Free English Class! โฐ๐Ÿšจ Topic: Stressful Things (Lesson Only)

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Welcome to this free English class where you will learn to talk about stressful tings in English! In this English lesson I'll help you learn words phrases so that you can talk about the things in life that cause stress. As you know, sometimes life is as easy as pie, but sometimes it is also stressful. There are many things in life that cause worry, anxiety, and stress. In this lesson you'll learn how to talk about those things in English. In this English lesson I'll talk about stressful situations that happen when you're young, old or middle-aged. I'll help you learn English words and phrases to talk about stress at work, at school, and at home. In this English lesson you'll learn English words and phrases like the first day of school, uncertainty, getting arrested, going bankrupt, public speaking, English conversation, and more! I hope you enjoy this English class about stressful things, and I hope it doesn't cause you any stress as you continue to learn English. Have a great day! โŒ› Remember: Always watch the video three times. Twice today with English subtitles on, and once tomorrow with the English subtitles off. This will reinforce the English you have learned! -- โœ… Support Me and Get These Members Only Perks: ๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ’ฒ If you would like to become a member of my channel here is the link: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCZJJTxA36ZPNTJ1WFIByaeA/join Becoming a member at every level has these benefits and perks: 1) For 10 minutes during each live stream you will be able to participate in the "Members Only" chat. 2) A cool crown beside your name during live streams and when making comments on videos. 3) Your name in green during live stream lesson chat. 4) You will have access to a members only video each Wednesday called, "Wednesdays with Bob". These are behind the scenes bonus videos with full English transcripts for your listening practice. 5) A full transcript for every Tuesday video. โœ… Join now to receive these perks: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCZJJTxA36ZPNTJ1WFIByaeA/join I really appreciate those you that have chosen to thank me in this way! Please only support me if you can afford it! If you prefer to support me via Patreon, here is a link to that page: https://www.patreon.com/bobthecanadian Thank you for your generosity! -- โœ…SEND ME A POSTCARD: Bob the Canadian P.O. Box 419 Smithville, Ontario Canada L0R2A0 -- TAKE YOUR ENGLISH CONVERSATIONS TO THE NEXT LEVEL: โœ…Talk to a real English tutor / teacher at preply: http://tracking.preply.com/SH2X (This is an affiliate, signing up for this service helps support my channel). -- FOLLOW ME: โœ… I have a second Youtube channel right here: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCmW5tmKIBrryNf5n-_A6Fmw โœ… P.S. If you are interested I have created a podcast of my shorter English lessons. It is right here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1310116 -- #englishlesson #learnenglish #bobthecanadian **Note: All images used under: CC0 License โœ“ Free for personal and commercial use โœ“ No attribution required From pexels.com or pixabay.com

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00:00
Well hello and welcome to this English lesson about stressful
ใ“ใ‚“ใซใกใฏใ€ ใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใฎๅคšใ„ใ“ใจใซใคใ„ใฆใฎใ“ใฎ่‹ฑ่ชžใƒฌใƒƒใ‚นใƒณใธใ‚ˆใ†ใ“ใ
00:04
things. Life has a funny way of being stressful sometimes. And
ใ€‚ ไบบ็”Ÿใซใฏ ๆ™‚ใ€…ใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใ‚’ๆ„Ÿใ˜ใ‚‹้ข็™ฝใ„ๆ–นๆณ•ใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ ใใ—ใฆใ€
00:09
I guess it's not actually funny is it? Stress is not a nice
ใใ‚ŒใฏๅฎŸ้š›ใซใฏ้ข็™ฝใใชใ„ใจๆ€ใ„ ใพใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ ใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใฏใ„ใ„ใ“ใจใงใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“
00:12
thing. You might have stress in life. You might have stress at
ใ€‚ ใ‚ใชใŸใฏไบบ็”Ÿใซใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใ‚’ๆ„Ÿใ˜ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ ใ€‚ ใ‚ใชใŸใฏไป•ไบ‹ใงใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใ‚’ๆ„Ÿใ˜ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“
00:16
work. You might have stress at school. In this English lesson
ใ€‚ ใ‚ใชใŸใฏๅญฆๆ กใงใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใ‚’ๆ„Ÿใ˜ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ ใ€‚ ใ“ใฎ่‹ฑ่ชžใฎใƒฌใƒƒใ‚นใƒณ
00:20
I'm going to talk about all of those stressful things that we
ใงใฏ ใ€็งใŸใก
00:24
have in life as human beings. All of these stressful
ใŒไบบ้–“ใจใ—ใฆใฎ็”ŸๆดปใฎไธญใงๆŠฑใˆใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใฎๅคšใ„ใ‚‚ใฎใ™ในใฆใซใคใ„ใฆ่ฉฑใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใฎๅคšใ„
00:28
situations. Um hopefully you understand what stress is.
็Šถๆณใฎใ™ในใฆใ€‚ ใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใจใฏไฝ•ใ‹ใ‚’็†่งฃใ—ใฆใ„ใŸใ ใ‘ใ‚Œใฐๅนธใ„ใงใ™ใ€‚
00:31
Stress is a feeling of worry. A feeling of anxiety. Um the most
ใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใฏๅฟƒ้…ใฎๆฐ—ๆŒใกใงใ™ใ€‚ ไธๅฎ‰ๆ„Ÿใ€‚ ใ‚‚ใกใ‚ใ‚“
00:37
common way to describe it in English of course is to say
ใ€่‹ฑ่ชžใงใใ‚Œใ‚’่ชฌๆ˜Žใ™ใ‚‹ๆœ€ใ‚‚ไธ€่ˆฌ็š„ใชๆ–นๆณ• ใฏ
00:40
that you are stressed. You're feeling stressed. Um I have a
ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใŒใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใ‚’ๆ„Ÿใ˜ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจ่จ€ใ†ใ“ใจใงใ™ใ€‚ ใ‚ใชใŸใฏ ใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใ‚’ๆ„Ÿใ˜ใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
00:44
few things I have to do today and I'm a little bit stressed
ไปŠๆ—ฅใฏใ‚„ใ‚‰ใชใ‘ใ‚Œใฐใชใ‚‰ใชใ„ใ“ใจใŒใ„ใใคใ‹ใ‚ใ‚Š ใ€ๅฐ‘ใ—ใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใ‚’
00:47
about them. So I'm a little bit worried. I have a little bit of
ๆ„Ÿใ˜ใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ๅฐ‘ใ— ๅฟƒ้…ใงใ™ใ€‚ ๅฐ‘ใ—
00:50
anxiety. But today I just hope that you're able to learn a lot
ไธๅฎ‰ใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ ใงใ‚‚ไปŠๆ—ฅใฏใ€ใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใฎๅคšใ„ใ“ใจใ‚’่ฉฑใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ†ใกใซ ใ€ใŸใใ•ใ‚“ใฎๆ–ฐใ—ใ„่‹ฑ่ชžใฎๅ˜่ชžใ‚„ใƒ•ใƒฌใƒผใ‚บใ‚’ๅญฆในใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’้ก˜ใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™
00:54
of new English words and phrases while we talk about
00:57
stressful things. A job interview. So I picked this one
ใ€‚ ๅฐฑ่ทใฎ ้ขๆŽฅใ€‚ ใใ‚Œใงใ€็งใŒไบบ็”Ÿใง็ตŒ้จ“ใ—ใŸไธญใงๆœ€ใ‚‚ใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใฎๅคšใ„ใ“ใจใฎ1ใค
01:03
because I was trying to think of one of the most stressful
ใ‚’่€ƒใˆใ‚ˆใ†ใจใ—ใฆใ„ใŸใฎใงใ€ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚’้ธใณ
01:06
things that I've experienced in my life. And I must say that a
ใพใ—ใŸ ใ€‚ ใใ—ใฆใ€
01:10
job interview is very very stressful. You go to a place
ๅฐฑ่ทใฎ้ขๆŽฅใฏ้žๅธธใซ ใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใŒๅคšใ„ใจ่จ€ใ‚ใ–ใ‚‹ใ‚’ๅพ—ใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ใ‚ใชใŸ
01:14
where they are hiring people. You apply for a job. They might
ใฏๅฝผใ‚‰ใŒไบบใ‚’้›‡ใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ๅ ดๆ‰€ใซ่กŒใใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ‚ใชใŸใฏไป•ไบ‹ใซๅฟœๅ‹Ÿใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚ ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏ
01:18
call you and say hey we'd like you to come in for an
ใ‚ใชใŸใซ้›ป่ฉฑ ใ—ใฆใ€้ขๆŽฅใซๆฅใฆใปใ—ใ„ใจ่จ€ใ†ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“
01:21
interview. And you go in and you talk to a few of the people
ใ€‚ ใใ—ใฆใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏๅ…ฅใฃใฆใ€ใใ“ใงๅƒใ ไฝ•ไบบใ‹ใฎไบบใ€…ใจ่ฉฑใ—ใพใ™
01:25
who work there. They ask you lots of questions and you try
ใ€‚ ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏใ‚ใชใŸใซ ใŸใใ•ใ‚“ใฎ่ณชๅ•
01:29
your best to explain who you are and how you could be a
ใ‚’ใ—ใพใ™ใ€ใใ—ใฆใ‚ใชใŸใฏใ‚ใชใŸใŒ่ชฐใงใ‚ใ‚‹ใ‹ ใ€ใใ—ใฆใ‚ใชใŸใŒๅฝผใ‚‰ใซใฉใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซๅˆฉ็›Šใ‚’ใ‚‚ใŸใ‚‰ใ™ใ“ใจใŒใงใใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚’่ชฌๆ˜Žใ™ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใซ
01:33
benefit to their So a job interview definitely stressful.
ๆœ€ๅ–„ใ‚’ๅฐฝใใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
01:37
By the way I do have a an English lesson about job
ใกใชใฟใซ็งใฏๅฐฑ่ทใฎ้ขๆŽฅใซใคใ„ใฆ่‹ฑ่ชžใฎใƒฌใƒƒใ‚นใƒณใ‚’ใ—ใฆใ„ใพใ™
01:40
interviews. Maybe Dave or Todd could dig that up and link it
ใ€‚ ใŸใถใ‚“ใ€ใƒ‡ใ‚คใƒ–ใ‚„ใƒˆใƒƒใƒ‰ ใฏใใ‚Œใ‚’ๆŽ˜ใ‚Šไธ‹ใ’ใฆ
01:43
in the chat if you're looking for it. Common job interview
ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใŒใใ‚Œใ‚’ๆŽขใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใชใ‚‰ใƒใƒฃใƒƒใƒˆใงใใ‚Œใ‚’ใƒชใƒณใ‚ฏใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ™ ใ€‚ ไธ€่ˆฌ็š„ใชๅฐฑ่ทใฎ้ขๆŽฅใฎ
01:46
questions and maybe if you prepare for an interview it's
่ณชๅ•ใ€ใใ—ใฆๅคšๅˆ†ใ‚ใชใŸใŒ ้ขๆŽฅใฎๆบ–ๅ‚™ใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹ใชใ‚‰ใฐใ€ใใ‚Œใฏ
01:50
less stressful. I think that's how it works. The first day of
ใใ‚Œใปใฉใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใŒๅฐ‘ใชใ„ใงใ™ใ€‚ ใใ‚ŒใŒใใฎไป•็ต„ใฟใ ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ ใ€‚
01:54
school. So I don't experience this the same way a student
ๅญฆๆ กใฎๅˆๆ—ฅใ€‚ ใงใ™ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€็งใฏ ๅญฆ็”ŸใจๅŒใ˜ใ‚ˆใ†ใซใ“ใ‚Œใ‚’็ตŒ้จ“ใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใฏใ‚ใ‚Š
01:58
would. But if any of you are students or if you have kids
ใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฎ่ชฐใ‹ใŒ ๅญฆ็”Ÿใงใ‚ใ‚‹ๅ ดๅˆใ€ใพใŸใฏใ‚ใชใŸใŒ
02:02
who still go to school the First day of school can be very
ใพใ ๅญฆๆ กใซ้€šใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ๅญไพ›ใŒใ„ใ‚‹ๅ ดๅˆใ€ๅญฆๆ กใฎ ๅˆๆ—ฅใฏ้žๅธธใซใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใซใชใ‚‹ๅฏ่ƒฝๆ€งใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™
02:06
stressful. In Ontario Canada kids spend most of the summer
ใ€‚ ใ‚ซใƒŠใƒ€ใฎใ‚ชใƒณใ‚ฟใƒชใ‚ชๅทžใง ใฏใ€ๅญไพ›ใŸใกใฏๅคใฎใปใจใ‚“ใฉใ‚’
02:10
playing and enjoying themselves and then as the end of August
้Šใ‚“ใงๆฅฝใ—ใ‚“ใงใ„ ใพใ™ใŒใ€8ๆœˆๆœซใซ
02:13
comes they might start to feel a bit of stress because the
ใชใ‚‹ใจ
02:18
first day of school is usually the day after Labor Day. We
ใ€ๅญฆๆ กใฎๅˆๆ—ฅใฏ้€šๅธธ ใƒฌใ‚คใƒใƒผใƒ‡ใƒผใฎ็ฟŒๆ—ฅใซใชใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใ€ๅฐ‘ใ—ใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใ‚’ๆ„Ÿใ˜ใ‚‹ใ‚ˆใ†ใซใชใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
02:22
have a holiday in September and then school begins. I know in
9ๆœˆใซไผ‘ๆ—ฅใŒใ‚ใ‚Š ใ€ๅญฆๆ กใŒๅง‹ใพใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
02:26
other places in North America school starts a few days or
ๅŒ—็ฑณใฎไป–ใฎๅ ดๆ‰€ใง ใฏใ€ๅญฆๆ กใŒๆ•ฐๆ—ฅใพใŸใฏ
02:30
weeks earlier. But here the first day of school can
ๆ•ฐ้€ฑ้–“ๆ—ฉใๅง‹ใพใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’็งใฏ็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€ใ“ใ“ ใงๅญฆๆ กใฎๅˆๆ—ฅใฏ
02:33
certainly be a stressful event. And of course the first day of
็ขบใ‹ใซใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใฎๅคšใ„ใ‚คใƒ™ใƒณใƒˆใซใชใ‚‹ๅฏ่ƒฝๆ€งใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ ใใ—ใฆใ‚‚ใกใ‚ใ‚“ใ€
02:38
work. Let's say you go to a job interview. And they call and
ไป•ไบ‹ใฎๅˆๆ—ฅใ€‚ ใ‚ใชใŸใŒๅฐฑ่ทใฎ้ขๆŽฅใซ่กŒใใจใ—ใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ† ใ€‚ ใใ—ใฆๅฝผใ‚‰
02:42
say you got the job. You would be excited but you might be a
ใฏใ‚ใชใŸใŒไป•ไบ‹ใ‚’ๅพ—ใŸใจ้›ป่ฉฑใ—ใฆ่จ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ‚ใชใŸใฏ่ˆˆๅฅฎใ™ใ‚‹ใงใ—ใ‚‡ ใ†ใŒใ€ใ‚ใชใŸ
02:46
little bit nervous for your first day of work. Because you
ใฏไป•ไบ‹ใฎๆœ€ๅˆใฎๆ—ฅใฎใŸใ‚ใซๅฐ‘ใ—็ทŠๅผตใ™ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
02:49
don't know anyone. Necessarily. Uh you're not sure what they're
่ชฐใ‚‚็Ÿฅใ‚‰ใชใ„ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€‚ ๅฟ…่ฆใชใ€‚ ใˆใˆใจใ€ๅฝผใ‚‰ใŒ
02:54
going to ask you to do maybe. So your first day of work can
ๅคšๅˆ†ใ‚ใชใŸใซไฝ•ใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹ใ‚ˆใ†ใซ้ ผใ‚€ใฎใ‹ใ‚ใ‹ใ‚‰ใชใ„ใ€‚ ใ—ใŸใŒใฃใฆใ€ไป•ไบ‹ใฎๆœ€ๅˆใฎๆ—ฅใฏ
02:57
be very stressful. I know for me when I started my current
้žๅธธใซใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใซใชใ‚‹ๅฏ่ƒฝๆ€งใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ ็งใŒ ็พๅœจใฎไป•ไบ‹ใ‚’ๅง‹ใ‚ใŸใจใใ€
03:01
job I was very stressed on my first day of work because I
็งใฏไป•ไบ‹ใฎๆœ€ๅˆใฎๆ—ฅใซ้žๅธธใซใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใ‚’ๆ„Ÿใ˜ใฆใ„
03:05
wasn't sure how well the were going to like me or listen to
03:09
me in my classrooms. So the first day of work can be very
ใพใ—ใŸใ€‚ ใใฎใŸใ‚ ใ€ไป•ไบ‹ใฎๅˆๆ—ฅใฏ้žๅธธใซใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใ‚’ๆ„Ÿใ˜ใ‚‹ๅฏ่ƒฝๆ€งใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™
03:13
very stressful. Well this is kind of the opposite isn't it?
