใฎใซใƒŠใƒƒใ‚ฏใƒซใ‚’ใถใคใ‘ใ‚‹ใ‚ˆใ†ใชใ“ใจใซๅ–ใ‚Š็ต„ใ‚“ใงใ„ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™
24:50
my microphone. And then a swear word might come out. I do swear
ใ€‚ ใใ—ใฆใ€ๅฎฃ่ช“ใฎ ่จ€่‘‰ใŒๅ‡บใฆใใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ็งใฏ
24:54
occasionally. But generally I do not swear very much at all.
ๆ™‚ใ€…่ช“ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€ไธ€่ˆฌ็š„ใซ็ง ใฏใ‚ใพใ‚Š่ช“ใ„ใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
24:58
I think because I'm a parent and I don't want to swear in
็งใฏ่ฆชใง ใ‚ใ‚Šใ€ๅญไพ›ใŸใกใฎๅ‰ใง่ช“ใ„ใŸใใชใ„ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™
25:00
front of my children. And also because I've spent a lot of
ใ€‚ ใพใŸ ใ€็งใฏๅญฆๆ กใงๅคšใใฎๆ™‚้–“ใ‚’้Žใ”ใ—ใŸใฎใงใ€
25:04
time in a school teachers cannot swear. It's just you
ๆ•™ๅธซ ใฏ่ช“ใ†ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ใใ‚Œใฏใ‚ใชใŸใŒ
25:08
just don't swear around kids. Um it's just not part of how I
ใŸใ ๅญไพ›ใŸใกใฎๅ‘จใ‚Šใซ่ช“ใ‚ใชใ„ใ ใ‘ใงใ™ใ€‚ ใˆใˆใจใ€ใใ‚Œใฏ็งใŒ่ฉฑใ™ๆ–นๆณ•ใฎไธ€้ƒจใงใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“
25:13
talk. Um some people do swear more but I definitely don't
ใ€‚ ใŸใพใซใ‚‚ใฃใจ็ฝตๅ€’ใ™ใ‚‹ไบบใ‚‚ใ„ใพใ™ ใŒใ€็งใฏ็ตถๅฏพใซ็ฝตๅ€’ใ—ใพใ›
25:16
swear very much but it I consider it bad manners to
25:19
swear I think when you are with friends and everyone uses swear
ใ‚“ใŒใ€ ๅ‹้”ใจไธ€็ท’ใซใ„ใฆใฟใ‚“ใชใŒ็ฝตๅ€’ใ™ใ‚‹
25:25
words. It can be cool for younger people to swear. But
่จ€่‘‰ใ‚’ไฝฟใ†ใจใ€ใƒžใƒŠใƒผใŒๆ‚ชใ„ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ่‹ฅใ„ไบบใŸใกใŒ่ช“ใ†ใฎใฏใ‚ฏใƒผใƒซใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€
25:28
generally when if I was at the bank and the person in front of
ไธ€่ˆฌ็š„ใซใ€็งใŒ ้Š€่กŒใซใ„ใฆใ€็งใฎๅ‰ใฎไบบ
25:32
me started swearing that would be considered very bad manners
ใŒ่ช“ใ„ๅง‹ใ‚ใŸใจใใ€ใใ‚Œใฏ็ขบใ‹ ใซ้žๅธธใซๆ‚ชใ„ใƒžใƒŠใƒผใจ่ฆ‹ใชใ•ใ‚Œใ‚‹ใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†
25:36
indeed. And we have something called table manners. Which I
ใ€‚ ใใ—ใฆ ใ€ใƒ†ใƒผใƒ–ใƒซใƒžใƒŠใƒผใจๅ‘ผใฐใ‚Œใ‚‹ใ‚‚ใฎใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ“ใ‚Œ
25:41
wanted to talk about just for a minute or two. So table manners
ใซใคใ„ใฆใฏใ€1ใ€2ๅˆ†ใ ใ‘ใŠ่ฉฑใ—ใ—ใŸใ„ใจๆ€ใ„ ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใคใพใ‚Šใ€ใƒ†ใƒผใƒ–ใƒซใƒžใƒŠใƒผ
25:45
are things like you put your napkin on your lap. And you
ใฏ ใƒŠใƒ—ใ‚ญใƒณใ‚’่†ใฎไธŠใซ็ฝฎใใ‚ˆใ†ใชใ‚‚ใฎใงใ™ใ€‚ ใใ—ใฆใ€ใ‚ใชใŸ
25:48
have utensils or cutlery. Um like forks, knives and spoons
ใฏ้“ๅ…ทใ‚„ใ‚ซใƒˆใƒฉใƒชใƒผใ‚’ๆŒใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใƒ•ใ‚ฉใƒผใ‚ฏใ€ใƒŠใ‚คใƒ•ใ€
25:53
in a certain order. And you're supposed to use I think you go
ใ‚นใƒ—ใƒผใƒณใฎ้ †็•ชใŒๅฅฝใใงใ™ใ€‚ ใใ—ใฆใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏ
25:58