ใ€‚ ใ•ใฆใ€ใ“ใ‚Œ ใฏ้€†ใงใ™ใ‚ˆใญ๏ผŸ ไป•ไบ‹
03:19
The opposite of the first day of work would be getting fired
ใฎๅˆๆ—ฅใฎๅๅฏพใฏใ€ ่งฃ้›‡ใ•ใ‚Œใ‚‹
03:23
or losing your job. And let me explain the difference between
ใ‹ใ€ไป•ไบ‹ใ‚’ๅคฑใ†ใ“ใจใงใ™ใ€‚ ใใ—ใฆใ€2ใค ใฎ้•ใ„ใ‚’่ชฌๆ˜Žใ—ใพใ—ใ‚‡ใ†
03:26
the two. When you get fired it means your boss talks to you
ใ€‚ ใ‚ใชใŸใŒ่งฃ้›‡ใ•ใ‚ŒใŸใจใใ€ใใ‚Œ ใฏใ‚ใชใŸใฎไธŠๅธใŒใ‚ใชใŸใซ่ฉฑใ—ใ‹ใ‘ใ€
03:31
and says we are we no longer need you. And generally you get
็งใŸใกใฏใ‚‚ใ† ใ‚ใชใŸใ‚’ๅฟ…่ฆใจใ—ใชใ„ใจ่จ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใใ—ใฆไธ€่ˆฌ็š„ใซใ€
03:36
fired after you've done something wrong at work. So
ใ‚ใชใŸใฏไป•ไบ‹ใงไฝ•ใ‹้–“้•ใฃใŸใ“ใจใ‚’ใ—ใŸๅพŒใซ่งฃ้›‡ใ•ใ‚Œใพใ™ ใ€‚ ใงใ™ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€
03:40
maybe you're building things at work and you build it wrong all
ใ‚ใชใŸใฏ ไป•ไบ‹ใง็‰ฉไบ‹ใ‚’ๆง‹็ฏ‰ใ—ใฆใ„ใฆใ€ใใ‚Œใ‚’ๅธธใซ้–“้•ใฃใฆๆง‹็ฏ‰ใ—
03:43
the time and your boss has told you over and over again how to
ใฆใ„ใฆใ€ไธŠๅธใŒใใ‚Œใ‚’ๆญฃใ—ใ่กŒใ†ๆ–นๆณ•ใ‚’ไฝ•ๅบฆใ‚‚ไฝ•ๅบฆใ‚‚ใ‚ใชใŸใซ่จ€ใฃใฆใใŸใฎใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›
03:47
do it correctly. Um and you keep doing it wrong they might
ใ‚“ใ€‚ ใˆใˆใจใ€ใ‚ใชใŸ ใฏใใ‚Œใ‚’้–“้•ใฃใฆใ‚„ใ‚Š็ถšใ‘ใพใ™ใ€ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏ็ตๅฑ€ใ‚ใชใŸใ‚’่งฃ้›‡ใ™ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›
03:50
eventually just fire you. When you lose your job it doesn't
ใ‚“ใ€‚ ใ‚ใชใŸใŒไป•ไบ‹ใ‚’ๅคฑใฃใŸใจใใ€ใใ‚Œใฏใ‚ใชใŸใŒไฝ•ใ‹้–“้•ใฃใŸใ“ใจใ‚’ใ—ใฆใ„ใŸใจใ„ใ†ๆ„ๅ‘ณใงใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“
03:54
mean you were doing anything wrong. Although it could mean
ใ€‚ ใใ‚Œใฏใใ‚Œใ‚’ๆ„ๅ‘ณใ™ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“
03:57
that. But maybe they just don't need you anymore. Maybe there
ใŒใ€‚ ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€ใŸใถใ‚“ๅฝผใ‚‰ ใฏใ‚‚ใ†ใ‚ใชใŸใ‚’ๅฟ…่ฆใจใ—ใชใ„ใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚ ๅทฅๅ ด
04:01
there are 500 people at the factory. And they only need 450
ใซใฏ500ไบบใ„ใ‚‹ใฎใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ ใ€‚ ใใ—ใฆๆฅๅนดใฏ450ไบบใ—ใ‹ๅฟ…่ฆใจใ—ใพใ›ใ‚“
04:06
people next year. So they might come to you and say look we are
ใ€‚ ใ ใ‹ใ‚‰ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏ ใ‚ใชใŸใฎใจใ“ใ‚ใซๆฅใฆใ€็งใŸใก
04:10
going to you're going to be laid off we would say in
ใŒใ‚ใชใŸใซ่กŒใใฎใ‚’่ฆ‹ใฆใ€็งใŸใกใŒไธ–็•Œใฎ็งใฎๅœฐๅŸŸใง่‹ฑ ่ชžใง่จ€ใ†ใ ใ‚ใ†่งฃ้›‡ใ•ใ‚Œใ‚‹ใ ใ‚ใ†ใจ่จ€ใ†ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
04:13
English in my part of the world. You would lose your job.
ใ‚ใชใŸใฏไป•ไบ‹ใ‚’ๅคฑใ†ใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚
04:16
But definitely Losing your job or getting fired is very
ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€้–“้•ใ„ใชใใ‚ใชใŸใฎไป•ไบ‹ใ‚’ๅคฑใฃ ใŸใ‚Šใ€่งฃ้›‡ใ•ใ‚ŒใŸใ‚Šใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใฏ
04:22
stressful because you're not sure where are you going to get
ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใŒ ใฉใ“ใงๅˆฅใฎไป•ไบ‹ใ‚’ๅพ—ใ‚‹ใฎใ‹ใ‚ใ‹ใ‚‰ใชใ„ใฎใงใ€้žๅธธใซใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใŒใ‹ใ‹ใ‚Šใพใ™
04:25
another job? How are you going to pay your bills if you don't
ใ‹๏ผŸ ็ตฆๆ–™ ใŒใชใ„ๅ ดๅˆใ€ใฉใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซ่ซ‹ๆฑ‚ๆ›ธใ‚’ๆ”ฏๆ‰•ใ†ใคใ‚‚ใ‚Š
04:28
have a paycheck? Losing something. This is a general
ใงใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ ไฝ•ใ‹ใ‚’ๅคฑใ†ใ€‚ ใ“ใ‚Œใฏไธ€่ˆฌ็š„ใช
04:33
statement. Um I have in the past lost my phone. I have in
ๅฃฐๆ˜Žใงใ™ใ€‚ ใˆใˆใจใ€็งใฏ ้ŽๅŽปใซ็งใฎ้›ป่ฉฑใ‚’ๅคฑใ„ใพใ—ใŸใ€‚
04:38
the past lost my keys. Uh I have in the I've never lost any
็งใฏ้ŽๅŽปใซ้ตใ‚’็ด›ๅคฑใ—ใพใ—ใŸใ€‚ ใˆใˆใจ ใ€็งใฏ็งใฎๅญไพ›ใ‚’ๅคฑใฃใŸใ“ใจใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“
04:44
of my children. Although once at the mall one of our children
ใ€‚ ใ‹ใคใฆใƒขใƒผใƒซ
04:48
was gone for like 30 seconds and we panicked. It's very
ใซใ„ใŸใฎใงใ™ใŒใ€็งใŸใกใฎๅญไพ›ใŸใกใฎ1ไบบใŒ30็ง’ใปใฉ ่กŒๆ–นไธๆ˜Žใซใชใ‚Šใ€็งใŸใกใฏใƒ‘ใƒ‹ใƒƒใ‚ฏใซใชใ‚Šใพใ—ใŸใ€‚ ใจใฆใ‚‚
04:51
stressful. Um but we're talking about things not people. Um
ใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใŒใŸใพใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ ใˆใˆใจใ€ใงใ‚‚็งใŸใกใฏไบบใงใฏใชใ็‰ฉไบ‹ใซใคใ„ใฆ่ฉฑใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใฎใงใ™ ใ€‚
04:55
when you lose your keys when you lose your phone when you
ใ‚ใชใŸใŒใ‚ใชใŸใฎ่ฒกๅธƒใ‚’ๅคฑใ†ใจใใ‚ใชใŸใŒใ‚ใชใŸใฎ้›ป่ฉฑใ‚’ๅคฑใ†ใจใใ‚ใชใŸใŒใ‚ใชใŸใฎ้ตใ‚’
04:58
lose your wallet. That is very very stressful. I think the
ๅคฑใ†ใจใใˆใˆใจใ€‚ ใใ‚Œใฏ ้žๅธธใซใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใŒใŸใพใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ ่ฒกๅธƒ
05:02
most stress full of all of those would be when you lose
ใ‚’ใชใใ—ใŸใจใใŒไธ€็•ชใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใซใชใ‚‹ใจๆ€ใ„
05:05
your wallet. Uh and you try to figure out where did I use my
ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใˆใˆใจใ€ใ‚ใชใŸ ใฏ็งใŒๆœ€ๅพŒใซ็งใฎ่ฒกๅธƒใ‚’ใฉใ“ใงไฝฟ็”จใ—ใŸใ‹ใ‚’็†่งฃใ—ใ‚ˆใ†ใจใ—ใพใ™
05:08
wallet last. Um what's the last thing I did with it? Definitely
ใ€‚ ใˆใˆใจใ€ ็งใŒใใ‚Œใงๆœ€ๅพŒใซใ—ใŸใ“ใจใฏไฝ•ใงใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ ้–“้•ใ„ใชใ
05:12
a very very stressful situation. Running late. So
้žๅธธใซใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใฎๅคšใ„ ็Šถๆณใงใ™ใ€‚ ้…ใ‚Œใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ ใ‹ใ‚‰
05:18
this morning I was running late. Jen and I were both
ไปŠๆœใฏ้…ใ่ตฐใฃใฆใ„ใŸ ใ€‚ ใ‚ธใ‚งใƒณใจ็งใฏไธกๆ–นใจใ‚‚ๅŒๆ™‚ใซ
05:21
trying to brush our teeth at the same time. Uh Jen was
ๆญฏใ‚’็ฃจใ“ใ†ใจใ—ใฆ ใ„ใพใ—ใŸใ€‚ ใˆใˆใจใ€ใ‚ธใ‚งใƒณใฏ
05:25
heading out this morning to bring the kids to school. Uh
ไปŠๆœ ใ€ๅญไพ›ใŸใกใ‚’ๅญฆๆ กใซ้€ฃใ‚Œใฆ่กŒใใŸใ‚ใซๅ‡บใ‹ใ‘ใฆใ„ใพใ—ใŸใ€‚ ใˆใˆใจ
05:28
and I was trying to get ready for my live lesson. Um and so I
ใ€็งใฏใƒฉใ‚คใƒ–ใƒฌใƒƒใ‚นใƒณใฎๆบ–ๅ‚™ใ‚’ใ—ใ‚ˆใ†ใจใ—ใฆใ„ ใพใ—ใŸใ€‚ ใˆใˆใจใ€็ง
05:33
is running late. When you are late for work, when you're late
ใฏ้…ใ‚Œใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ไป•ไบ‹ใซ้…ใ‚Œใ‚‹ใจใ
05:36
for an appointment, when you're late for a meeting, sometimes
ใ€็ด„ๆŸใซ ้…ใ‚Œใ‚‹ใจใใ€ไผš่ญฐใซ้…ใ‚Œใ‚‹ใจใใ€ๆ™‚ใ€…
05:39
I'm late for class at school, the bell goes at our school
็งใฏๅญฆๆ กใฎๆŽˆๆฅญใซ้…ใ‚Œใ‚‹ใ€็งใฏๆŽˆๆฅญใŒๅง‹ใพใฃใŸใจ่จ€ใฃใฆ ็งใŸใกใฎๅญฆๆ กใซใƒ™ใƒซใŒ้ณดใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
05:43
saying that class class has begun and I'm still running
mใฏใพใ 
05:47
down the hallway with my books and laptop. So definitely yes
็งใฎๆœฌใจใƒฉใƒƒใƒ—ใƒˆใƒƒใƒ—ใ‚’ๆŒใฃใฆๅปŠไธ‹ใ‚’่ตฐใฃใฆใ„ ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใงใ™ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€็ขบใ‹ใซ
05:55
running late is very very very stressful. Car won't start. So
้…ใ่ตฐใ‚‹ใ“ใจใฏ้žๅธธใซ้žๅธธใซ ใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใŒใŸใพใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ ่ปŠใŒๅง‹ๅ‹•ใ—ใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ใงใ™ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€
06:01
this is one that I think causes a lot of stress. Especially if
ใ“ใ‚Œใฏ็ง ใŒๅคšใใฎใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใ‚’ๅผ•ใ่ตทใ“ใ™ใจๆ€ใ†ใ‚‚ใฎใงใ™ใ€‚ ็‰นใซ
06:06
this is happening at the same time. If your car won't start
ใ“ใ‚ŒใŒๅŒๆ™‚ใซ่ตทใ“ใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ๅ ดๅˆ ใ€‚ ใ‚ใชใŸใฎ่ปŠใŒๅง‹ๅ‹•ใ›ใšใ€ๅง‹ๅ‹•
06:09
and you need your car to start it can be very stressful.
ใ™ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใซใ‚ใชใŸใฎ่ปŠใŒๅฟ…่ฆใชๅ ดๅˆใ€ ใใ‚Œใฏ้žๅธธใซใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใซใชใ‚‹ๅฏ่ƒฝๆ€งใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
06:13
Sometimes you get up in the morning and you're running a
ๆœ่ตทใใฆ
06:17
bit late and you jump in your car and you turn the key and
ๅฐ‘ใ—้…ใ‚Œใฆ ่ปŠใซ้ฃ›ใณไน—ใฃใฆใ‚ญใƒผใ‚’ๅ›žใ™ใจ
06:20
instead of starting the car doesn't make any sound at all.
ใ€่ปŠใ‚’ๅง‹ๅ‹•ใ™ใ‚‹ไปฃใ‚ใ‚Š ใซใพใฃใŸใ้ŸณใŒๅ‡บใชใ„ใ“ใจใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
06:24
Um that's stressful. And then you have to call a tow truck or
ใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใŒใŸใพใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ ใใ—ใฆ ใ€ใƒฌใƒƒใ‚ซใƒผ่ปŠใซ้›ป่ฉฑใ™ใ‚‹
06:28
you have to try and get your car to a garage. Or maybe
ใ‹ใ€่ปŠใ‚’ใ‚ฌใƒฌใƒผใ‚ธใซๆŒใฃใฆใ„ใๅฟ…่ฆใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ ใ€‚ ใ‚ใ‚‹ใ„ใฏใ€
06:31
someone needs to come with booster cables and hook their
่ชฐใ‹ใŒใƒ–ใƒผใ‚นใ‚ฟใƒผใ‚ฑใƒผใƒ–ใƒซใ‚’ๆŒใฃใฆใใฆ
06:35
car to your car so that they can boost you. So anyways
ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฎ่ปŠใ‚’ใ‚ใชใŸใฎ่ปŠใซๅผ•ใฃๆŽ›ใ‘ใฆใ€ใ‚ใชใŸ ใ‚’ใƒ–ใƒผใ‚นใƒˆใงใใ‚‹ใ‚ˆใ†ใซใ™ใ‚‹ๅฟ…่ฆใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ใจใซใ‹ใ
06:39
having a car that won't start. Certainly a stressful
ๅง‹ๅ‹•ใ—ใชใ„่ปŠใ‚’ๆŒใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ็ขบใ‹ใซใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใฎๅคšใ„
06:43
situation. Being broke or having no money which are is
็Šถๆณใ€‚ ๅฃŠใ‚ŒใŸใ€ใพใŸใฏ ใŠ้‡‘ใŒใชใ„ใจใ„ใ†
06:49
it's the same thing. Um when I was a lot younger there was a
ใ“ใจใฏๅŒใ˜ใ“ใจใงใ™ใ€‚ ใˆใˆใจใ€็ง ใŒใšใฃใจ่‹ฅใ‹ใฃใŸ
06:53
time where I lived in Quebec City. Um I worked in a
ใจใใ€็งใŒใ‚ฑใƒ™ใƒƒใ‚ฏใ‚ทใƒ†ใ‚ฃใซไฝใ‚“ใงใ„ใŸๆ™‚ใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ—ใŸ ใ€‚ ใˆใˆใจใ€็งใฏใƒฌใ‚นใƒˆใƒฉใƒณใงๅƒใ„ใฆใ„ใพใ—ใŸใ€
06:57
restaurant and I was very broke. I did not have a lot of
ใใ—ใฆ็งใฏ้žๅธธใซ ๅฃŠใ‚Œใฆใ„ใพใ—ใŸใ€‚ ็งใฏใŸใใ•ใ‚“ใฎใŠ้‡‘ใ‚’ๆŒใฃใฆใ„ใพใ›ใ‚“ใงใ—ใŸ
07:01
money. I had enough money to pay rent. Um but sometimes at
ใ€‚ ๅฎถ่ณƒใ‚’ๆ‰•ใ†ใฎใซๅๅˆ†ใชใŠ้‡‘ใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ—ใŸ ใ€‚ ใˆใˆใจใ€ใงใ‚‚ๆ™‚ใ€…ๆœˆๆœซใซ
07:06
end of the month I would eat oatmeal for a few days in a
ใ‚ชใƒผใƒˆใƒŸใƒผใƒซใ‚’ๆ•ฐๆ—ฅ็ถšใ‘ใฆ้ฃŸในใฆใ„ใพใ—ใŸ
07:10
row. Because I didn't have enough money to buy groceries.
ใ€‚ ้ฃŸๆ–™ๅ“ใ‚’่ฒทใ†ใฎใซๅๅˆ†ใชใŠ้‡‘ใŒใชใ‹ใฃใŸใ‹ใ‚‰ใงใ™ใ€‚
07:14
So that's when I was about I think twenty-two twenty-one
ใงใ™ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€็งใŒใใฎ้ ƒใ ใฃใŸใฎใฏใ€ 22ใ€22ใ€22ใ ใจๆ€ใ„
07:17
twenty-two. Uh I lived in Quebec. I had a nice job. But
ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใˆใˆใจใ€็งใฏใ‚ฑใƒ™ใƒƒใ‚ฏใซไฝใ‚“ใงใ„ใพใ—ใŸ ใ€‚ ใ„ใ„ไป•ไบ‹ใŒใงใใพใ—ใŸใ€‚ ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€
07:21
it was only three nights a week. And once I paid my rent
ใใ‚Œใฏ้€ฑใซใŸใฃใŸ3ๆณŠใงใ— ใŸใ€‚ ใใ—ใฆใ€ๅฎถ่ณƒ
07:25
and paid my bills. I didn't always have a lot of money left
ใจ่ซ‹ๆฑ‚ๆ›ธใ‚’ๆ”ฏๆ‰•ใฃใŸใ‚‰ใ€‚ ็งใฏ ใ„ใคใ‚‚ใŸใใ•ใ‚“ใฎใŠ้‡‘ใŒๆฎ‹ใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ‚ใ‘ใงใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใงใ—
07:28
over. So that was stressful. Um it's stressful when you don't
ใŸใ€‚ ใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใŒใŸใพใ‚Šใพใ—ใŸใ€‚
07:31
have enough money or when you are broke. You. Death. So I've
ใŠ้‡‘ใŒ่ถณใ‚Šใชใ„ใจใใ‚„ ๅฃŠใ‚ŒใŸใจใใฏใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใŒใŸใพใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ ๅ›ใฏใ€‚ ๆญปใ€‚ ใงใ™ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€็งใฏใ‚ใ‚‹ๆ™‚็‚น
07:38
been meaning to do a lesson on this at some point but I just
ใงใ“ใ‚Œใซใคใ„ใฆใƒฌใƒƒใ‚นใƒณใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹
07:42
don't know how to do it in a way that's respectful. It's a
ใคใ‚‚ใ‚Šใงใ—ใŸใŒใ€ๆ•ฌๆ„ใ‚’ๆŒใฃใฆใใ‚Œใ‚’่กŒใ†ๆ–นๆณ•ใŒใ‚ใ‹ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ ใ€‚ ใใ‚Œใฏ
07:47
difficult topic. I do want to cover all the topics in life.
้›ฃใ—ใ„ใƒˆใƒ”ใƒƒใ‚ฏใงใ™ใ€‚ ็งใฏ ไบบ็”Ÿใฎใ™ในใฆใฎใƒˆใƒ”ใƒƒใ‚ฏใ‚’ใ‚ซใƒใƒผใ—ใŸใ„ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
07:50
But certainly when you have when someone you know passes
ใ—ใ‹ใ—็ขบใ‹ใซใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใŒ็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ ่ชฐใ‹ใŒ
07:54
away that's another way in English that we talk about
ไบกใใชใฃใŸใจใใ€ ใใ‚Œใฏ็งใŸใกใŒๆญปใซใคใ„ใฆ่ฉฑใ™่‹ฑ่ชžใฎๅˆฅใฎๆ–นๆณ•
07:56
death. Or we might say the family is sad because there was
ใงใ™ใ€‚ ใ‚ใ‚‹ใ„ใฏใ€ๅฎถๆ—ใŒไบกใใชใฃใŸใฎใงใ€ๅฎถๆ—ใฏๆ‚ฒใ—ใ„ใจ่จ€ใ†ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“
08:00
a death in the family. Which means maybe an uncle or a
ใ€‚ ใคใพใ‚Šใ€ใŠใ˜ใ‚„ใ„ใจใ“ใ€็ฅ–็ˆถๆฏใŒไบกใใชใฃใŸใฎใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“
08:04
cousin or a grandparent passed away. But death is certainly
ใ€‚ ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€ๆญปใฏ็ขบใ‹
08:08
very very stressful. Especially when someone die very young.
ใซ้žๅธธใซใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใŒๅคšใ„ใงใ™ใ€‚ ็‰นใซ่ชฐใ‹ใŒ้žๅธธใซ่‹ฅใใ—ใฆๆญปใฌใจใใ€‚
08:13
When someone dies and they're in their thirties or 40s or
่ชฐใ‹ใŒ ไบกใใชใ‚Šใ€30ไปฃใพใŸใฏ40ไปฃใพใŸใฏ
08:17
50s. Especially if they're married and have children. It's
50ไปฃใซใชใฃใŸใจใใ€‚ ็‰นใซๅฝผใ‚‰ใŒ ็ตๅฉšใ—ใฆใ„ใฆๅญไพ›ใŒใ„ใ‚‹ๅ ดๅˆใ€‚ ๅ–ใ‚Šๆฎ‹ใ•
08:20
very very stressful on the person who's left behind. So
ใ‚ŒใŸไบบใซใฏใจใฆใ‚‚ใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใŒใŸใพใ‚Š ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใงใ™ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€
08:25
death I'm not going to say that one kind of death is more
ๆญป ใ‚ใ‚‹็จฎใฎๆญปใŒไป–ใฎๆญปใ‚ˆใ‚Šใ‚‚
08:29
stressful than another. But certainly a death of a friend.
ใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใŒๅคšใ„ใจใฏ่จ€ใ„ใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€ ็ขบใ‹ใซๅ‹ไบบใฎๆญปใ€‚
08:32
Death in the family. Uh when someone you know passes away it
ๅฎถๆ—ใฎๆญปใ€‚ ใˆใˆใจใ€ ใ‚ใชใŸใŒ็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹่ชฐใ‹ใŒไบกใใชใ‚‹ใจใ€ใใ‚Œ
08:36
causes stress in all of the people who are connected to the
08:40
person who has died. Injury. So I had an injury like this when
ใฏๆญปใ‚“ใ ไบบใจใคใชใŒใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ™ในใฆใฎไบบใ€…ใซใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใ‚’ๅผ•ใ่ตทใ“ใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ‘ใŒใ€‚
08:47
I was a kid. Uh an injury can cause a lot of stress. When I
ๅญไพ›ใฎ้ ƒใ€ใ“ใ‚“ใชๆ€ชๆˆ‘ใ‚’ใ—ใพใ—ใŸใ€‚ ใ‘ใŒใฏ ๅคšใใฎใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใ‚’ๅผ•ใ่ตทใ“ใ™ๅฏ่ƒฝๆ€งใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
08:51
was a kid I had a cast like that on my right hand or right
็งใŒๅญไพ›ใฎ้ ƒใ€็งใฏๅณๆ‰‹ใพใŸใฏๅณ่…•ใซใใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใชใ‚ญใƒฃใ‚นใƒˆใ‚’ๆŒใฃใฆใ„ใพใ—ใŸใ€
08:57
arm and that's also the hand that I write with. I'm right
ใใ—ใฆใใ‚Œ ใฏ็งใŒๆ›ธใๆ‰‹ใงใ‚‚ใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ ็งใฏๅณ
09:01
handed. So when you have an injury it's stressful. When you
ๅˆฉใใงใ™ใ€‚ ใงใ™ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€ ๆ€ชๆˆ‘ใ‚’ใ—ใŸใจใใฏใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใŒใŸใพใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ ๆ‰‹
09:05
injure something like your hand or one of your legs it's even
ใ‚„็‰‡ๆ–นใฎ่ถณใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใชใ‚‚ใฎใ‚’ๅ‚ทใคใ‘ใ‚‹ใจใ€
09:09
more stressful. Because if you injure the hand that you use
ใ•ใ‚‰ใซใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใŒใ‹ใ‹ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ„ใคใ‚‚ๆ›ธใ„ใฆ ใ„ใ‚‹ๆ‰‹ใ‚’ๅ‚ทใคใ‘ใŸใ‚‰
09:13
all the time to write you can't write. Or maybe you can't use
ๆ›ธใใ“ใจใŒใงใใชใ„ใ‹ใ‚‰ใงใ™ ใ€‚ ใพใŸใฏ
09:16
the mouse on the computer. If you injure legs you can't walk.
ใ€ใ‚ณใƒณใƒ”ใƒฅใƒผใ‚ฟใงใƒžใ‚ฆใ‚นใ‚’ไฝฟ็”จใงใใชใ„ๅ ดๅˆใ‚‚ใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ ่ถณใ‚’ๆ€ชๆˆ‘ใ™ใ‚‹ใจๆญฉใ‘ใชใใชใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
09:20
And so not only is there the stress caused from the pain of
ใใ—ใฆใ€ๆ€ชๆˆ‘ ใฎ็—›ใฟใ‹ใ‚‰็”Ÿใ˜ใ‚‹ใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใ ใ‘ใงใชใ
09:24
the injury there's the stress caused by having a difficult
09:28
time leading a normal life. So injuries definitely stressful
ใ€้€šๅธธใฎ็”Ÿๆดปใ‚’้€ใ‚‹ใฎใซ่‹ฆๅŠดใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใซใ‚ˆใฃใฆๅผ•ใ่ตทใ“ใ•ใ‚Œใ‚‹ใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใ‚‚ใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ ใงใ™ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€ ๆ€ชๆˆ‘ใ‚‚้–“้•ใ„ใชใใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใŒใŸใพใ‚Š
09:34
as well. And then a bad I feel bad for this this is a picture
ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใใ—ใฆใ€ ใ“ใ‚Œใฏ
09:41
from a free picture website but I've used this picture a lot. I
็„กๆ–™ใฎๅ†™็œŸใ‚ฆใ‚งใƒ–ใ‚ตใ‚คใƒˆใ‹ใ‚‰ใฎๅ†™็œŸใงใ™ใŒใ€ ็งใฏใ“ใฎๅ†™็œŸใ‚’ใŸใใ•ใ‚“ไฝฟ็”จใ—ใพใ—ใŸใ€‚ ็ง
09:45
usually use this picture when I have to when someone angry when
ใฏ้€šๅธธ ใ€่ชฐใ‹ใŒๆ€’ใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจใ
09:49
I need a picture of someone angry. But a bad boss or a bad
ใ€่ชฐใ‹ใŒๆ€’ใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ๅ†™็œŸใŒๅฟ…่ฆใชใจใใซใ€ใ“ใฎๅ†™็œŸใ‚’ไฝฟ็”จใ—ใพใ™ ใ€‚ ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€ๆ‚ชใ„ไธŠๅธใ‚„ๆ‚ชใ„
09:53
manager at work can cause a lot of stress. If you work
ใƒžใƒใƒผใ‚ธใƒฃใƒผใŒไป•ไบ‹ใ‚’ใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจใ€ๅคšใใฎใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใ‚’ๅผ•ใ่ตทใ“ใ™ๅฏ่ƒฝๆ€งใŒ ใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
09:58
somewhere where your boss yells at you all the time. If you
ไธŠๅธใŒใ„ใคใ‚‚ใ‚ใชใŸใซๆ€’้ณดใ‚‹ๅ ดๆ‰€ ใงๅƒใ„ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ๅ ดๅˆใ€‚
10:01
work somewhere where you can you do everything to the of
ใ‚ใชใŸใŒ่‡ชๅˆ†ใฎ่ƒฝๅŠ›ใฎใ™ในใฆใ‚’่กŒใ†ใ“ใจใŒใงใใ‚‹ๅ ดๆ‰€ใงๅƒใ„
10:07
your abilities but your boss still finds something wrong
ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใŒใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฎไธŠๅธใŒใ‚ใชใŸ ใŒใ—ใŸใ“ใจใฎไฝ•ใ‹้–“้•ใฃใŸ
10:10
that you've done. If you have a boss who tells you what to do
ใ“ใจใ‚’ใพใ ่ฆ‹ใคใ‘ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ๅ ดๅˆใ€‚ ใ‚ใชใŸใŒๅคšใใฎใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใ‚’ๅผ•ใ่ตทใ“ใ™ๅฏ่ƒฝๆ€งใฎใ‚ใ‚‹
10:14
every minute of the day instead of trusting you to do the work
ไป•ไบ‹ใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’ใ‚ใชใŸใซไฟก้ ผใ™ใ‚‹ใฎใงใฏใชใใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใซไธ€ๆ—ฅใฎๆฏŽๅˆ†ไฝ•ใ‚’ใ™ในใใ‹ใ‚’ใ‚ใชใŸใซๆ•™ใˆใ‚‹ไธŠๅธใŒใ„ใ‚‹ใชใ‚‰
10:18
that can cause a lot of stress. And we would call that a bad
ใ€‚ ใใ—ใฆใ€ใใ‚Œใ‚’ๆ‚ชใ„ไธŠๅธใจๅ‘ผใถใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†
10:20
boss. Um and the strong phrase in English that people would
ใ€‚ ใˆใˆใจ ใ€่‹ฑ่ชžใงใฎๅผทใ„ใƒ•ใƒฌใƒผใ‚บใฏ
10:25
say if they were talking with a friend they would just say ah
ใ€ๅ‹้”ใจ่ฉฑใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจ
10:28
hate my boss. Now hate is a very strong word. But we often
ใ€ไธŠๅธใŒๅคงๅซŒใ„ใ ใจ่จ€ใ†ใ ใ‘ใงใ™ใ€‚ ไปŠใ€ๆ†Žใ—ใฟใฏ ้žๅธธใซๅผทใ„่จ€่‘‰ใงใ™ใ€‚ ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€็งใŸใกใฏใ—ใฐใ—ใฐ
10:32
use it in English to talk about situations like that. Do you
่‹ฑ่ชžใงใใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใช็Šถๆณใซใคใ„ใฆ่ฉฑใ™ใŸใ‚ใซใใ‚Œใ‚’ไฝฟ็”จ ใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
10:35
want pizza? No no I hate pizza. How's work? Oh I hate my boss.