from the outside in. Use the smallest fork for your salad
ๅค–ใ‹ใ‚‰ๅ…ฅใฃใฆ่กŒใใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใ‚ตใƒฉใƒ€ใซๆœ€ๅฐใฎใƒ•ใ‚ฉใƒผใ‚ฏใ‚’ไฝฟ็”จ
26:01
and the bigger fork for your main meal. And when you're done
ใ—ใ€ใƒกใ‚คใƒณใƒ‡ใ‚ฃใƒƒใ‚ทใƒฅใซใฏๅคงใใชใƒ•ใ‚ฉใƒผใ‚ฏใ‚’ไฝฟ็”จใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใซใชใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ ใ€‚ ใใ—ใฆใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใŒ็ต‚ใ‚ใฃใŸใจใใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏ
26:04
you're supposed to put I don't know all the rules. I don't
็งใŒ ใ™ในใฆใฎ่ฆๅ‰‡ใ‚’็Ÿฅใ‚‰ใชใ„ใจใ„ใ†ใ“ใจใ‚’่จ€ใ†ใ“ใจใซใชใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
26:07
know all I think in North America we have table manners
ๅŒ—็ฑณใง็งใŸใกใŒไปฅๅ‰ใ‚ˆใ‚Šใ‚‚ใƒ†ใƒผใƒ–ใƒซใƒžใƒŠใƒผใ‚’ๆŒใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจๆ€ใ†ใ™ในใฆใ‚’็งใฏ็Ÿฅใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“
26:12
than we used to. Um I do know that it's not polite to chew
ใ€‚ ๅฃใ‚’้–‹ใ‘ ใฆๅ™›ใ‚€ใฎใฏ็คผๅ„€ๆญฃใ—ใใชใ„ใ“ใจใฏ็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ„
26:18
with your mouth open. I do know that when there's when I'm at a
ใพใ™ใ€‚
26:21
fancy dinner like at a wedding and there's multiple pieces of
็ตๅฉšๅผใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซ่ฑช่ฏใชๅค•้ฃŸใ‚’้ฃŸในใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจใ ใ‚„ใ€
26:25
cutlery. I almost always have to ask which fork am I supposed
ใ‚ซใƒˆใƒฉใƒชใƒผใŒ่ค‡ๆ•ฐใ‚ใ‚‹ใจใใฏ็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ็ง
26:28
to use first because I don't always know what to do. But yes
ใฏใ„ใคใ‚‚ไฝ•ใ‚’ใ™ในใใ‹ใ‚ใ‹ใ‚‰ใชใ„ใฎใงใ€็งใฏใปใจใ‚“ใฉใฎๅ ดๅˆใ€ๆœ€ๅˆใซใฉใฎใƒ•ใ‚ฉใƒผใ‚ฏใ‚’ไฝฟใ†ในใใ‹ใ‚’ๅฐ‹ใญใชใ‘ใ‚Œใฐ ใชใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ใงใ‚‚ใใ†ใงใ™ใ€
26:34
table manners I think depending on what country you live in
ใƒ†ใƒผใƒ–ใƒซใƒžใƒŠใƒผใฏ ใ‚ใชใŸใŒไฝใ‚“ใงใ„ใ‚‹ๅ›ฝใซใ‚ˆใฃใฆ
26:37
there are different levels. And it's considered at a table to
ใƒฌใƒ™ใƒซใŒ้•ใ†ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใใ—ใฆใ€ ใใ‚Œใฏใƒ†ใƒผใƒ–ใƒซ
26:42
be it's considered to be bad manners to reach. You're it's
ใงๅˆฐ้”ใ™ใ‚‹ใฎใŒๆ‚ชใ„ใƒžใƒŠใƒผใงใ‚ใ‚‹ใจ่€ƒใˆใ‚‰ใ‚Œใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจ่€ƒใˆใ‚‰ใ‚Œใฆใ„ใพใ™ ใ€‚
26:46
better to ask someone to pass someone or pass something to
่ชฐใ‹ใซ่ชฐใ‹ใ‚’ ๆธกใ™ใ‹ใ€ไฝ•ใ‹ใ‚’ๆธกใ™ใ‚ˆใ†ใซ้ ผใ‚“ใ ใปใ†ใŒใ„ใ„
26:51
you. So you can see this person is reaching for looks like the
ใงใ™ใ€‚ ใคใพใ‚Šใ€ใ“ใฎไบบ ใŒ
26:55
butter or a cup or something like that. Can't quite see in
ใƒใ‚ฟใƒผใ‚„ใ‚ซใƒƒใƒ—ใชใฉใซๆ‰‹ใ‚’ไผธใฐใ—ใฆ ใ„ใ‚‹ใฎใŒใ‚ใ‹ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ ๅ†™็œŸใงใฏใชใ‹ใชใ‹่ฆ‹ใˆใพใ›ใ‚“
26:58
the picture. It's good manners to ask people to pass things.