ใƒ”ใ‚ถใŒๆฌฒใ—ใ„ใงใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ ใ„ใ„ใˆใ€็งใฏใƒ”ใ‚ถใŒๅซŒใ„ใงใ™ใ€‚ ไป•ไบ‹ใฏใฉใ†๏ผŸ ใ‚ใ‚ใ€็งใฏไธŠๅธใŒๅซŒใ„ใงใ™ใ€‚
10:39
He's driving me crazy. So it doesn't mean you actually like
ๅฝผใฏ็งใ‚’ๅคขไธญใซใ•ใ›ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ€‚ ใ ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€ใใ‚Œ ใฏใ‚ใชใŸใŒๅฎŸ้š›ใซใใ‚Œใ‚‰ใ‚’ๅซŒใ†ใฎใŒๅฅฝใใ ใจใ„ใ†ๆ„ๅ‘ณใงใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“
10:43
hate them. Like you're not going to yell at them or
ใ€‚ ใ‚ใชใŸใŒ ๅฝผใ‚‰ใ‚„ใใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใชใ‚‚ใฎใซๆ€’้ณดใ‚‹ใคใ‚‚ใ‚Šใฏ
10:45
anything like that. It just means you have a bad boss and
ใชใ„ใ‚ˆใ†ใซใ€‚ ใใ‚Œ ใฏใ‚ใชใŸใŒๆ‚ชใ„ไธŠๅธใ‚’ๆŒใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’ๆ„ๅ‘ณใ—ใ€
10:48
they are not very pleasant. Illness or sickness. So
ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏใ‚ใพใ‚Šๅฟซ้ฉใงใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ็—…ๆฐ—ใ‚„็—…ๆฐ—ใ€‚ ใ ใ‹ใ‚‰
10:55
sometimes people ask what's the difference between illness and
ๆ™‚ใ€…ไบบใ€…ใฏ็—…ๆฐ—ใจ็—…ๆฐ—ใฎ้•ใ„ใฏไฝ•ใงใ™ใ‹ใจๅฐ‹ใญใพใ™
10:59
sickness. They are the same thing. Um we usually in English
ใ€‚ ใใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฏๅŒใ˜ ใ‚‚ใฎใงใ™ใ€‚ ใˆใˆใจใ€็งใŸใกใฏ้€šๅธธใ€
11:02
instead of saying he has an illness or they have a
ๅฝผใŒ็—…ๆฐ—ใงใ‚ใ‚‹ใจใ‹็—…ๆฐ—ใงใ‚ใ‚‹ใจ่จ€ใ†ไปฃใ‚ใ‚Šใซ่‹ฑ่ชžใง่ฉฑใ—
11:05
sickness. We usually just say they're sick. Um but if you
ใพใ™ใ€‚ ็งใŸใกใฏ้€šๅธธใ€ๅฝผใ‚‰ใŒ็—…ๆฐ—ใ ใจ่จ€ใ†ใ ใ‘ ใงใ™ใ€‚ ใˆใˆใจใ€ใงใ‚‚ใ‚ใชใŸ
11:08
have an illness or if you have sickness it could be very
ใŒ็—…ๆฐ—ใ‚’ๆŒใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใŒ็—…ๆฐ—ใ‚’ๆŒใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใชใ‚‰ใ€ ใใ‚Œใฏ้žๅธธใซใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใซใชใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“
11:12
stressful. Most people like to live a normal life. I think
ใ€‚ ใปใจใ‚“ใฉใฎไบบใฏๆ™ฎ้€šใฎ็”Ÿๆดปใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹ใฎใŒๅฅฝใ ใงใ™ใ€‚
11:16
everyone likes to live a normal life. When you are sick and you
่ชฐใ‚‚ใŒๆ™ฎ้€šใฎ็”Ÿๆดปใ‚’้€ใ‚‹ใฎใŒๅฅฝใใ ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ ใ€‚ ็—…ๆฐ—
11:20
can't go to work when you are sick And you can't look at a
ใงไป•ไบ‹ใซ่กŒใ‘ใชใ„ใจใ้ ญใŒใŠใ‹ใ—ใใชใ‚‹
11:26
computer screen because it makes your head feel funny.
ใฎใงใƒ‘ใ‚ฝใ‚ณใƒณใฎ็”ป้ขใŒ่ฆ‹ใˆใชใ„ ใ€‚
11:28
That's what I had when I had COVID. I couldn't look at a
ใใ‚Œใฏ็งใŒCOVIDใ‚’ๆŒใฃใฆใ„ใŸใจใใซ็งใŒๆŒใฃใฆใ„ใŸใ‚‚ใฎ ใงใ™ใ€‚ ใ‚ณใƒณใƒ”ใƒฅใƒผใ‚ฟใƒผใฎ็”ป้ขใŒ่ฆ‹ใˆใพใ›ใ‚“ใงใ—ใŸ
11:31
computer screen. It could be very very stressful and very
ใ€‚ ใใ‚Œใฏ ้žๅธธใซใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใŒๅคšใใ€
11:35
very challenging. Moving. So my British cousins say move house.
้žๅธธใซๅ›ฐ้›ฃใชๅ ดๅˆใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ ๅผ•ใฃ่ถŠใ—ใ€‚ ใ ใ‹ใ‚‰็งใฎ ่‹ฑๅ›ฝใฎใ„ใจใ“ใฏๅฎถใ‚’็งปๅ‹•ใ™ใ‚‹ใจ่จ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
11:42
He's going to move house. I don't know the exact phrase. In
ๅฝผใฏๅฎถใ‚’ๅผ•ใฃ่ถŠใ™ใคใ‚‚ใ‚Šใงใ™ใ€‚ ๆญฃ็ขบใชใƒ•ใƒฌใƒผใ‚บใฏใ‚ใ‹ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
11:44
Canada we just say moving. He's moving. She's moving. When are
ใ‚ซใƒŠใƒ€ใงใฏใ€ๅผ•ใฃ่ถŠใ—ใจใ ใ‘่จ€ใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ๅฝผใฏ ๅ‹•ใ„ใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ๅฝผๅฅณใฏๅ‹•ใ„ใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ„ใค
11:48
you moving? I'm going to be moving this summer. I I'm not
ๅผ•ใฃ่ถŠใ—ใพใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ ไปŠๅนดใฎๅคใฏๅผ•ใฃ่ถŠใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใกใชใฟใซ็งใฏ้•ใ„
11:52
by the way. That's just an example. But moving be very
ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใใ‚Œใฏใปใ‚“ใฎไธ€ ไพ‹ใงใ™ใ€‚ ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€็งปๅ‹•ใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใฏ้žๅธธใซ
11:55
stressful. When you live in an apartment or a house and you
ใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใซใชใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ‚ใชใŸใŒใ‚ขใƒ‘ใƒผใƒˆใ‚„ๅฎถใซไฝใ‚“ใงใ„ใฆใ€
11:59
have to pack up all your things and then move to another place
ใ™ในใฆใฎใ‚‚ใฎ ใ‚’่ฉฐใ‚ใฆใ‹ใ‚‰ๅˆฅใฎๅ ดๆ‰€ใซ็งปๅ‹•ใ—
12:04
to live it can be very stressful. You don't know who
ใฆไฝใ‚€ๅฟ…่ฆใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ๅ ดๅˆใ€ใใ‚Œใฏ้žๅธธใซใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใซใชใ‚‹ๅฏ่ƒฝๆ€งใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ ใ€‚ ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใ‚ใชใŸใฎ้šฃไบบใŒ่ชฐใซใชใ‚‹ใฎใ‹ๅˆ†ใ‹ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“
12:07
your neighbors are going to be. You don't know necessarily what
ใ€‚ ใ‚ใชใŸใฏๅฟ…ใšใ—ใ‚‚่ฟ‘ๆ‰€ใŒใฉใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใชใ‚‚ใฎใ‹ใ‚ใ‹ใ‚‰ใชใ„
12:11
the neighborhood is like. So moving can be very very
ใ€‚ ใใฎใŸใ‚ใ€ ็งปๅ‹•ใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚‚้žๅธธใซใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใซใชใ‚‹ๅฏ่ƒฝๆ€งใŒ
12:14
stressful as well. Um thankfully Jen and I have only
ใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ‚ใ‚ŠใŒใŸใ„ใ“ใจใซใ€ใ‚ธใ‚งใƒณใจ็งใฏไธ€
12:19
moved once. We used to live in town and then we moved to the
ๅบฆใ ใ‘ๅผ•ใฃ่ถŠใ—ใพใ—ใŸใ€‚ ไปฅๅ‰ใฏ็”บใซไฝใ‚“ใงใ„ใŸใฎใง ใ€่พฒๅ ดใซๅผ•ใฃ่ถŠใ—ใพใ—ใŸใŒใ€ใ™ใ
12:24
Farm and I don't think we're going to move anytime soon.
ใซๅผ•ใฃ่ถŠใ™ใคใ‚‚ใ‚Šใฏใชใ„ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ ใ€‚
12:27
We're going to be here for quite a while. Social
็งใŸใกใฏใ‹ใชใ‚Š้•ทใ„้–“ใ“ใ“ใซใ„ใ‚‹ใคใ‚‚ใ‚Šใงใ™ ใ€‚ ็คพไผš็š„
12:30
situations. So I actually have a social situation next
็Šถๆณใ€‚ ใงใ™ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€็งใฏๅฎŸ้š› ใซๆฅ้€ฑๆœซใซ็คพไผš็š„็Šถๆณใซใ‚ใ‚Š
12:34
weekend. And I haven't actually been in a social situation for
ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใใ—ใฆใ€็งใฏๅฎŸ้š›ใซๆ•ฐๅนด้–“็คพไผš็š„็Šถๆณใซใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใงใ—ใŸ
12:38
a a couple of years. Uh because of COVID. But social
ใ€‚ ใˆใˆใจ ใ€COVIDใฎใ›ใ„ใงใ™ใ€‚ ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€็คพไผš็š„
12:42
situations. Parties. Uh work parties. Um when you need to go
็Šถๆณใ€‚ ็ท ็ด„ๅ›ฝใ€‚ ใˆใˆใจใ€ไป•ไบ‹ใฎ ใƒ‘ใƒผใƒ†ใ‚ฃใƒผใ€‚
12:47
somewhere where there's a lot of people and you need to talk
ใŸใใ•ใ‚“ใฎไบบใŒใ„ใ‚‹ใจใ“ใ‚ใซ่กŒใๅฟ…่ฆใŒใ‚ใ‚Š
12:50
to them. Social situations can be awkward. That means you
ใ€ๅฝผใ‚‰ใจ่ฉฑใ™ๅฟ…่ฆใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ใจใใ€‚ ็คพไผš็š„็ŠถๆณใฏๅŽ„ไป‹ใชๅ ดๅˆใŒใ‚ใ‚Š ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใใ‚Œใฏใ‚ใชใŸ
12:54
don't know what to talk about. It can be stressful because
ใŒไฝ•ใซใคใ„ใฆ่ฉฑใ™ในใใ‹ใ‚ใ‹ใ‚‰ใชใ„ใ“ใจใ‚’ๆ„ๅ‘ณใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
12:58
people might ask you a lot of questions or you might be
ไบบใ€…ใŒใ‚ใชใŸใซใŸใใ•ใ‚“ใฎ ่ณชๅ•ใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใชใ„ใ—ใ€่ชฐใ‚‚็งใซ่ฉฑใ—ใ‹ใ‘ใชใ„ใจใฉใ†ใชใ‚‹ใ‹ๅฟƒ้…ใ™ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใชใ„ใฎใงใ€ใใ‚Œใฏใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใซใชใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œ
13:01
worried what if noone talks to me? Right? Because in a social
ใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ๅณ๏ผŸ ใชใœใชใ‚‰ใ€็คพไผš็š„ใช็Šถๆณใงใฏใ€
13:05
situation there's little groups of people talking and you might
่ฉฑใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ไบบใฎใ‚ฐใƒซใƒผใƒ—ใŒๅฐ‘ใชใใ€ใใ“
13:09
not know who to talk to when you are there. But definitely
ใซใ„ใ‚‹ใจใใซ่ชฐใจ่ฉฑใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใฎใ‹ใ‚ใ‹ใ‚‰ใชใ„ ๅ ดๅˆใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‰ใงใ™ใ€‚ ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€้–“้•ใ„ใชใ
13:12
social situations can cause stress. Having a baby. So
็คพไผš็š„็Šถๆณใฏใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใ‚’ๅผ•ใ่ตทใ“ใ™ๅฏ่ƒฝๆ€งใŒใ‚ใ‚Š ใพใ™ใ€‚ ่ตคใกใ‚ƒใ‚“ใŒใ„ใ‚‹ใ€‚
13:17
having a baby. So we have five kids. Having a baby is
ใ ใ‹ใ‚‰่ตคใกใ‚ƒใ‚“ใ‚’็”ฃใ‚€ใ€‚ ใคใพใ‚Šใ€5ไบบใฎ ๅญไพ›ใŒใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ่ตคใกใ‚ƒใ‚“ใ‚’
13:22
incredibly in like it's incredibly joyful. It's it
็”ฃใ‚€ใ“ใจใฏใ€ใใ‚ŒใŒไฟกใ˜ใ‚‰ใ‚Œใชใ„ใปใฉๆฅฝใ—ใ„ใ“ใจใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซ ไฟกใ˜ใ‚‰ใ‚Œใชใ„ใปใฉใงใ™ใ€‚ ใใ‚Œใฏใ‚ใชใŸใฎๅฎถใซ
13:27
brings a lot of happiness into your home. Having a baby is a
ใŸใใ•ใ‚“ใฎๅนธใ›ใ‚’ใ‚‚ใŸใ‚‰ใ— ใพใ™ใ€‚ ่ตคใกใ‚ƒใ‚“ใ‚’
13:31
wonderful thing. But at the same time it's very stressful.
็”ฃใ‚€ใ“ใจใฏ็ด ๆ™ดใ‚‰ใ—ใ„ใ“ใจใงใ™ใ€‚ ใ—ใ‹ใ— ๅŒๆ™‚ใซใ€ใใ‚Œใฏ้žๅธธใซใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใŒใŸใพใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
13:35
Um and especially the day you go to the hospital. So each
ใˆใˆใจใ€็‰นใซใ‚ใชใŸ ใŒ็—…้™ขใซ่กŒใๆ—ฅใ€‚ ใงใ™ใ‹ใ‚‰
13:40
time we went to the hospital when Jen was giving birth to
ใ€ใ‚ธใ‚งใƒณใŒๅญไพ›ใ‚’ๅ‡บ็”ฃใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจใใซ็—…้™ขใซ่กŒใใŸใณใซ
13:44
one of our kids. Um I'm not going to give too much
ใ€‚ ใˆใˆใจใ€็งใฏ ใ‚ใพใ‚Šๅคšใใฎๆƒ…ๅ ฑใ‚’ไธŽใˆใ‚‹ใคใ‚‚ใ‚Šใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“
13:47
information but each birth happened completely differently
ใŒใ€ใใ‚Œใžใ‚Œใฎๅ‡บ็”Ÿใฏไป– ใจใฏๅฎŒๅ…จใซ็•ฐใชใฃใฆ่ตทใ“ใ‚Šใพใ—ใŸ
13:51
than the other. So it was always a stressful situation
ใ€‚ ใงใ™ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€ใใ‚Œใฏ็งใŸใกใซใจใฃใฆ ๅธธใซใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใฎๅคšใ„็Šถๆณ
13:54
for us. Um pregnancy itself I think our first pregnancy when
ใงใ—ใŸใ€‚ ใˆใˆใจใ€ๅฆŠๅจ ใใฎใ‚‚ใฎใงใ™ ใ€‚ใ‚ธใ‚งใƒณใŒๆœ€ๅˆใฎๅญไพ›ใ‚’ๅฆŠๅจ ใ—ใŸใจใใฎๆœ€ๅˆใฎๅฆŠๅจ ใ ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™
13:59
Jen was first pregnant with our first child. It was Stressful
ใ€‚ ใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใŒใŸใพใ‚Šใพใ—ใŸ
14:03
but Jen read a lot of books and she had friends who are also
ใŒใ€ใ‚ธใ‚งใƒณใฏใŸใใ•ใ‚“ใฎๆœฌใ‚’่ชญใฟใ€ๅŒใ˜ๆ™‚ๆœŸใซ่ตคใกใ‚ƒใ‚“ใ‚’ ็”ฃใ‚“ใงใ„ใ‚‹ๅ‹้”ใŒใ„ใพใ—ใŸ
14:06
having babies around the same time. But actually going to the
ใ€‚ ใงใ‚‚ๅฎŸ้š›ใซ็—…้™ขใซ่กŒใใฎใฏใ‚ธใ‚งใƒณ
14:10
hospital I think was more stressful for me than Jen.
ใ‚ˆใ‚Šใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใŒๅคšใ‹ใฃใŸใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ ใ€‚
14:14
Maybe we'll do a maybe we'll do an English lesson together
ๅคšๅˆ†็ง้”ใฏๅคšๅˆ†็ง้”ใŒๅฆŠๅจ ใจๅ‡บ็”ฃใซใคใ„ใฆ ไธ€็ท’ใซ่‹ฑ่ชžใฎใƒฌใƒƒใ‚นใƒณใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹
14:18
about pregnancy and giving birth someday. Well I'll talk
ใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚ ใ•ใฆใ€็งใฏ
14:23
to Jen and see if she'll agree to that. She might be stressed
ใ‚ธใ‚งใƒณใจ่ฉฑใ‚’ใ—ใฆใ€ๅฝผๅฅณใŒใใ‚ŒใซๅŒๆ„ใ™ใ‚‹ใ‹ใฉใ†ใ‹ใ‚’็ขบ่ชใ—ใพใ™ ใ€‚
14:27
to be in a video though. Getting married. So this was
ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€ๅฝผๅฅณใฏใƒ“ใƒ‡ใ‚ชใซๅ‡บๆผ”ใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’ๅผท่ชฟใ•ใ‚Œใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ็ตๅฉšใ™ใ‚‹ใ€‚ ใ—ใŸใŒใฃใฆใ€ใ“ใ‚Œใฏ
14:30
mentioned earlier. Um there's a number of stresses with getting
ๅ‰่ฟฐใฎใจใŠใ‚Šใงใ™ใ€‚ ็ตๅฉš ใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใซใฏๅคšใใฎใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใŒใ‚ใ‚Š
14:34
married. There's the actual wedding day. The day you get
ใพใ™ใ€‚ ๅฎŸ้š›ใฎ ็ตๅฉšๅผใฎๆ—ฅใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ‚ใชใŸใŒ
14:38
married can be very stressful. When you go to a church or a
็ตๅฉšใ™ใ‚‹ๆ—ฅใฏ้žๅธธใซใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใซใชใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ ๆ•™ไผš
14:41
temple or the city hall or wherever you're going to to go
ใ‚„ๅฏบ้™ขใ€ๅธ‚ๅบ่ˆŽใชใฉใ€็ตๅฉšๅผ ใซ่กŒใๅ ดๆ‰€ใซ่กŒใ
14:45
for the wedding. Um depending on your religion or if it's
ใจใใ€‚ ใˆใˆใจ ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฎๅฎ—ๆ•™ใซๅฟœใ˜ใฆใ€ใพใŸใฏใใ‚ŒใŒ
14:48
non-religious. Um it can be stressful there's lots of
้žๅฎ—ๆ•™็š„ใงใ‚ใ‚‹ใ‹ใฉใ†ใ‹ใ€‚ ๅฎถๆ— ใŒใŸใใ•ใ‚“ใ„ใ‚‹ใฎใฏใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใซใชใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“
14:52
family. There's lots of friends. Sometimes the parents
ใ€‚ ใŸใใ•ใ‚“ใฎ ๅ‹้”ใŒใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
14:56
of the groom and the parents of the bride have their own ideas
่Šฑๅฉฟใฎไธก่ฆชใจ่Šฑๅซใฎไธก่ฆชใฏ
14:59
about how the wedding should go. Um and then actually being
ใ€็ตๅฉšๅผใŒใฉใ†ใ‚ใ‚‹ในใใ‹ใซใคใ„ใฆ็‹ฌ่‡ชใฎ่€ƒใˆใ‚’ๆŒใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ ใ“ใจใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ ใˆใˆใจใ€ใใ‚Œใ‹ใ‚‰ๅฎŸ้š›ใซ
15:04
married can be stressful. Um after the wedding day once you
็ตๅฉšใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใฏใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใซใชใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ ็ตๅฉšๅผใฎๆ—ฅใฎๅพŒใ€ๆœ€ๅˆใฎๆ•ฐใ‹ๆœˆใง
15:08
start to live together the first few months it can be
ไธ€็ท’ใซๆšฎใ‚‰ใ—ๅง‹ใ‚ใ‚‹ใจ
15:11
stressful learning to live with another person. But I think
ใ€ไป–ใฎไบบใจไธ€็ท’ใซๆšฎใ‚‰ใ™ใ“ใจใ‚’ๅญฆใถใฎใฏใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใซใชใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ ใ€‚
15:15
it's worth it by the way. Uncertainty. So I just put a
ใกใชใฟใซใใ‚Œใ ใ‘ใฎไพกๅ€คใฏใ‚ใ‚‹ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ไธ็ขบๅฎŸๆ€งใ€‚ ใ ใ‹ใ‚‰็งใฏใ“ใ‚Œใซ
15:20
big question mark for this one. Uncertainty is when you are not
ๅคงใใช็–‘ๅ•็ฌฆใ‚’ไป˜ใ‘ใพใ—ใŸใ€‚ ไธ็ขบๅฎŸๆ€งใจใฏใ€ๅฐ†ๆฅไฝ•ใ‹ใซใคใ„ใฆ็ขบไฟกใŒๆŒใฆใชใ„ๅ ดๅˆใงใ™
15:25
certain about something in the future. Maybe you are in school
ใ€‚ ๅคšๅˆ†ใ‚ใชใŸใฏๅญฆๆ ก
15:30
and you don't know if you're going to get a job after you
ใซใ„ใฆใ€ๅ’ๆฅญๅพŒใซๅฐฑ่ทใ™ใ‚‹ใ‹ใฉใ†ใ‹ใ‚ใ‹ใ‚‰ใชใ„ใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†
15:33
graduate. So there's uncertainty there. Maybe you
ใ€‚ ใ—ใŸใŒใฃใฆใ€ใใ“ใซใฏ ไธ็ขบๅฎŸๆ€งใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ ใŸใถใ‚“ใ‚ใชใŸ
15:36
just bought a used car. And you're not sure if it's going
ใฏไธญๅค่ปŠใ‚’่ฒทใฃใŸใฐใ‹ใ‚Šใงใ™ใ€‚ ใใ—ใฆใ€ ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใใ‚ŒใŒใ‚ใชใŸใซๅดฉๅฃŠใ™ใ‚‹ใ‹ใฉใ†ใ‹ใ‚ใ‹ใ‚‰ใชใ„
15:40
to break down on you. You're there's some uncertainty there.
ใ€‚ ใใ“ใซใฏใ„ใใคใ‹ใฎไธ็ขบๅฎŸๆ€งใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
15:43
Um maybe you lost your job and you're not sure if you'll be
ใŸใถใ‚“ใ‚ใชใŸใฏไป•ไบ‹ใ‚’ๅคฑใ„ใ€ๅˆฅใฎไป•ไบ‹ใ‚’่ฆ‹ใคใ‘ใ‚‹ ใ“ใจใŒใงใใ‚‹ใ‹ใฉใ†ใ‹ใ‚ใ‹ใ‚‰ใชใ„ใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†
15:47
able to find another one. There's uncertainty. So
ใ€‚ ไธ็ขบๅฎŸๆ€งใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ ใงใ™ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€
15:50
uncertainty is any time in life when you're not sure what the
ไธ็ขบๅฎŸๆ€งใฏ ใ€ๅฐ†ๆฅใŒใฉใ†ใชใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚ใ‹ใ‚‰ใชใ„ใจใใฏใ„ใคใงใ‚‚ใ‚ใ‚Š
15:55
future holds. Okay. Um I even have it as a farmer. Sometimes
ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ‚ใ‹ใฃใŸใ€‚ ใˆใˆใจใ€็งใ‚‚ ่พฒๅคซใจใ—ใฆใใ‚Œใ‚’ๆŒใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ๆ™‚ใ€…
16:00
I'm trying to do things where we need it to be sunny for
ใ€3ๆ—ฅใ‹4ๆ—ฅ็ถšใ‘ใฆๆ™ดใ‚Œใชใ‘ใ‚Œใฐใชใ‚‰ใชใ„ใ“ใจใ‚’ใ‚„ใ‚ใ†
16:04
three or four days in a row and then I have some uncertainty
ใจ ใ—ใฆใ„ใพใ™ใŒใ€ๅคฉๆฐ—ใŒๅค‰ใ‚ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚‚ใ‚ใ‚‹ใฎใงใ€
16:07
whether I should start outdoor work because sometimes the
ๅฑ‹ๅค–ใงใฎไฝœๆฅญใ‚’ๅง‹ใ‚ใ‚‹ในใใ‹ใฉใ†ใ‹ไธๅฎ‰
16:10
weather changes. Divorce. So we've gone to the other end of
ใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ ้›ขๅฉšใ€‚ ใ ใ‹ใ‚‰ ็งใŸใกใฏ็ตๅฉšใฎใ‚‚ใ†ไธ€ๆ–นใฎ็ซฏใซ่กŒใใพใ—ใŸ
16:15
marriage. So getting married or being in a marriage can be
ใ€‚ ใงใ™ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€็ตๅฉšใ—ใŸใ‚Š็ตๅฉšใ— ใŸใ‚Šใ™ใ‚‹ใฎใฏใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใซใชใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™
16:19
stressful. Hopefully it's not. Um but certainly divorce is
ใ€‚ ใ†ใพใใ„ใ‘ใฐใ€ใใ†ใงใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ใˆใˆใจใ€ใ—ใ‹ใ—็ขบใ‹ใซ้›ขๅฉšใฏ
16:23
stressful. Divorce is more stressful. I think if there are
ใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใŒๅคšใ„ใงใ™ใ€‚ ้›ขๅฉšใฏใ‚‚ใฃใจ ใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใŒใŸใพใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ ๅญไพ›ใŒใ„ใ‚‹
16:27
children involved sometimes people get married and they
ใจ็ตๅฉšใ—
16:30
have some children and then they get a divorce. Um so
ใฆๅญไพ› ใŒใงใใฆ้›ขๅฉšใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚‚ใ‚ใ‚‹ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใˆใˆใจใ€
16:34
that's how we talk about it in English as well. We say oh Joe
ใใ‚Œใฏ็งใŸใกใŒ่‹ฑ่ชžใงใ‚‚ใใ‚Œใซใคใ„ใฆ่ฉฑใ™ๆ–นๆณ• ใงใ™ใ€‚ ใ‚ธใƒงใƒผ
16:38
and Jill are getting a divorce. Um before you're divorced
ใจใ‚ธใƒซใŒ้›ขๅฉšใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจ่จ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ‚ใชใŸใŒ้›ขๅฉšใ™ใ‚‹ๅ‰ใซ
16:42
usually couples will be separated. When you're
ใ€้€šๅธธใ€ใ‚ซใƒƒใƒ—ใƒซใฏ ๅˆ†้›ขใ•ใ‚Œใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ‚ใชใŸใŒ
16:45
separated it means that you're just not living together
ๅˆฅๅฑ…ใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจใใ€ใใ‚Œใฏใ‚ใชใŸใŒใ‚‚ใ† ไธ€็ท’ใซไฝใ‚“ใงใ„ใชใ„ใ“ใจใ‚’ๆ„ๅ‘ณใ—ใพใ™
16:48
anymore. So often when a couple starts to fight one of one of
ใ€‚ ใงใ™ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€ๅคซๅฉฆ ใŒๆˆฆใ„ๅง‹ใ‚ใ‚‹ใจ
16:53
the spouses will move out and they will be separated. Maybe
ใ€้…ๅถ่€…ใฎ1ไบบใŒๅผ•ใฃ่ถŠใ—ใฆใ€ ้›ขใ‚Œใฆใ—ใพใ†ใ“ใจใŒใ‚ˆใใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
16:57
the the husband will get an apartment somewhere or maybe
ๅคšๅˆ†ๅคซใฏใฉใ“ใ‹ใซใ‚ขใƒ‘ใƒผใƒˆใ‚’ๆ‰‹ใซๅ…ฅใ‚Œใ‚‹
17:01
yeah maybe someone will move back in with their parents in
ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ—ใ€ๅคšๅˆ†่ชฐใ‹ใŒ้–ขไฟ‚ใฎ ไธญใงไธก่ฆชใจไธ€็ท’ใซๆˆปใฃใฆใใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“
17:05
the relationship. So they'll be separated then eventually they
ใ€‚ ใ ใ‹ใ‚‰ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏ ๅˆ†้›ขใ•ใ‚Œใ€ๆœ€็ต‚็š„ใซ
17:08
might be divorced. So separation is the choice to not
ใฏ้›ขๅฉšใ™ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ใ—ใŸใŒใฃใฆใ€ ๅˆ†้›ขใฏ
17:13
live together. Divorce is the legal separation so that you
ไธ€็ท’ใซไฝใพใชใ„ใจใ„ใ†้ธๆŠžใงใ™ใ€‚ ้›ขๅฉšใฏ ใ‚ใชใŸ
17:17
are no longer married. Getting arrested. I don't know a lot
ใŒใ‚‚ใ†็ตๅฉšใ—ใฆใ„ใชใ„ใ‚ˆใ†ใซๆณ•็š„ใชๅˆฅๅฑ…ใงใ™ใ€‚ ้€ฎๆ•ใ•ใ‚Œใ‚‹ใ€‚ ใ‚ˆใใ‚ใ‹ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใŒใ€
17:23
about one but I think getting arrested it's probably
้€ฎๆ•ใ•ใ‚Œใ‚‹ใฎใฏ
17:26
stressful. Um if you've lived a life of crime if you've
ใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใŒใŸใพใ‚‹ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใˆใƒผใจ ใ€็Šฏ็ฝช็”Ÿๆดปใ‚’้€ใฃใฆใ„ใŸใ‚‰
17:31
committed a lot of crime I think that you would be really
ใ€ใŸใใ•ใ‚“ใฎ็Šฏ็ฝชใ‚’็Šฏใ—ใŸ ใจใ—ใŸใ‚‰ใ€
17:36
stressed if you got arrested. If the police came to your door
้€ฎๆ•ใ•ใ‚ŒใŸใ‚‰ๆœฌๅฝ“ใซใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใซใชใ‚‹ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ่ญฆๅฏŸใŒใ‚ใชใŸใฎใƒ‰ใ‚ขใซๆฅใฆ
17:39
and put handcuffs on you I think you would feel like oh no