ใ€‚ ไบบใ€…ใซ็‰ฉไบ‹ใ‚’ๆธกใ™ใ‚ˆใ†ใซ้ ผใ‚€ใฎใฏ่‰ฏใ„ใƒžใƒŠใƒผใงใ™ใ€‚
27:03
Could you please pass the potatoes? Could you please pass
ใ˜ใ‚ƒใŒใ„ใ‚‚ใ‚’ๆธกใ—ใฆ ใ„ใŸใ ใ‘ใพใ›ใ‚“ใ‹ใ€‚ ใƒ‘ใƒณใ‚’ๆธกใ—
27:06
the bread? Could you please pass the milk? Instead of
ใฆใ„ใŸใ ใ‘ใพใ›ใ‚“ใ‹ใ€‚ ใƒŸใƒซใ‚ฏใ‚’ ๆธกใ—ใฆใ„ใŸใ ใ‘ใพใ›ใ‚“ใ‹ใ€‚
27:09
reaching past someone and grabbing it. That's considered
่ชฐใ‹ใ‚’้€šใ‚Š่ถŠใ—ใฆใใ‚Œ ใ‚’ใคใ‹ใ‚€ไปฃใ‚ใ‚Šใซใ€‚ ใใ‚ŒใฏใƒžใƒŠใƒผใŒๆ‚ชใ„ใจ่€ƒใˆใ‚‰ใ‚Œใฆใ„
27:14
bad manners. So if you were ever at a dinner Bob the
ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใงใ™ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚ใชใŸใŒ ๅค•้ฃŸใซ่กŒใฃใŸใ“ใจใŒใ‚ใ‚Œใฐใ€
27:17
Canadian doesn't really know all of the rules for the table
ใ‚ซใƒŠใƒ€ไบบใฎใƒœใƒ–ใฏ็งใŸใกใŒไฝฟใ†ใƒ†ใƒผใƒ–ใƒซใƒžใƒŠใƒผใฎใ™ในใฆใฎใƒซใƒผใƒซใ‚’ๆœฌๅฝ“ใซ็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ‚ใ‘ใงใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“
27:22
manners that we would use. Uh but certainly put the napkin on
ใ€‚ ใˆใˆใจ ใ€ใ—ใ‹ใ—็ขบใ‹ใซใ‚ใชใŸใฎ่†ใฎไธŠใซใƒŠใƒ—ใ‚ญใƒณใ‚’็ฝฎใ
27:26
your lap. Don't reach across in front of other people to grab
ใพใ™ใ€‚ ไป–ใฎไบบใฎๅ‰ใซๆ‰‹ใ‚’ไผธใฐใ—ใฆ็‰ฉใ‚’ใคใ‹ใพ
27:29
things. Uh be kind and polite and don't don't chew with your
ใชใ„ใงใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚ ่ฆชๅˆ‡ใง็คผๅ„€ๆญฃใ—ใ ใ€
27:33
mouth open. And certainly don't put your feet. Don't put your
ๅฃใ‚’้–‹ใ‘ใŸใพใพๅ™›ใพใชใ„ใงใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚ ใใ—ใฆ็ขบใ‹ ใซใ‚ใชใŸใฎ่ถณใ‚’็ฝฎใ‹ใชใ„ใงใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚
27:36
feet on the table. Especially at supper time. That would be a
ใƒ†ใƒผใƒ–ใƒซใฎไธŠใซ่ถณใ‚’็ฝฎใ‹ใชใ„ใงใใ ใ•ใ„ใ€‚ ็‰นใซๅค•้ฃŸๆ™‚ใซใ€‚ ใใ‚Œใฏ
27:39
really bad idea.
ๆœฌๅฝ“ใซๆ‚ชใ„่€ƒใˆใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚
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