ๆ‰‹้Œ ใ‚’ใ‹ใ‘ ใŸใ‚‰ใ€
17:44
I've done something horribly wrong and now I am going to
็งใฏใฒใฉใ้–“้•ใฃใŸใ“ใจใ‚’ใ—ใŸใฎใง ใ€ไปŠๅบฆใฏ
17:47
jail. Retirement. So interestingly enough a lot of
ๅˆ‘ๅ‹™ๆ‰€ใซๅ…ฅใ‚Œใพใ™ใ€‚ ้€€่ทใ€‚ ใจใฆใ‚‚ ่ˆˆๅ‘ณๆทฑใ„ใ“ใจใซใ€ๅคšใใฎ
17:54
people look forward to being retired. Um and I think that
ไบบใŒๅผ•้€€ใ‚’ๆฅฝใ—ใฟใซใ—ใฆใ„ ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใˆใˆใจใ€็งใฏ
17:58
sometimes people retire and they don't know what to do with
ๆ™‚ใ€…ไบบใ€…ใŒๅผ•้€€ใ—ใ€ ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏ่‡ชๅˆ†่‡ช่บซใงไฝ•ใ‚’ใ™ในใใ‹ใ‚ใ‹ใ‚‰ใชใ„ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™
18:03
themselves. That's how we would describe it. Maybe they've gone
ใ€‚ ใใ‚ŒใŒ็งใŸใกใŒ ใใ‚Œใ‚’่ชฌๆ˜Žใ™ใ‚‹ๆ–นๆณ•ใงใ™ใ€‚ ใŸใถใ‚“ๅฝผใ‚‰
18:06
to work every day for 35 years. And they really enjoy their
ใฏ35ๅนด้–“ๆฏŽๆ—ฅๅƒใใซ่กŒใฃใฆใใพใ—ใŸใ€‚ ใใ—ใฆๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏๆœฌๅฝ“ใซๅฝผใ‚‰ใฎไป•ไบ‹ใ‚’ๆฅฝใ—ใ‚“ใงใ„ใพใ™
18:10
job. And now they're 65 or 70 and they're retired and they
ใ€‚ ใใ—ใฆไปŠใ€ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏ65ๆญณใ‹70ๆญณใงใ€ ๅผ•้€€ใ—ใฆ
18:15
don't know what to do every morning. They have breakfast
ใ„ใฆใ€ๆฏŽๆœไฝ•ใ‚’ใ™ในใใ‹ใ‚ใ‹ใ‚‰ใชใ„ ใ€‚ ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏๆœ้ฃŸ
18:17
and they're kind of bored. So retirement I think is 99%
ใ‚’ใจใ‚Šใ€้€€ๅฑˆใ—ใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใงใ™ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€ ๅผ•้€€ใฏ99๏ผ…็ด ๆ™ดใ‚‰ใ—ใ„ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™
18:21
awesome. But for well of the people it might be a little bit
ใ€‚ ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€ๅคšใใฎ ไบบใซใจใฃใฆใ€ใใ‚Œใฏๅฐ‘ใ—ใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใซใชใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“
18:27
stressful. Where they maybe they don't have friends to hang
ใ€‚ ใŸใถใ‚“ ๅฝผใ‚‰ใŒใŸใ‚€ใ‚ใ™ใ‚‹ๅ‹้”ใŒใ„ใชใ„ใจใ“ใ‚
18:30
out with. Maybe their friends are still working. But
ใ€‚ ใŸใถใ‚“ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฎๅ‹้” ใฏใพใ ๅƒใ„ใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€
18:33
definitely it can be a bit stressful. And then going
็ขบใ‹ใซใใ‚Œใฏๅฐ‘ใ—ใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใซใชใ‚‹ๅฏ่ƒฝๆ€งใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ ใ€‚ ใใ—ใฆ
18:37
bankrupt. So this is when you are running a business. And you
็ ด็”ฃใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€ใ“ใ‚Œใฏใ‚ใชใŸ ใŒใƒ“ใ‚ธใƒใ‚นใ‚’้‹ๅ–ถใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจใใงใ™ใ€‚ ใใ—ใฆใ€ใ‚ใชใŸ
18:42
aren't making enough money to pay your bills. Um and then
ใฏใ‚ใชใŸใฎๆ‰‹ๅฝขใ‚’ๆ”ฏๆ‰•ใ†ใฎใซๅๅˆ†ใชใŠ้‡‘ใ‚’็จผใ„ใงใ„ใพใ›ใ‚“ ใ€‚ ใˆใˆใจใ€ใใ—ใฆ
18:45
eventually your business might declare bankruptcy. When you're
ๆœ€็ต‚็š„ใซใ‚ใชใŸใฎใƒ“ใ‚ธใƒใ‚นใฏ ็ ด็”ฃใ‚’ๅฎฃ่จ€ใ™ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ใ‚ใชใŸใŒ
18:49
bankrupt it means you don't have any money. You you you
็ ด็”ฃใ—ใŸใจใใ€ใใ‚Œใฏใ‚ใชใŸใŒใŠ้‡‘ใ‚’ๆŒใฃใฆใ„ใชใ„ใ“ใจใ‚’ๆ„ๅ‘ณใ—ใพใ™ ใ€‚ ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใ‚ใชใŸ
18:53
can't pay your rent. You can't pay your bills. Um and it's
ใŒใ‚ใชใŸใฎๅฎถ่ณƒใ‚’ๆ‰•ใ†ใ“ใจใŒใงใใชใ„ใ‚ใชใŸใ€‚ ใ‚ใชใŸใฏ ใ‚ใชใŸใฎๆ‰‹ๅฝขใ‚’ๆ”ฏๆ‰•ใ†ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ใˆใˆใจใ€ใใ‚Œใฏ
18:58
just very very difficult and challenging and certainly
้žๅธธใซๅ›ฐ้›ฃใง ๆŒ‘ๆˆฆ็š„ใงใ€็ขบใ‹ใซ
19:00
extremely stressful. Dropping your phone. I put the what did
้žๅธธใซใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใŒใŸใพใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ ใŠไฝฟใ„ใฎๆบๅธฏ้›ป่ฉฑใ‚’ใƒ‰ใƒญใƒƒใƒ—ใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚ ็ง
19:07
because I see this happen at school about once a month I
ใฏใ“ใ‚ŒใŒๅญฆๆ กใงๆœˆใซไธ€ๅบฆใใ‚‰ใ„่ตทใ“ใ‚‹ใฎใ‚’่ฆ‹ใŸใฎใงไฝ•ใ‚’ใ—ใŸใ‹ใ‚’่จ€ใ„ใพใ™ ็ง
19:11
will see a student drop their phone and they don't always
ใฏๅญฆ็”ŸใŒๅฝผใ‚‰ใฎ้›ป่ฉฑใ‚’่ฝใจใ™ใฎใ‚’่ฆ‹ใพใ™ ใใ—ใฆๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏใ„ใคใ‚‚้›ป่ฉฑใ‚’ๅฃŠใ™ใ‚ใ‘ใงใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“
19:15
break phones are actually quite durable now but the look on
19:19
someone's face when they're on their phone and then they drop
ใใ—ใฆๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏใใ‚Œใ‚’่ฝใจใ—
19:24
it. They're the look on their face is like oh no I just
ใพใ™ใ€‚ ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏๅฝผใ‚‰ใฎ ้ก”ใฎ่กจๆƒ…ใฏ
19:28
dropped my phone because phones are very very expensive. It's
ใ€้›ป่ฉฑใŒ้žๅธธใซ้ซ˜ไพกใชใฎใงใ€็งใฏใกใ‚‡ใ†ใฉ็งใฎ้›ป่ฉฑใ‚’่ฝใจใ—ใŸใ‚ˆใ† ใชใ‚‚ใฎใงใ™ใ€‚
19:33
very very expensive if you drop your phone and break it. In
ใ‚ใชใŸใŒใ‚ใชใŸใฎ้›ป่ฉฑใ‚’่ฝใจใ—ใใ—ใฆใใ‚Œใ‚’ๅฃŠใ™ใชใ‚‰ใฐใ€ใใ‚Œใฏ้žๅธธใซ้žๅธธใซ้ซ˜ไพกใงใ™ ใ€‚
19:37
fact many students well not many. A few have phones where
ๅฎŸ้š›ใ€ๅคšใใฎๅญฆ็”Ÿใฏใใ‚Œใปใฉๅคšใใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ ใ€‚ ็”ป้ขใซใฒใณใŒๅ…ฅใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹้›ป่ฉฑใ‚’ๆŒใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ไบบใ‚‚
19:42
the screen is cracked but the phone still works. And then
ใ„ใพใ™ใŒใ€ ใใ‚Œใงใ‚‚้›ป่ฉฑใฏๆฉŸ่ƒฝใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใใ—ใฆใ€
19:46
they probably breathe a sigh of relief. That after dropping
ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏใŠใใ‚‰ใๅฎ‰ๅ ตใฎใŸใ‚ๆฏใ‚’ใคใ„ใŸใ€‚
19:50
their phone it still works. Um sending a text or a email or a
ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฎ้›ป่ฉฑใ‚’่ฝใจใ—ใŸๅพŒใงใ‚‚ใใ‚ŒใฏๆฉŸ่ƒฝใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚ ้–“้•ใฃใŸไบบใซใƒ†ใ‚ญใ‚นใƒˆ ใ€ใƒกใƒผใƒซใ€ใพใŸใฏ
19:57
text message to the wrong person. Um I don't know if
ใƒ†ใ‚ญใ‚นใƒˆใƒกใƒƒใ‚ปใƒผใ‚ธใ‚’้€ไฟกใ—ใฆใ„ ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใˆใˆใจใ€
20:00
you've ever done this. Um I've done this but usually the
ใ‚ใชใŸใŒใ“ใ‚Œใ‚’ใ—ใŸใ“ใจใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ใ‹ใฉใ†ใ‹ใฏใ‚ใ‹ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ใˆใˆใจใ€็งใฏใ“ใ‚Œใ‚’่กŒใ„ใพใ— ใŸใŒใ€้€šๅธธใ€
20:03
message isn't that big of a deal. But I found this picture
ใƒกใƒƒใ‚ปใƒผใ‚ธใฏใใ‚Œใปใฉๅคงใใชๅ•้กŒใงใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ ใ€‚ ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€็งใฏใ‚คใƒณใ‚ฟใƒผใƒใƒƒใƒˆใงใ“ใฎๅ†™็œŸใ‚’่ฆ‹ใคใ‘ใพใ—ใŸ
20:08
on the internet. Accidentally text boss complaining I'm stuck
ใ€‚ ่ชคใฃใฆ ใƒ†ใ‚ญใ‚นใƒˆไธŠๅธใŒ็งใŒ็„กๆ„ๅ‘ณใชไผš่ญฐใง็ซ‹ใกๅพ€็”Ÿใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจไธๅนณใ‚’่จ€ใฃใฆใ„
20:12
in a pointless meeting. So that would be stressful if you're in
ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ—ใŸใŒใฃใฆ
20:15
a meeting and your boss is talking and you think you're
ใ€ไผš่ญฐไธญใซไธŠๅธใŒ ่ฉฑใ—ใฆใ„ใฆ
20:19
texting a colleague wow this meeting is boring send and then
ใ€ๅŒๅƒšใซใƒ†ใ‚ญใ‚นใƒˆใƒกใƒƒใ‚ปใƒผใ‚ธใ‚’้€ไฟกใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจๆ€ใ†ๅ ดๅˆใ€ใ“ใฎ ไผš่ญฐใฏ้€€ๅฑˆใช้€ไฟกใงใ‚ใ‚Š
20:23
you hear your boss's phone go and your boss is like basically
ใ€ไธŠๅธใฎ้›ป่ฉฑใŒ้ณดใ‚Š ใ€ไธŠๅธใฏๅŸบๆœฌ็š„
20:29
looking at you. So sending a message or text to the wrong
ใซใ‚ใชใŸใ‚’่ฆ‹ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ‚ˆใ†ใซ่žใ“ใˆใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ—ใŸใŒใฃใฆ ใ€้–“้•ใฃใŸไบบใซใƒกใƒƒใ‚ปใƒผใ‚ธใ‚„ใƒ†ใ‚ญใ‚นใƒˆใ‚’้€ไฟกใ—ใพใ™
20:33
person. This is a relatively new stressful thing. Um I mean
ใ€‚ ใ“ใ‚Œใฏๆฏ”่ผƒ็š„ ๆ–ฐใ—ใ„ใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใฎๅคšใ„ใ“ใจใงใ™ใ€‚ ใˆใˆใจใ€
20:39
2030 years ago you couldn't really do this but now we live
2030ๅนดๅ‰ใฏๆœฌๅฝ“ใซใ“ใ‚ŒใŒใงใใชใ‹ใฃใŸใฎใงใ™ใŒ ใ€ไปŠใฏใƒกใƒƒใ‚ปใƒผใ‚ธใ‚’ใ™ใฐใ‚„ใ
20:43
in a world where we send messages so quickly. It can be
้€ไฟกใ™ใ‚‹ไธ–็•Œใซไฝใ‚“ใงใ„ ใพใ™ใ€‚
20:46
quite stressful when you hit send and you realize you've
้€ไฟกใ‚’ๆŠผใ—ใฆใ€้–“้•ใฃใŸไบบใซใƒกใƒƒใ‚ปใƒผใ‚ธใ‚’้€ไฟกใ—ใŸใ“ใจใซๆฐ—ไป˜ใใจใ€้žๅธธใซใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใซใชใ‚‹ๅฏ่ƒฝๆ€งใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™
20:50
sent a message to the wrong person. A test. So tests are
ใ€‚ ใƒ†ใ‚นใƒˆใ€‚ ใ—ใŸใŒใฃใฆใ€ใƒ†ใ‚นใƒˆใฏ
20:55
very very stressful. Um writing the test is stressful. But the
้žๅธธใซใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใŒใ‹ใ‹ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ ใƒ†ใ‚นใƒˆใ‚’ๆ›ธใใฎใฏใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใŒใŸใพใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€
21:01
days leading up to this test are stressful as well. If you
ใ“ใฎใƒ†ใ‚นใƒˆใซ่‡ณใ‚‹ใพใงใฎๆ—ฅใ€… ใ‚‚ใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใŒใŸใพใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
21:04
are planning to take an english test let's say you register to
่‹ฑ่ชžใฎใƒ†ใ‚นใƒˆใ‚’ๅ—ใ‘ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’่จˆ็”ป ใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ๅ ดๅˆ
21:09
take an English test in June. And we're sitting here in
ใ€6ๆœˆใซ่‹ฑ่ชžใฎใƒ†ใ‚นใƒˆใ‚’ๅ—ใ‘ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใซ็™ป้Œฒใ™ใ‚‹ใจใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใใ—ใฆใ€็งใŸใกใฏ3ๆœˆใซใ“ใ“ใซๅบงใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™
21:12
March. Your stress is very low. But every week your stress will
ใ€‚ ใ‚ใชใŸใฎใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใฏ้žๅธธใซไฝŽใ„ใงใ™ใ€‚ ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€ๆฏŽ้€ฑใ€ใƒ†ใ‚นใƒˆใŒ่ฟ‘ใฅใใซใคใ‚Œใฆใ‚ใชใŸใฎใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใฏๅคงใใใชใ‚Šใพใ™
21:17
get bigger as the test approaches. Tests can be very
ใ€‚ ็ขบใ‹ใซใ€ใƒ†ใ‚นใƒˆใฏไบบใ€…ใซใจใฃใฆ้žๅธธใซใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใซใชใ‚‹ๅฏ่ƒฝๆ€งใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™
21:21
stressful for people for sure. Uh public speaking this is a
ใ€‚ ไบบๅ‰ใง่ฉฑใ™ใจใ€ใ“ใ‚Œใฏ
21:26
very common one. It can be very stressful to talk in front of
้žๅธธใซไธ€่ˆฌ็š„ใชใ‚‚ใฎใงใ™ใ€‚ ไบบ ใฎๅ‰ใง่ฉฑใ™ใฎใฏใจใฆใ‚‚ใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใŒใŸใพใ‚Š
21:30
people. Um when you know that you have to give a speech when
ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใˆใˆใจใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใŒ ใ‚นใƒ”ใƒผใƒใ‚’ใ—
21:34
you know you have to stand in front of 50 or 100 or a000
ใชใ‘ใ‚Œใฐใชใ‚‰ใชใ„ใ“ใจใ‚’็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจใใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใŒ50ไบบใ€100ไบบใ€ใพใŸใฏ1000ไบบใฎไบบใ€…ใฎๅ‰ใซ็ซ‹ใฃใฆใ„ใชใ‘ใ‚Œใฐใชใ‚‰ใชใ„ใ“ใจใ‚’็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจใ
21:38
people. It can be very very stressful. Um and again being
ใ€‚ ใใ‚Œใฏ้žๅธธใซใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใซใชใ‚‹ๅฏ่ƒฝๆ€งใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ ใ€‚ ใˆใˆใจใ€ใ‚‚ใ†ไธ€ๅบฆ
21:42
prepared is a great way to reduce the stress a little bit.
ๆบ–ๅ‚™ใ™ใ‚‹ ใ“ใจใฏใ€ใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใ‚’ๅฐ‘ใ—ๆธ›ใ‚‰ใ™ใŸใ‚ใฎ็ด ๆ™ดใ‚‰ใ—ใ„ๆ–นๆณ•ใงใ™ใ€‚
21:46
As someone mentioned having an English conversation can be
่ชฐใ‹ใŒ่จ€ใฃใŸใ‚ˆใ†ใซใ€ ่‹ฑไผš่ฉฑใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใฏใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใซใชใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™
21:50
stressful. Again two things that can reduce the stress of
ใ€‚ ใ“ใ“ใงใ‚‚ใ€่‹ฑไผš่ฉฑ ใฎใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใ‚’่ปฝๆธ›ใงใใ‚‹2ใคใฎใ“ใจใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™
21:55
an English conversation. Number one make sure you're having
ใ€‚ ็ฌฌ ไธ€ใซใ€ๆฏŽ้€ฑ่ชฐใ‹ใจๅฎšๆœŸ็š„ใซไผš่ฉฑใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’็ขบ่ชใ—ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„
21:59
regular conversations each week with someone. Use preply.
ใ€‚ preplyใ‚’ไฝฟ็”จใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚
22:02
There's a link in the description below. Um find
ไปฅไธ‹ใฎ่ชฌๆ˜Žใซใƒชใƒณใ‚ฏใŒใ‚ใ‚Š ใพใ™ใ€‚ ๆฏŽ้€ฑ30ๅˆ†ใพใŸใฏ1ๆ™‚้–“ใ‚ใชใŸ
22:05
someone who you can pay to talk to you for 30 minutes or an
ใจ่ฉฑใ™ใŸใ‚ใซใ‚ใชใŸใŒๆ”ฏๆ‰•ใ†ใ“ใจใŒใงใใ‚‹่ชฐใ‹ใ‚’่ฆ‹ใคใ‘ใฆใใ ใ•ใ„
22:09
hour each week. Um that regular weekly practice will reduce the
ใ€‚ ๆฏŽ้€ฑๅฎšๆœŸ็š„ใซ ็ทด็ฟ’ใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใงใ€
22:14
stress you have when you speak English to someone else. And
ไป–ใฎไบบใจ่‹ฑ่ชžใ‚’่ฉฑใ™ใจใใฎใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใ‚’่ปฝๆธ›ใงใใพใ™ใ€‚
22:18
then number two prepare for your conversations. Always try
ใใ—ใฆ2็•ช็›ฎใฏ ใ‚ใชใŸใฎไผš่ฉฑใฎๆบ–ๅ‚™ใ‚’ใ—ใพใ™ใ€‚ ๅธธใซ
22:21
to think of things that you can talk about. A disagreement. So
ใ‚ใชใŸใŒ่ฉฑใ™ใ“ใจใŒใงใใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‚’่€ƒใˆใฆใฟใฆใใ ใ•ใ„ ใ€‚ ๆ„่ฆ‹ใฎ็›ธ้•ใ€‚ ใใฎ
22:26
sometimes you and a friend might disagree. Maybe you and
ใŸใ‚ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใจๅ‹ไบบใŒๆ„่ฆ‹ใ‚’็•ฐใซใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ ใ€‚ ๅคšๅˆ†ใ‚ใชใŸใจ
22:29
your brother disagree. Maybe you and your spouse disagree. A
ใ‚ใชใŸใฎๅ…„ๅผŸใฏๅŒๆ„ใ—ใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ๅคšๅˆ† ใ‚ใชใŸใจใ‚ใชใŸใฎ้…ๅถ่€…ใฏๅŒๆ„ใ—ใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚
22:33
disagreement is never enjoyable. Maybe you have a
ๆ„่ฆ‹ใฎ็›ธ้•ใฏๆฑบใ—ใฆๆฅฝใ—ใ„ใ‚‚ใฎใงใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ ใ€‚ ใŸใถใ‚“ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏ่ทๅ ดใฎ
22:36
disagreement with someone at work and the two of you just
่ชฐใ‹ใจๆ„่ฆ‹ใฎ็›ธ้•ใŒ ใ‚ใ‚Šใ€2ไบบใฏ
22:38
don't get along. It can be very stressful to go to work
ใ†ใพใใ‚„ใฃใฆใ„ใชใ„ใ ใ‘ใงใ™ใ€‚ ใ‚ใชใŸ ใŒไธ€็ท’ใซๅƒใ„
22:43
everyday knowing that someone you work with disagrees with
ใฆใ„ใ‚‹่ชฐใ‹ ใŒ
22:48
you on a certain matter. A child moving out. So this is
็‰นๅฎšใฎๅ•้กŒใซใคใ„ใฆใ‚ใชใŸใซๅŒๆ„ใ—ใชใ„ใ“ใจใ‚’็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ€ๆฏŽๆ—ฅไป•ไบ‹ใซ่กŒใใ“ใจใฏ้žๅธธใซใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใซใชใ‚‹ๅฏ่ƒฝๆ€งใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ ๅผ•ใฃ่ถŠใ—ใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹ๅญไพ›ใ€‚ ใ ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€ใ“ใ‚Œ
22:54
when your kids get older. And this would be something
ใฏใ‚ใชใŸใฎๅญไพ›ใŒๅนดใ‚’ใจใ‚‹ใจใใงใ™ใ€‚ ใใ—ใฆใ€ ใ“ใ‚Œใฏ่ฆชใซ็‰นๆœ‰ใฎใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใฎๅคšใ„ใ‚‚ใฎใซใชใ‚‹ใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†
22:57
stressful that's unique to parents. But all of us had
ใ€‚ ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€็งใŸใกๅ…จๅ“กใซใฏ
23:01
parents. So we might be somewhat familiar with this.
ไธก่ฆชใŒใ„ใพใ—ใŸใ€‚ ใงใ™ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€็งใŸใกใฏใ“ใ‚Œใซใ„ใใ‚‰ใ‹็ฒพ้€šใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ› ใ‚“ใ€‚
23:04
When kids start to move out when a kid goes to university.
ๅญไพ›ใŒๅคงๅญฆใซ่กŒใใจใใซๅญไพ›ใŒๅผ•ใฃ่ถŠใ—ๅง‹ใ‚ใ‚‹ใจใใ€‚
23:08
Or when a child is 17 or 18 or nineteen and they move out of
ใพใŸใฏใ€ๅญไพ›ใŒ17ๆญณใ€18ๆญณใ€ใพใŸใฏ 19ๆญณใง
23:13
the house. It could be very stressful for the parents. It
ใ€ๅฎถใ‚’ๅ‡บใŸใจใใ€‚ ใใ‚Œใฏไธก่ฆชใซใจใฃใฆ้žๅธธใซใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใซใชใ‚‹ๅฏ่ƒฝๆ€งใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ ใ€‚ ใใ‚Œ
23:16
could be stressful for the kids. But in my experience I
ใฏๅญไพ›ใŸใกใซใจใฃใฆใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใซใชใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ ใ€‚ ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€็งใฎ็ตŒ้จ“ใง
23:20
think the kids are more excited to move out and the parents are
ใฏใ€ๅญไพ›ใŸใกใฏ ๅผ•ใฃ่ถŠใ—ใซใ‚‚ใฃใจ่ˆˆๅฅฎใ—ใฆใ„ใฆใ€
23:23
more stressed when kids move out. Will they find a job? Will
ๅญไพ›ใŸใกใŒๅผ•ใฃ่ถŠใ™ใจใใ€ไธก่ฆชใฏใ‚‚ใฃใจใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใ‚’ๆ„Ÿใ˜ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ ใ€‚ ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏไป•ไบ‹ใ‚’่ฆ‹ใคใ‘ใพใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ
23:27
they do well at school? Will they find friends? Will they
ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏๅญฆๆ กใงใ†ใพใใ„ใใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ‹๏ผŸ ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏๅ‹้”ใ‚’่ฆ‹ใคใ‘ใพใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ ๅฝผใ‚‰
23:30
meet someone? All of those things are what parents think
ใฏ่ชฐใ‹ใซไผšใ„ใพใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฏใ™ในใฆใ€
23:33
about when kids move out. Getting evicted. So this is not
ๅญไพ›ใŒๅผ•ใฃ่ถŠใ—ใŸใจใใซ่ฆชใŒ่€ƒใˆใ‚‹ใ“ใจใงใ™ใ€‚ ่ฟฝใ„ๅ‡บใ•ใ‚Œใ‚‹ใ€‚ ใ—ใŸใŒใฃใฆใ€ใ“ใ‚Œใฏ
23:39
the same as moving but this will cause you to move. When
็งปๅ‹•ใจๅŒใ˜ใงใฏใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ ใŒใ€็งปๅ‹•ใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใซใชใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
23:43
you get evicted it means that your landlord the person who
ใ‚ใชใŸใŒ่ฟฝใ„ๅ‡บใ•ใ‚ŒใŸใจใใ€ใใ‚Œใฏใ‚ใชใŸใŒไฝใ‚“ใงใ„ใ‚‹ๅฎถใ‚„ใ‚ขใƒ‘ใƒผใƒˆ ใ‚’ๆ‰€ๆœ‰ใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ‚ใชใŸใฎๅฎถไธปใŒใ‚ใชใŸ
23:47
owns the house or apartment that you live in has decided
23:51
that you can't live there anymore. And then you get
ใŒใ‚‚ใ†ใใ“ใซไฝใ‚€ใ“ใจใŒใงใใชใ„ใจๆฑบๅฎšใ—ใŸใ“ใจใ‚’ๆ„ๅ‘ณใ—ใพใ™ ใ€‚ ใใ—ใฆใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏ
23:54
evicted. So when you live in an apartment if you don't pay your
่ฟฝใ„ๅ‡บใ•ใ‚Œใพใ™ใ€‚ ใงใ™ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใŒใ‚ขใƒ‘ใƒผใƒˆใซไฝใ‚“ใงใ„ใ‚‹ใจใ
23:57
rent for a few months in Canada you will get evicted. Um
ใ€ใ‚ซใƒŠใƒ€ใงๆ•ฐใƒถๆœˆ้–“ๅฎถ่ณƒใ‚’ๆ‰•ใ‚ใชใ„ใจใ€ ใ‚ใชใŸใฏ่ฟฝใ„ๅ‡บใ•ใ‚Œใพใ™ใ€‚
24:01
sometimes the landlord needs to renovate the And so they might
ๅฎถไธปใŒๆ”นไฟฎใ™ใ‚‹ๅฟ…่ฆใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ๅ ดๅˆใ‚‚ใ‚ใ‚‹ ใฎใงใ€ใใ“ใงไฟฎ็†ไฝœๆฅญ
24:07
evict you while they do some repair work in there. But
ใ‚’ใ—ใฆใ„ใ‚‹้–“ใ€ๅฎถไธปใฏใ‚ใชใŸใ‚’่ฟฝใ„ๅ‡บใ™ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ ใ€‚ ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€
24:11
definitely getting evicted would be super super stressful.
้–“้•ใ„ใชใ่ฟฝใ„ๅ‡บใ• ใ‚Œใ‚‹ใฎใฏ้žๅธธใซใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใŒๅคšใ„ใงใ—ใ‚‡ใ†ใ€‚
24:16
Math. I put this on here just to be funny but some students
็ฎ—ๆ•ฐใ€‚ ้ข็™ฝใ„ใŸใ‚ใซใ“ใ“ใซ่ผ‰ใ›ใพใ— ใŸใŒใ€
24:22
find math very very stressful. They like reading stories. They
ๆ•ฐๅญฆใŒใจใฆใ‚‚ใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใซใชใ‚‹็”Ÿๅพ’ใ‚‚ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏ็‰ฉ่ชžใ‚’่ชญใ‚€ใฎใŒๅฅฝใใงใ™ใ€‚ ๅฝผใ‚‰ใฏ
24:26
like learning about history but math in particular can be very
ๆญดๅฒใซใคใ„ใฆๅญฆใถใฎใŒๅฅฝใใงใ™ใŒ ใ€็‰นใซๆ•ฐๅญฆใฏๅญฆ็”Ÿใซใจใฃใฆ้žๅธธใซใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใซใชใ‚‹ๅฏ่ƒฝๆ€งใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™
24:31
stressful for students. So this is a bit of a joke but there's
ใ€‚ ใงใ™ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€ใ“ใ‚Œ ใฏใกใ‚‡ใฃใจใ—ใŸๅ†—่ซ‡ใงใ™ใŒ
24:34
some truth to it. Math can be stressful for people. Debt so
ใ€ใใ‚Œใซใฏใ„ใใคใ‹ใฎ็œŸๅฎŸใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ ๆ•ฐๅญฆใฏไบบใ€…ใซใจใฃใฆใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใซใชใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ ใ€‚ ๅ€Ÿ้‡‘ใชใฎใงใ€
24:39
we Talked about going broke. We talked about having no money.
็งใŸใกใฏ็ ด็”ฃใ™ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใซใคใ„ใฆ่ฉฑใ—ใพใ—ใŸใ€‚ ็ง ใŸใกใฏใŠ้‡‘ใŒใชใ„ใ“ใจใซใคใ„ใฆ่ฉฑใ—ใพใ—ใŸใ€‚
24:43
Certainly when you're in a lot of debt it means you have
็ขบใ‹ใซใ‚ใชใŸใŒใŸใใ•ใ‚“ ใฎๅ€Ÿ้‡‘ใ‚’ๆŠฑใˆใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจใใ€ใใ‚Œใฏใ‚ใชใŸใŒใŠ้‡‘ใ‚’ๅ€Ÿใ‚ŠใŸใ“ใจใ‚’ๆ„ๅ‘ณใ—ใพใ™
24:47
borrowed money. So maybe you have a loan that you took out a
ใ€‚ ใ ใ‹ใ‚‰ๅคšๅˆ†ใ‚ใชใŸ ใฏใ‚ใชใŸใŒ่ปŠใ‚’่ฒทใ†ใŸใ‚ใซใƒญใƒผใƒณใ‚’็ต„ใ‚“ใ ใจใ„ใ†ใƒญใƒผใƒณใ‚’ๆŒใฃใฆใ„ใฆใ€
24:53
loan to buy a car and so you owe the bank ten thousand
ใใ‚Œใงใ‚ใชใŸ ใฏ้Š€่กŒใซไธ€ไธ‡ใƒ‰ใƒซใ‚’ๅ€Ÿใ‚Šใฆใ„ใ‚‹
24:56
dollars. Maybe you took out a loan that's called a mortgage
ใ€‚ ใŸใถใ‚“ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏๅฎถใ‚’่ฒทใ†ใŸใ‚ใซ ไฝๅฎ…ใƒญใƒผใƒณใจๅ‘ผใฐใ‚Œใ‚‹ใƒญใƒผใƒณ
25:00
to buy a house and so you owe the bank money. When you borrow
ใ‚’ๅ€Ÿใ‚ŠใŸใฎใงใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏ ้Š€่กŒใฎใŠ้‡‘ใ‚’ๅ€Ÿใ‚Šใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ‚ใชใŸใŒใŠ้‡‘ใ‚’ๅ€Ÿใ‚Šใ‚‹ใจใใ€
25:04
money you are in debt and having a lot of debt can be
ใ‚ใชใŸใฏๅ€Ÿ้‡‘ใ‚’ๆŠฑใˆใฆใŠใ‚Š ใ€ใŸใใ•ใ‚“ใฎๅ€Ÿ้‡‘ใ‚’ๆŠฑใˆใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใฏ้žๅธธใซใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใซใชใ‚‹ๅฏ่ƒฝๆ€งใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™
25:08
very very Stressful. In-laws. I've put this one on here just
ใ€‚ ๅงปๆˆšใ€‚ ใกใ‚‡ใฃใจใŠใ‹ใ—ใชใ“ใจใซใ€ใ“ใ‚Œใ‚’ใ“ใ“ใซ็ฝฎใ„ใฆ
25:16
to kind of be funny. I have really nice in-laws. But when
ใŠใใพใ—ใŸใ€‚ ็งใฏ ๆœฌๅฝ“ใซ็ด ๆ•ตใช็พฉ็†ใฎไบบใŒใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€
25:19
you get married the parents and brothers and sisters of the
ใ‚ใชใŸใŒ็ตๅฉšใ™ใ‚‹ใจใใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใŒ็ตๅฉšใ™ใ‚‹ไบบใฎไธก่ฆชใจ ๅ…„ๅผŸๅง‰ๅฆนใฏ
25:25
person you marry are called your in-laws. So you have your
ใ‚ใชใŸใฎ็พฉ็†ใฎไบบใจๅ‘ผใฐใ‚Œใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใ‚ใชใŸใฎ
25:28
father-in-law, your mother-in-law and those kinds
็พฉ็ˆถใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฎ ็พฉๆฏใ€ใใ—ใฆใใ‚Œใ‚‰ใฎ็จฎ้กž
25:30
of things. Brother-in-law, sister-in-law. Uh and sometimes
ใฎใ‚‚ใฎใ‚’ๆŒใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ็พฉๅ…„ใ€ ็พฉๅง‰ใ€‚ ใˆใˆใจใ€ๆ™‚ใซใฏ
25:33
that can be stressful. Um I luckily Jen's family is very
ใใ‚Œใฏใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใซใชใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ ๅนธใ„ใชใ“ใจใซใ€ใ‚ธใ‚งใƒณใฎๅฎถๆ—ใฏ
25:38
very nice. So my mother-in-law and father-in-law all my
ใจใฆใ‚‚่ฆชๅˆ‡ใงใ™ใ€‚ ใงใ™ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€็งใฎ็พฉๆฏ ใจ็พฉ็ˆถใฏใ™ในใฆ็งใฎ
25:41
brother-in-laws and sister-in-laws are wonderful
็พฉ็†ใฎๅ…„ๅผŸใจ ็พฉ็†ใฎๅฆนใฏ็ด ๆ™ดใ‚‰ใ—ใ„
25:43
people. Um but it can be Stressful when you get married
ไบบใ€…ใงใ™ใ€‚ ใˆใˆใจใ€ ใงใ‚‚็ตๅฉšใ™ใ‚‹ใจใใฏใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใŒใŸใพใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚
25:47
because sometimes maybe you have disagreements with your
ใชใœใชใ‚‰ใ€็พฉ็†ใฎไบบใจๆ„่ฆ‹ใŒๅˆใ‚ใชใ„ใ“ใจใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚‰ใงใ™
25:50
in-laws. Maybe you don't get along with your in-laws and
ใ€‚ ๅคšๅˆ†ใ‚ใชใŸใฏ ใ‚ใชใŸใฎ็พฉ็†ใฎไบบใจใ†ใพใใ‚„ใฃใฆใ„ใชใ„ใ€ใใ—ใฆ
25:53
that can cause a lot of stress. And to extend that sometimes a
ใใ‚Œใฏๅคšใใฎใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใ‚’ๅผ•ใ่ตทใ“ใ™ๅฏ่ƒฝๆ€งใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ ใใ—ใฆใใ‚Œใ‚’ๆ‹กๅผตใ™ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใซๆ™‚ใ€…
25:58
family gathering. This is similar to the stress you would
ๅฎถๆ—ใฎ้›†ใพใ‚Šใ€‚ ใ“ใ‚Œใฏใ€็คพไผš็š„็Šถๆณใง ๆ„Ÿใ˜ใ‚‹ใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใซไผผใฆใ„ใพใ™
26:02
feel in a social situation. But maybe once a year your whole
ใ€‚ ใ—ใ‹ใ—ใ€ ๅคšๅˆ†ๅนดใซไธ€ๅบฆใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฎ
26:06
family gets together at one person's house. All of your
ๅฎถๆ—ๅ…จๅ“กใŒไธ€ ไบบใฎๅฎถใซ้›†ใพใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ‚ใชใŸใฎใ™ในใฆใฎ
26:10
uncles and aunts and cousins and grandparents. And it maybe
ๅ”็ˆถใจๅ”ๆฏใจใ„ใจใ“ ใจ็ฅ–็ˆถๆฏใ€‚ ใใ—ใฆใ€ใใ‚Œ
26:13
it's just an awkward Family gathering where maybe you don't
ใฏใŠใใ‚‰ใใ‚ใชใŸใŒใ‚ใชใŸใฎๅ”็ˆถใจไปฒ่‰ฏใใ—ใชใ„ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใชใ„ๅŽ„ไป‹ใชๅฎถๆ—ใฎ้›†ใพใ‚Šใงใ™
26:17
get along with your uncle. Maybe you and your cousin have
ใ€‚ ใŸใถใ‚“ใ‚ใชใŸใจใ‚ใชใŸใฎใ„ใจใ“ใฏ
26:20
been arguing. So family gatherings can be somewhat
่ญฐ่ซ–ใ—ใฆใใพใ—ใŸใ€‚ ใงใ™ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€ๅฎถๆ—ใฎ ้›†ใพใ‚Šใฏไบบใ€…ใซใจใฃใฆใ„ใใถใ‚“ใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใซใชใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™
26:24
stressful for people. I talked a little bit about this
ใ€‚ ใ“ใ‚Œใซใคใ„ใฆ ใฏๅ‰ใซๅฐ‘ใ—่ฉฑใ—ใพใ—
26:28
earlier. Insomnia. Insomnia is when you go to bed and you just
ใŸใ€‚ ไธ็œ ็—‡ใ€‚ ไธ็œ ็—‡ใฏ ใ‚ใชใŸใŒๅฏใ‚‹ใจใใงใ‚ใ‚Šใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใŸใ 
26:33
can't sleep. Maybe you sleep for an hour or two and then
็œ ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ใŸใถใ‚“ ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏ1ใ€2ๆ™‚้–“ๅฏใฆใ€ใใ‚Œใ‹ใ‚‰2ใ€3ๆ™‚้–“
26:37
you're just wide awake for a couple hours. Maybe you go to
็›ฎใŒ่ฆšใ‚ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ ใ‘ใงใ™ ใ€‚ ใŸใถใ‚“ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏ
26:40
bed and you just can't fall asleep till two or three in the
ๅฏใฆใ€ๆœใฎ2ใ€3ๆ™‚ใพใง็œ ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใŒใงใใพใ›ใ‚“
26:43
morning. Maybe you go to bed and you sleep till three and
ใ€‚ ใŸใถใ‚“ ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฏๅฏใฆใ€3ๆ™‚ใพใงๅฏใฆใ€
26:46
you wake up and you just lay there with your eyes open for
ใฆใ€็›ฎ ใ‚’้–‹ใ‘ใฆใใ“ใซๆจชใซใชใ‚Šใ€ใ•ใ‚‰
26:49
three more hours and then you get up and have breakfast.
ใซ3ๆ™‚้–“ๅฏใฆใ€่ตทใ ใฆๆœ้ฃŸใ‚’ใจใ‚Šใพใ™
26:51
Insomnia is how we describe the inability to sleep at night and
ใ€‚ ไธ็œ ็—‡ใฏใ€็งใŸใกใŒๅคœ็œ ใ‚Œใชใ„ใ“ใจใ‚’่ชฌๆ˜Žใ™ใ‚‹ๆ–นๆณ•ใงใ‚ใ‚Š
26:57
it can cause huge amounts of stress for people. And then the
ใ€ไบบใ€…ใซๅคšๅคงใชใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใ‚’ๅผ•ใ่ตทใ“ใ™ๅฏ่ƒฝๆ€งใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ ใใ—ใฆ
27:02
last one being overweight. So I think depending on you know how
ๆœ€ๅพŒใฎใ‚‚ใฎใฏๅคชใ‚Šใ™ใŽใงใ™ใ€‚ ใงใ™ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€ ใ‚ใชใŸใซใ‚ˆใฃใฆใฏใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใฎๆ—ฅๅธธ็”Ÿๆดปใซๅฟœใ˜ใฆใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใŒๆฏŽๆ—ฅใฉใฎใ‚ˆใ†ใซ็”Ÿใใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ‚’็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจๆ€ใ„
27:09
you live each day depending on your daily routine. Um
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27:14
sometimes people tend to be a little heavier than they should
ใŸใพใซใ€ไบบใฏ ๆœฌๆฅใ‚ˆใ‚Šๅฐ‘ใ—้‡ใ„ๅ‚พๅ‘ใŒใ‚ใ‚Š
27:18
be. When they go to the doctor the doctor might say you need
ใพใ™ใ€‚ ๅฝผใ‚‰ใŒๅŒป่€…ใซ่กŒใใจใ ใ€ๅŒป่€…ใฏใ‚ใชใŸใŒ
27:21
to lose 10 pounds or you need to lose 20 pounds. Or you need
10ใƒใƒณใƒ‰ใ‚’ๅคฑใ†ๅฟ…่ฆใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ใ‹ใ€ใ‚ใชใŸใŒ 20ใƒใƒณใƒ‰ใ‚’ๅคฑใ†ๅฟ…่ฆใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ใจ่จ€ใ†ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ใ€‚ ใพใŸใฏใ€
27:25
to lose five kilos kilograms. Um so being overweight usually
5ใ‚ญใƒญใ‚ฐใƒฉใƒ ใ‚’ๅคฑใ†ๅฟ…่ฆใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ ใˆใˆใจใ€ๅคชใ‚Šใ™ใŽใฏ้€šๅธธ
27:30
results from having a stressful life your stressful life causes
ใ€ใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใฎๅคšใ„ ็”Ÿๆดปใ‚’้€ใ‚‹ใ“ใจใ‹ใ‚‰็”Ÿใ˜ใพใ™ใ€‚ใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใฎๅคšใ„็”Ÿๆดปใฏ
27:35
you to eat more because sometimes eating reduces stress
ใ€ ๆ™‚ใ€…้ฃŸในใ‚‹ใ“ใจใงใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚น
27:38
but it can make you a little bit overweight and so it can
ใŒ่ปฝๆธ›ใ•ใ‚Œใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใ€ใ‚ˆใ‚Šๅคšใ้ฃŸในใ‚‹ใ‚ˆใ†ใซใชใ‚Šใพใ™ใŒใ€ ๅฐ‘ใ—ๅคชใ‚Šใ™ใŽใซใชใ‚‹ๅฏ่ƒฝๆ€งใŒใ‚ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใ€ๅคชใ‚Šใ™ใŽใซ
27:43
just be stressful to be overweight. Not only that when
ใชใ‚‹ใจใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใซใชใ‚‹ๅฏ่ƒฝๆ€งใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ ใ€‚ ใใ‚Œใ ใ‘ใงใชใใ€
27:46
you're overweight I think you're stressed about your own
ๅคชใ‚Šใ™ใŽใฎใจใใฏ ่‡ชๅˆ†ใฎๅฅๅบทใซใ‚‚ใ‚นใƒˆใƒฌใ‚นใ‚’ๆ„Ÿใ˜ใฆใ„ใ‚‹ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™
27:51
health as well. So I'm honestly I am overweight right now. Um I
ใ€‚ ใ ใ‹ใ‚‰็งใฏๆญฃ็›ดใชใจใ“ใ‚ ็งใฏไปŠๅคชใ‚Šใ™ใŽใงใ™ใ€‚ ใˆใˆใจ
27:56
mean maybe you don't think so but I know when I go to the
ใ€ๅคšๅˆ†ใ‚ใชใŸใฏใใ†ใฏๆ€ใ‚ใชใ„ใ‹ใ‚‚ใ—ใ‚Œใพใ›ใ‚“ ใŒใ€็งใŒๅŒป่€…ใซ่กŒใใจใใ€
27:59
doctor he's going to say that I'm 15 to 20 pounds overweight.
ๅฝผใฏ ็งใŒ15ใ‹ใ‚‰20ใƒใƒณใƒ‰ๅคชใ‚Šใ™ใŽใ ใจ่จ€ใ†ใคใ‚‚ใ‚Šใ ใจ็Ÿฅใฃใฆใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚
28:03
Uh so I'm I guess I should work on that. I should I guess this
ใˆใˆใจใ€็งใฏใใ‚Œใซๅ–ใ‚Š็ต„ใ‚€ในใใ ใจๆ€ใ„ ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใ“ใฎ
28:07
image is for me. So because I want to be a healthy active
็”ปๅƒใฏ็งใฎใŸใ‚ใ ใจๆ€ใ„ใพใ™ใ€‚ ใงใ™ใ‹ใ‚‰ใ€็งใฏ้žๅธธใซ้•ทใ„้–“ ๅฅๅบทใงๆดปๅ‹•็š„ใชไบบใซใชใ‚ŠใŸใ„ใ‹ใ‚‰
28:11
person for a very very long time. I want to get old and I
ใงใ™ใ€‚ ๅนดใ‚’ๅ–ใ‚ŠใŸใ„ใ—ใ€ๅนดใ‚’
28:16
want to be healthy when I'm old. And in order to do that I
ใจใฃใŸใ‚‰ๅฅๅบทใซใชใ‚ŠใŸใ„ ใ€‚ ใใ—ใฆใใ‚Œใ‚’ใ™ใ‚‹ใŸใ‚ใซ็งใฏ็ง
28:19
need to make sure I stay fit. That means that I don't get too
ใŒๅฅๅบทใ‚’ไฟใคใ“ใจใ‚’็ขบ่ชใ™ใ‚‹ๅฟ…่ฆใŒใ‚ใ‚Šใพใ™ใ€‚ ใใ‚Œใฏ็งใŒๅคชใ‚Šใ™ใŽใซใชใ‚‰ใชใ„ใ“ใจใ‚’ๆ„ๅ‘ณใ—
28:23
overweight.
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